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Someone contacting my reviewers
AmandaGreene See my TER Reviews 1873 reads
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There is someone with no posts or reviews that messages everyone who reviews me. They have been doing it for months. They ask the exact same  questions to everyone. The questions are about my location and things that are very invasive. I have their screen name in here. I’ve contact the mods but I’m not sure how to stop it.

I have been questioned by another reviewer on here regarding certain gals ive seen. Come off extremely intrusive and asks lots of personal info. Seems envious and obsessed.. I laugh it off and havent reported him.  

You do have to deal with some odd characters on here at times.

That;s absolutely insane. Like honestly the review should be enough. You shouldn't have to answer more questions after the fact.

Ive attemped to post the screenname on here but wont go through

In my younger years (and before this hobby) I may have been know to go beyond what may seem appropriate in my internet searches and inquiries. I'm not suggesting this is insignificant, but, it sounds to me like this person is socially insecure and a bit of a nerd.  Or, he's a stalker ;)

Sincerely,  
Lucy van Pelt
Psychiatrist

hehitshewins62 reads

This is a bit creepy. Have you tried sending him a message and asking what's up?

Really?  I'm thinking she should carry a 10' pole, if you catch my drift.

hehitshewins54 reads

Look, it could be a stalker. Or, it could be some guy who wants to see her, has never seen an escort, is super nervous, and is struggling to pull the trigger. A PM might shed some light.

I guess it's up to her.  He may become a solid regular.  What's it worth?  

I guess he may be (insert billionaires name here)

Jealous boyfriend,  ex, or other who suspects you're a sex worker and is looking for proof.

 
In any case, hopefully the clients he contacted kept your private information private.

I haven’t dated outside this in years. I’m focused on my goals. No one I know in my personal life would do something like that.

"If there is any doubt, there is no doubt."

Until proven otherwise, I would consider this person a risk and take whatever steps you think appropriate to protect yourself.

Invasive locations including location? I would throw red flags all over this one.

…i PM reviewers on ladies all the time…usually just the last two and i am respectful and only ask them to share what they are comfortable with and i have NEVER asked for an address of the provider or which hotel she hosted at (one instance). usually just “is it a safe area?” “is there a doorman?” etc

if they respond, then i am grateful for anything they say. if they ignore me, then that’s cool as well.

i never message EVERY SINGLE former client!  

while there could be something malicious afoot, he could be being extra cautious because your pics looks TGTB…(well reviewed white blonde american providers are a rarity here in nyc…not sure about orlando, fl)

good luck and be safe!

that TER will send this guy to the land of wind and ghosts.

and take action against this person for the sake of safety.

 
I believe that you have already discovered that most reviewers on here will act with integrity and let you know of the problem while not answering invasive questions.

 
I will personally not respond to questions that are asked rudely or abruptly, and would certainly not respond to any questions that asked me to reveal compromising information.

I think everyone ends up getting a stalker at some point in this hobby. I’ve had 2 in my time that have really tested my
patience. All you can do is make sure you keep your personal information private *with EVERYONE*, even small things about yourself you might not think is a big deal. There are a lot of scary people in this world.  Screening and privacy is key for both providers and clients in this hobby. It can go the other way too, clients also need to be careful. Someone can ask about you all they want, but if there isn’t much to be said then they can’t do much with it. Be safe.

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worried65 reads

Could it be LEO?

In my opinion that's extremely doubtful

A guy just posted he did this on another thread. They do this to find out if the reviewer is real as they think  if they only review one lady they are not real. I have several guys who have only seen me and I asked them to write a review because obviously after years of seeing me they would certainly know me. They don’t play the scene though they just see me.  

Now if they are asking all your reviewers and your reviewers have reviewed other ladies and not just you well then I would be entitled to think it’s a bf or someone you dated who is keeping tabs on you.

hehitshewins57 reads

A potential client may contact someone with just one review because they're worried they may be real. However, contacting those with numerous reviews could be with good intentions as well. I do it all of the time. Not because I am worried if they are real or not. Because they often are willing to talk about details they do not feel comfortable putting in their reviews. Guys know many of the ladies they are reviewing are reading these reviews. They become more cautious with what they are willing to write because of it. But in a PM, if they are VIP and willing to share, they are more likely to let their guard down and give it to you straight.

 
That said, the issue here is that the OP said this person is contacting everyone and has been doing it for quite some time. Either he is a psycho stalker or a very scared guy who doesn't know how to pull the trigger. When I am interested in seeing a lady, I exchange messages with a small number of reviewers over a brief period of time.

Most successful mongers who review develop a network of fellow reviewers they can contact back-channel for info about a girl that is more detailed than is in a review (YMMV stuff). But that's NOT what we're talking about here, where a guy is contacting every reviewer and asking for inappropriate stuff.  A BIG no-no.

Yes! And he/she has been doing it now for months. They claim to be new and just wanting information but the wording and information they want is not the typical “new guy”.

Set the guy up to figure out who it is if possible.  

Sorry you have to deal with this. Some people fucking suck. Bad

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