Just something to consider. Many lady's offer "up to" an hour service, so your clients may be conditioned to think that after they get off, the date is over. Does your body language indicate that the session is over i.e. get up and run the shower for them, start getting dressed, leave the room and tell them to get dressed? Does the guy just assume the date is over and proceed to make his way to the bathroom or starts putting on his clothes. If he does do this do you indicate that "There is no rush to leave if you don't want to" or "you still have some time left". OR are you relieved when they do assume that the date is over? Would you be willing to spend the full hour?
Communication is the key. It seems that there may be a breakdown on both parties. If you don't feel comfortable engaging in that conversation, then you may want to indicate on your website that your service is for the full hour. If a guy can't take the hint then its his loss. I think a lot of guys have an anxiety about that. I on't know many who would tyrn away a full hour of companionship. Some guys can only pour one cup in that time, some guys multiple. Some guys will try to prolong the date if they know they have to leave as soon as they achieve (hey that rhymes). Some guys are just quick shooters and they feel cheated, ashamed, fill in the blank, if they feel they will be shown the door 15 minutes after getting there. Some lady's pride themselves on how quickly they can get things over with for their heart is into the money and not service aspect of the business.
Again, I think the key is communication on both ends. Guys should asks prior to the date if it is for the full hour or up to an hour. Lady's should be honest enough to answer the question though I doubt many lady's who are up to an hour would answer honestly for fear of loosing business. Also I think both sides need not play dumb. I understand the need not to be explicit during setting up a date especially if the client is a new one but, also don't play dumb like neither understand what is implied if the question of full hour or up to an hour comes up.
I always try to communicate my expectations ahead of time so that neither of us are disappointed with the encounter. I once had a situation when the lady indicate that yes she was for the full time and then did the get up and run the shower for me routine. I paid for two hours and she was truing to run me after one. I said no problem and promptly took back what I felt was a fair amount of my fee for the time that was offered. Yes we argued, and she tried to lie and say she never said full 2 hours. No difference, I got a portion of my money back but had to go through drama to get it.
One time I had someone leave after a half hour. I felt AWFUL but he swore up and down that he had to be somewhere and had known he'd only be able to stay a half hour, and paid my full rate. It wierds me out when that happens, I feel like I've done something wrong, so I always always make it clear that they are welcum to stay! I've only had it happen a few times, but both times I think it was honestly just a schedule conflict and the clients were *gentlemen* and paid for the full hour... since it was their choice to leave early.
I moved from Las Vegas to Northern CA. While in Vegas I specialized in the "Courtesan and GFE". Where I am now the girls "hit it and quit it". Almost all of the girls here do this so the poor gentlemen are used to it and put up with it.
When I tell gentlemen that this is "un-rushed" gfe, that they can DFK, DATY (and other fun things) and "Pop" as often as they like within that hour THEY THINK I'M LYING!!!! lol! I havent even told them about the scented candles, soft music, warm bubble bath (or shower) they can share with me. I tell them that I consider myself a courtesan, and where I come from the gfe is an "ART". The gentlemen in this area seem to want a TRUE courtesan/gfe experience so badly, but they dont trust anyone to "really" provide one.
My answer is no. In fact, whether or not I decide to see a provider again is largely determined by what she does after the pop. If she makes like she wants me to leave, I don't go back. If she makes it clear she is ready to hug, talk, make out, etc., then I stay and maybe I get ready for another pop, or maybe I just get a kick out sharing a bed with a young beautiful woman. But for sure, that lady gets a repeat visit.
Even in AMPs, my tip is largely dependent on that one defining moment. If, after the pop, she offers more massage, the tip can be 10-30% more. If she offers a second pop I make an appointment to see her again soon, and maybe bring gifts, just so she knows the extra service is super appreciated.
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