i posted this same thread on another board and it was definitely a fun, positive thread -- so i figured i'd give it a shot here

for me --

seeing a big smile on your face when i open the door does it.

being greeted by a long, snug hug and a soft, sensual kiss does it.  i'm often a little nervous seeing someone for the first time so that simple and affectionate gesture really helps to relax me.

when a man does NOT immediately reach for the most obvious 'hot spots' but instead teases me with barely-there touches all over my body, or runs his fingers through my hair, or kisses my neck...  oh yeah, that does it.

this may seem odd -- but when a fella brings his gift in an actual card (like, a greeting card or whatever) with a few sincere words scrawled therein -- i always end up having a wonderful time.  i don't know why, really... my theory is that it's a small but thoughtful gesture, and overall, thoughtful men are more sensitive -- emotionally AND physically/sensually/sexually...

by far, though, my favorite is when i run my fingers along my lover's flesh - and immediately, his eyes glaze over or close, lips part ever so slightly in a little sigh or gasp of pleasure, and his body begins to soften into the bed as he relaxes, melting into my touch... i KNOW i am going to have a blast.  i love a partner who is very sensitive physically!

so what are yours? EVERYONE is welcome to reply!

your lives!" after seeing me for the first time.

I know I'm in for a great session when the lady greets me with a relaxed smile and a nice kiss- not necessarily erotic at this point. If she's responsive to my lips on her neck and caresses and gives me a little smile that shows me she appreciates the attention, I know we're going to have a lot of fun! If she takes the time to learn a little about my body and how sensitive I am to touch, taste, smell, then it's going to be extra good! I love a lady who knows how to take charge and also how to relax and be pleasured. Yum!!

I am always excited when I find a lady who is as interested in the entire experience as I am. The more senses involved, the better!!

nothing beats a smile as we first meet...I always approach each encounter with great hopes.

-When you open the door it is the same girl as in the pictures
-Opens the door with a big smile and greets you with a DFK
-You notice she has no panties on
-You get a raging hard on upon seeing her

I have been seeing ladies I have seen before so its always good.  I am traveling to D.C. next week for sessions with 2 new ladies.  We have been emailing back and forth setting up the sessions with requests and such.  They have checked me out on datecheck.  Knowing for the first time is seeing their look on their face.  A smile with a nice kiss lets me know  they like what they see.

But for me it is when he walks in or I walk in and he has a huge smile! It's his energy.......even when he is really nervous.....if he is smiling....and is giving off good vibes....I can take it from there!

Just had my first date with a beautiful young lady who requires a two hour minimum. The first hour we sat in the hotel bar, and just talked, shared, and basically got comfortable with each other.  My thought was it was her way to turn an appointment into a date. Lots of touching, a few little kisses.

How did I know it was going to be great?

When she leaned over, kissed me, and whispered.."Let's go upstairs and fuck!"

I don't know....but I felt it was going to turn out ok.  And it did!!

INSTANT BONER. lmao

Unless I knew it was a gfe session i'd be a bit taken a-back if he tried to kiss me..... I like when they return the smile when I open the door, when saying hello I love hugs, when they make themselves comfortable like they're at home w/o me telling them so. I enjoy mutual touching and rubbing also.

Open the door with that fake smile and then it turns into a real one.

look at me from head to toe.

smell as good as they look.



AND if I get a boner before I see her naked or she touches me.

Agreed, there is no greater turn-on than to see her eyes light up!