If you participate in the hobby and discover at the last minute that the client or provider has a cold sore do you stop the appointment ?

or

Don't kiss and do every thing covered daty and blow jobs.

What if you saw the client/provider in the past with out any cold sores and then you see them with cold sores, what would you do ?

Is acne on the lips the same as herpes ?

What are good ways to detect acne on the lips and/or herpes sores without being to obvious if you are seeing client or a provider ?

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I have never rejected anyone for cold sores on the mouth.  I might avoid their mouth, but they have other parts.  Maybe deduct a point in the review, get over it.  

PS: This is not a good place for medical advise.  Nor is it a good hobby for the squeamish.

Do you use any keywords in your reviews to indicate if there are any cold sores ?

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you'd have mail if it wasn't an alias.
(no not giving shit, lol.)
However, there are places to look this stuff up about what cold sores are and the tranferring from one party to another. Why people develope them? Usually stress induced, I believe. (Don't quote me on that.)
Personally, I've never had one. I had a BF in High School who did and said he didn't want to kiss me until it was gone for fear of giving me one.
Nice guy.
AR

Cold sores are large open sores or even closed blisters ON the lip - and those should be avoided at all costs, b/c those are HSV (herpes) type 1 sores, although HSV type 2 can also show up orally.  If things like DFK and BBBJ are essential to your experience, avoid them, but as long as your partner does not have sores on their genitals, you're safe to engage in other activities.

Acne ON the lips? I've never heard of that, in all honesty.  However, I do sometimes get a blemish at the very edge of my lip.  That is not herpes - I know b/c I get blood tested for both strains twice annually.

See  The  Doctor ! !

You have and will get alot of good faith thoughts and suggestions here. you can also get a lot of info on line but there is only one way to really know what you have and that is See  The  Doctor.


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XLIII = 4

I do get checked on a regular basis. Not too long ago I saw a provider spots on her. I nicely told her that I have to cancel the appointment and that I did not feel comfortable seeing with the pimple spots on her body (back, butt, arm). She went to see a doctor to get taken care of.

Now you're stating that she had pimples on her back, butt and arm and that's why you wouldn't see her. Which is it? Pimples on the body or cold sore on the mouth?

There is another provider that I saw in the past and I discovered she had cold sore. She gives cbj and did not kiss. I won't see her again.

A few years ago I saw a provider 2 times. The first time I saw her I did not see a cold sore. The 2nd time I saw her she had a cold sore, never saw her again.

Maybe he needs to see my cousin
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XLIII = 4

Grow a pair, pal. This ain't high school, and actually safer than then. Shit, I have no problem daty on my provider knowing she might've been with other gents before me. These ladies take such good care of themselves. Makes me ashamed of my own personal habits sometimes!

A provider who has a cold sore should not be working until it is clearly healed and gone.

And just the same, a hobbiest should not see a provider until the cold sore is cleared and gone.

Why do u even participate in the hobby? If u r sooo paranoid and delusional as to think a pimple on a girl's back (or butt, or whatever) is reason to freak out and make her leave, it doesn't sound like this is the thing for u. Acne is not an std.

Web md(www.webmd.com) and the center for disease(www.cdc.gov) control are excellent sources for information.

I presented a power point presentation on this very subject for my science class (and grossed everyone out). Don't just go by seeing an actual bump or blister. Herpes can present without breakout, heck the commercials say that.

In this provider/hobbyist world, nothing is an absolute. So you cannot be absolutely safe, so either recuse yourself from this playing field or go in with eyes wide open. Do your research and take precautions. I do. I have a damn good time with my friends, but I go in healthy and apprised of all possibilities. Now you do the same.

Enjoy and be safe. A moments pleasure is not worth a lifetime of regret. Who said that?

Mackenzi

She went to the doctor and diagnosed with scabies. Very sad because she has to under go a treatment for 4-5 months.