'My' simple answer is because men objectify women who are doing porn. The woman is just an object so a man could care less about watching her do anything with anyone. A man seeing a provider is completely different because emotion is involved and it's a 'real' situation to him.
Regardless of what a man says or thinks, 'no strings attached' only exists in a physical sense. Any intimate experience invokes an emotional response that at some level (different for each man and most likely different based on experience in hobbying) will naturally cause an emotional attachment. Where there is emotion, there is a sense of belonging. While we all know providers have been with other men, we don't want to see the evidence in most cases. In my opinion, that is why we can remain unemotional about porn and the images but we don't want to see 'our' provider with other men.If this topic has been covered before, I'm sorry for bringing it up again.
There's no doubt that you enjoy porn. So do I. If we can watch women having sex or sucking cock on film, why do most of you find it a turn off if a woman has dick pics or sex with other men posted on her website? Excluding porn stars, I'm referring to provider sites.
If this topic has been covered before, I'm sorry for bringing it up again.
Being 100% straight (no disrespect to bi-men out there) I don't want to see "dicks" when I visit a provider's website. I am looking to "date" her one-on-one as a "girlfriend". I only want to see pictures of her; how lovely she looks, she has to appear 100% AVAILABLE to ME. If she is in any pics with a guy then she loses some of her AVAILABILITY in my eyes. Who is the guy in the pics - a boyfriend? husband? That's the only reason in my opinion. This is for a GFE, now if I was looking specifically for a PSE lady then it wouldn't matter so much.
BTW - you are absolutely lovely!
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Thanks for the feedback and compliment! I've noticed on some sites ladies have a members only section. I wasn't sure if risque photos were in there or just a ploy to generate more income
I never bothered to "pay" extra to see if there are any "juicy" pics. I just go by what she already has on her website and her reviews. I have signed up on some "member" email-lists that were free and some ladies to send out a monthly "newsletter"
1) We aren't actually planning on fucking the girls in the porno's, at least not really soon.
2) We don't like seeing them in the porno's anyway, but it becomes a necessary evil sometimes.
3) We are animals. We would rather fight off the competition, then take the girl home.
4) The only dick we like is our own, and even that doesn't look so cool in the mirror.
5) Many men are becoming more domesticated, but can all go back to wild animal at any time.
Of course there are always exceptions to the rules, but I suspect most would agree.
I don't mind it really.. I mean we all know she sucks cock everyday right?
So whats a big deal if you see a cock or two on her site.. In fact I am meeting someone couple of weeks from now and there is pic of her doing BBBJ and RCG on her site.. No biggie
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This is why I asked the question! I wanted to get a gentlemen's perspective on the subject. Thanks again fellas!
A woman who looks like you should never say "sorry" to anybody! 
Personally, I wouldn't mind seeing some "action" shots on your website, as long as YOU are the highlight of the photos. If you are giving head in a photo, for instance, I don't really want to see much more of him than his cock, and focus on your lips, your face, your tongue, etc. If you are having intercourse, I want to see as much of your body as is possible, and as little of his - no more than is necessary to convey the action.
I'm not homophobic at all, but it is you I would be coming to see, and again pix of the guy would only be good to display and highlight your face, your body, your talents.
I do think that a lot of guys are going to say that they don't want to see other guys in your photos, but some will agree with me. Maybe you post those photos in a "locked" folder that guys have to request a password for? That way the guys who are turned off by it will never have to suffer through any trauma
I've seen people get barbecued on here for being repetitive with the topics. I wanted to extinguish the fire before it started. Lol! Thanks for the compliment and response!
Its Inferno! I've seen you in action. LMAO!
I only watch FF porn. I have no desire to see another guys dick.
'My' simple answer is because men objectify women who are doing porn. The woman is just an object so a man could care less about watching her do anything with anyone. A man seeing a provider is completely different because emotion is involved and it's a 'real' situation to him.
Regardless of what a man says or thinks, 'no strings attached' only exists in a physical sense. Any intimate experience invokes an emotional response that at some level (different for each man and most likely different based on experience in hobbying) will naturally cause an emotional attachment. Where there is emotion, there is a sense of belonging. While we all know providers have been with other men, we don't want to see the evidence in most cases.
In my opinion, that is why we can remain unemotional about porn and the images but we don't want to see 'our' provider with other men.
If this topic has been covered before, I'm sorry for bringing it up again.
...you are just beautiful, I can't think of a damn thing I would change about you except perhaps offering Greek to gentle and respectful clients and moving your operation to DC.
I am on board with others, having a stunning young women like yourself be "my girlfriend" for our time together is a big part of the fantasy for me, and seeing some other guy in the pictures is a huge, huge turn-off. I would assume you are correct about porn being even more prevalent in this community, but personally I view far less since I found this hobby. I am living my fantasies out now with some of the prettiest women I have ever seen, and watching porn isn't adding anythng to that experience at this point.
I do wish ladies in general would provide a better balance of photos on their websites, especially if they are going to be blurring their faces anyway. Let me see you in a dinner dress for that fantasy, in your gym clothes for that fantasy and be risque when the clothes come off. Show ALL the goods, a nicely presented photo of you from behind on your hands and knees with everything exposed is going to seal a lot of deals if you are willing to go there.
30% of men have a foot fetish, and I am guilty as hell. Show me your pretty feminine feet, in and out of stockings to signal your understanding that many men have this need and you will make them comfortable with it, and the aforementioned risque shot from behind and there is a very good chance you will receive an initial flirtation from me by PM and see where things go from there.
And good question, Alex.
I was born in DC, but grew up in Florida and New England (long story). Thanks for the kind words and commentary.
By all means, flirt away via DM (Twitter) or PM. Its welcomed and appreciated.
If you're ok watching it on film...
then why would it bother you to see a providers website photos with a dick in her mouth...
I don't mind the explicit photos, just don't make em too explicit... just my 0.03 cents.
1. It nice to see her skills on display during a bj clip, may even make me want one from her.
2. I have had a couple porn stars and I watch the movies within 24 hours of our appointment.
I enjoy porn and prefer mf to ff I don't like dick but I like seeing a girl get fucked good. Not a big fan of facials though.
although it's rare for a non Porn Star to have explicit shots. But having seen the pix on your site I'd love to see some explicit shots of you. It would not deter me from seeing you. Quite the opposite.
If this topic has been covered before, I'm sorry for bringing it up again.
If this topic has been covered before, I'm sorry for bringing it up again.
I am not interested in 'emotional' attachments and knowing I am with a working girl just turns me on. It may just be a personal fetish. And common! Seeing hardcore action does not make you gay. I like to imagine , I am the guy getting her off.
I have been with several providers that claim to provide deep throat but none of them could take it all. perhaps you want to showcase your skills. If you get off on exhibitionism, I would take you to a swingers club and you could show off your skills.
Your pictures are hot. I would crawl accross broken glass to see a provider like you but none visit the sticks where I live now. I am 100% strait but I don't mind seeing an action shot I have been in orgies and MFM I am just turned off at the thought of affection for a man Yuck I can see why girls like girls. I can't see why any man would not want to see you becase of any picture of you on your site.
I don't like the thought as I am DATY that she has seen 10 other guys before me so I trend to low volume providers. Only three swing dicks before me
guys don't want to be reminded how many guys you see in a day, so it just messes up the fantasy for some as if we don't know this already that you ladies are not virgins.