I wonder how much they really care, to be honest. I fall into the third category. I do it for my own self esteem and not to impress anyone else. Maybe it's better to be me than Chris Farley (assuming he's not rich); but between toned and average, or even stocky; I think it matters little to them. Maybe if you also have a face like George Clooney it would help. Even outside the hobby, lots of attractive women voluntarily date heavyset guys, and not even rich ones. On the few occasions I saw the boyfriends of providers I had seen, they were far from fit. But obviously it depends on the person.