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Not always.....however......if the gal say's "I Don't Have Any"....That could mean they don't mind if you use one----but it isn't my thing.....Just  Sayin' (and bet you have heard this a few times.....!  (Most of the gal's on here won't comment or won't agree....but they know)!

Will all been there at some point where you get the appt and foreplay is going wonderful and hot/heavy!

Than come time for the whoopie.

Guy is ready and asks girl you have the condom?
Girl, NO I don't have any you didn't bring any or you should provide one not me (girl).

WTF, date started off great, than all hell breaks loose on the argument you (girl) should provide not me (guys).

 
Ladies - What is your opinon?

Guys - should she provide?

I presume we’re discussing professional companions here, not civilian hookups? That seems astoundingly unprofessional for an escort not to have condoms.

I always have condoms, a variety of them, at least 3 of each type for an hourlong date. I want us to be protected, and pleasurably so.

Exactly, that's like a hairdresser asking why you didn't bring your own shampoo.

Never ran into that issue, thankfully. My assumption is she always provides and they always have.  

I have started bringing my own on occasion as sometimes they are a bit snug and not everyone carries a larger size. But I was always curious if the ladies think that is  a concern or happy that I’m coming prepared to enjoy our time together.  

I've heard tell that some brands/makes of condoms can cause an allergic reaction for some ladies or just not have a good compatibility with their personal chemistry. Plus, it is something of a business expense, a bit like going to a restaurant but them saying they don't have utensils for eating and expected you to bring your own.

 
That said I have had some say they expect the customer to provide the condoms and that condoms are required -- but that has been overseas. I think as long as it's known in advance if doesn't matter much, but as you mention, if where is the condom turns into the surprise question of the session that is not good.

just MO, both parties should be prepared.

I have never encountered a situation where a provider hasn't had condoms available.  That being said, I prefer to use my own since I'm not a huge fan of latex, and I find the Skyn brand the most enjoyable to use.  Fortunately, those seem to be the most popular among the providers I've visited!

I agree. I always provide my own with different plus depending on the woman, like myself, I can only use certain brands due to sensitivity. But I believe to have a great time without any interruptions definitely have condoms on hand so the date goes smoothly.

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If I’m paying a pro, I expect her to have condoms. I generally book experienced, well reviewed, high end ladies. Every single one of them understands this assignment. The only time I ever had an escort not have a condom was when I first started and booked a cheap, lower end, provider. She was very quick to say, “Oh well I guess I will just blow you.” It almost felt planned.

This scenario sounds much more likely to occur in a high school, backseat make out session or a bar hook-up scenario.... not a paid encounter with a pro (unless a borderline scammer, as previously noted). Regardless, as a *service provider*, the duty to supply a variety of the necessary tools of the trade naturally falls to the *service provider*. Duh🤪  
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Most of us carry a variety of makes and models (including F2) and can accommodate 99.7% of gent's needs. Is it ever a bad idea for a gent to carry his particular preference just in case? Nah. Being a boy scout can come in handy (rimshot) every now and then.

Yes, it is the provider's obligation to have condoms available. That said, I usually bring my own because I prefer the more expensive brands that offer greater sensitivity.
This is also very true in countries like Costa Rica. Girls there ALWAYS have condoms available but they are cheap crap and it feels like putting on a trash bag.

Happened to me twice in the last few years. Nothing like having to make a mad dash to the convenience store with a throbbing hardon (yes--I did get dressed first).

The first lady apologized profusely and did some extra stuff to make up for the distraction. The next time it happened, it was with a duo. What are the chances both providers would forget condoms? Felt a little like a setup. When I returned with condoms, their attitudes were "Eh--stuff happens".  Not cool.

My inference has long been that a lady should provide covers not only out of professionalism, but also for her health and safety because she will know what type and brand work best for her, and that the condoms are neither old nor tampered with.

The “tampered with” part is key and why the SW should provide the protection.  

Yes, the provider should always have protection as others pointed out. I like to bring my own, which I may prefer over the providers brand. But I have had some providers tell me that they will not use condoms that the client brings in because they might be tampered with i.e. holes poked in them or something. I don’t know who the hell would want that, but it’s a legitimate fear.

As far as I'm concerned it's the provider's responsibility to have them.  

 
One time years ago I was seeing a lady for the first time and she let me know in advance that I needed to stop and get some. At least I had notice and it wasn't a big deal.  

 
More recently I saw a fairly well-known Baltimore area provider for the third time. Got to the hotel and the action started and when it came time for the main event she said "I'll grab a condom". Nothing in or on the nightstand and she went into her purse and nothing there either. She said "I'll look in the bathroom maybe I left them there". I could tell from the way she was acting that she knew from the start that she didn't have any.  

 
She came back to me with this sheepish look on her face and said she didn't have any and asked me what I wanted to her to do and offered to run out and get some. I didn't feel like hanging around by myself for who knows how long and wondered if she'd even return. It wasn't a total loss since she really was totally gifted but it was still disappointing. I had other issues with her on different visits so I never went to see her again, especially since she didn't offer anything to me as a make up.

When I first started out I had an experience where on an extended date, I ran out of condoms. I believe I had only brought 4 and wasn’t really expecting the gent to have as much stamina as he did.  I haven’t made that mistake again, lol!

Not always.....however......if the gal say's "I Don't Have Any"....That could mean they don't mind if you use one----but it isn't my thing.....Just  Sayin' (and bet you have heard this a few times.....!  (Most of the gal's on here won't comment or won't agree....but they know)!

Color me crazy, but if I provider even hints that she does BBFS, I'm getting the fuck out of there.

And the really good ones will have many toys on hand for men to use as well! lol

suggest that I bring my own - simply because I like the fit and feel. If she objects, then it is her obligation and I use the ones she provides.

Mind sharing what your preferred brand/style are? Just curious.

I make sure I’m fully prepared at all times. I’ve never experienced a situation where supplies were an issue.

NoShoreBeantown66 reads

Can vouch for this! I’ve seen Aiza many times now & she always has all the necessary supplies to make for an outstanding session. From bottles of water to all the required bathroom essentials, not only does Aiza bring the heat she also is very thoughtful and makes sure everything is there for a phenomenal date! We always have an excellent time together too 😘

Ah, music to my ears!! I really appreciate it ❤️‍🔥 I love when someone actually pays attention to the details—just like I do. I’m always well prepared, rain, shine, or trouble! lol Date #11 is long overdue.😚

Posted By: NoShoreBeantown
Re: Yes
Can vouch for this! I’ve seen Aiza many times now & she always has all the necessary supplies to make for an outstanding session. From bottles of water to all the required bathroom essentials, not only does Aiza bring the heat she also is very thoughtful and makes sure everything is there for a phenomenal date! We always have an excellent time together too 😘

0wn  "Tools"?  
Definitely "Provider" should  provide!

Indeed,  I've  a  fully-stocked
"Seduction Kit"  bedside.

Additionally,  a  duplicate  "Kit"  in  my
vehicle,  placed  in  an  insulated
convenient-for-flight,  Roller-Luggage
Carrier,  since  San Diego  sunshine  can  damage  Condoms, Candles  and  Liquids...
Restocked  after  every  use.

Said  "Kit" Contains:

√  Numerous  varietals  of  Condom  types,
    sizes,  sensations  &  Female  Condoms                                      
       
√  Lubes  to  tickle  one's  fancy:
      -  "Silky Lite"
      -   Slightly  thicker  viscosity  
      -   Edible / Inedible  
      -   Unflavored
      -   Flavored  :  🍒 🫐 🍓 🍊 🍌 🍇🍍  
          🍑🍐🍋 🥝 🍬🍨  

 
√  Scented  &  Unscented  Massage  0ils
    &  Hand-Held  Massage  Tools  &
    Accoutrements  ( I'm  a  Licensed  CMT )  

√  Unscented  Faux  Travel  Candles  &
     Lightly-Scented  &  Unscented  Real  
     Candles  for  home-use  &  matches

√  Handcuffs  ( "Standard  Issue" con  key )
    &  Furry,  soft,  patterned  Cuffs  for  my
    "shy" Gents;
    ( I  only  enjoy  "soft"  Bdsm  &  Fetish )

√  Blindfolds / Feathers / Silk  Scarves  &  
     Various  External  "Sexxy Toys"

√   Disposable  Unscented  Washcloths          
      aka "Body  Wipes"  &  Disposable
      Unscented  "Bacterial"  Wipes  

√   New / Unopened / "Airline-Approved"
     Travel-Sizes  of  every  personal  amenity
           
√   (2) 48-Pack  Bottled  H2o  

√   An  extensive  cache  of  clothing,  shoe
     and  jewelry  genres  for  various
     0ccasion  &  Function.
     Most-important  however  is  a  vast
      selection of:

       •  "Classy", "Sexy", "Slutty" Lingerie;

           Silky Thigh-Highs,  Garters,  Fishnets
           Neutral  &  Colorful  Textures,  Prints
           "Stripper Heels",  Thigh-High  Suede
           or  Leather  Boots,  Edible,  Crotchless
           Panties...
   
⏳ 🥂 💋  Happy  New  Year  TER  Amigos!    

Most providers that I have been with like to provide their own since they know what feels good for them.  

I always have some ready just in case.  

I find that most providers are ok with the bbfs these days. I dont think ive seen a condom in awhile.

Incall or Outcall, I always provide. In addition, especially when it's an Incall date, I will provide the beverages and anything else necessary to create the 'vibe' I'm going for. To expect the man to provide condoms themselves makes no sense to me, as they are literally paying for our 'time.' It's a given.

Chloe Ave (yes, I named her) is the only provider that called me on the way to an appt and asked me to stop and buy protection. I thought it was very weird but she stated that she didn't have time to get any. That's the only instance when something along these lines has happened to me. Provider's not proving condoms is like your doctor asking you "...did you bring bandaids and a stethoscope?"... it's like your mechanic asking you "...did you bring a wrench?"...it's like your barber asking you "...did you bring scissors?..." it's the tools of their trade; they need to provide them.

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