It will be time for me to move on when I reached the goals the hobby has helped me to be able work towards. Every girls needs an escape plan, a plan B, goals. I don't think there is an age on this but when a provider reached a goal or certain place in her life that tells her its time to move on.
When is enough ?
When do you think is enough years to provide ?
Is it something you don't mind doing for the rest of your life ?
I didn't want to be in this business but a couple of years. Those two years came and went, and I had grown to enjoy it even more than when I'd first started. I see many of older women- women into their 50s- who are beautiful providers. They seem to really enjoy what they do and the men seem to love spending time with them- and their business doesn't seem to be lacking at all due to their age. I no longer know how long I want to be in the hobby, but if I'm 50 and I've still "got it" and still enjoy it, I'm going to have no qualms.
First Asian elvis, now this guy .
I see the mods have QUITE the tolerance for stupid questions--------lMAO !
This is actually right on topic for the GD board.
Nothing resembling AE's stupid question about blood types will actually reach the board again unless I am passed out in a drunken stupor. Which means there is about a fifty fifty chance each day. lol
DO I know you ?
What is stupid about what I asked ?
Many today are two young and too stupid to claim they love what they do, but you'll hear that refrain until you are ready to puke. The career gals are the best at answering this and sadly many of them stay to long and don't do enough with their earnings to build a different life, hence the retire and un-retire cycle. I am not sure there is a magic number. The idea of longevity depends on temperament and looks primarily because this is a business driven by hobbyist's willingness to maintain a relationship with the provider well into her best years. If she ages gracefully, she'll likely be smarter than most when it comes to being someone they'll want to see over and over again. My oldest regular friend is 45 her next birthday, looks early thirties and still has an incredible body for her years. I've known her and have seen her regularly for seven years, and its doubtless that she works at it. Will she do it much longer, I'd be surprised if she does, but only she can make that determination. I do know that she's more addicted to the lifestyle the extra cash has created, but she could go off into the sunset with the other skills I know she possesses.
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and I will quit when this becomes actual work. Right now I still feel like I get to play with pretty much everyone. The more demanding ones sometimes don't get the best of my because I am weighed down under exceptions of what they want me to be which is not always the best me. Aside from those rare time I still have a fucking blast and even have another orgy gang bang planned for early Dec. Love, love, love it!!!
Let "Providers" answer the question for once ????
Geez,it didn't say,"Guys", how long are you going to provide!!!!
How about just sitting back and listening to the ladies for once!!!(ya might learn something)
If it stops feeling like playtime before then, so be it. I'd rather get out before I become a jaded man-hater even if it means I have to endure the corporate rat race again. If I reach my goals and it's still fun, then I'll date until it's no longer something that brings me joy!
Every lady has different circumstances for providing and how long she feels she wants to be in this business.When it is not fun anymore and I do not find joy anymore in what I do then it is time to move on.At this time I am having fun being Independent,meeting new interesting people,and creating unforgettable memories for the gentleman that I do see.Can I see myself doing this forever realistically speaking No I have other aspirations in life that I want to fulfill and explore.There are no age requirement in this business that when a lady gets a certain age that she has to hang it up there are ladies young and older whatever makes a person happy in their life that is the main thing.
I really do not think it depends on age. For me it is more about how I feel about myself and am I still enjoying what I am doing with my life. As a mature provider, I get many people seeking me out because as they put it, "I don't want to feel like I'm f***ing my daughter or grandbaby". I can respect that. So in the meantime,, as long as I am having fun and the phone is ringing I'm here for a while.
When to stop?
Let's see ... it's not the best thing to do: not every clients are nice, may get arrested, hard to get enough regular clients to pay for everything, it carries certain society's stigma ...
But, it pays.
When and at what age to call it quit? "As soon as I get that job I'm happy with (be it whatever). I'm hot enough that men want to pay me, I don't want to work in a Starbuck's where my supervisor always want to take advantage of me."
I'm in my late 50s. If I can justify fucking a provider in her early twenties or even late teens, providers should be able to justify staying in there as long as the young or old guys want to fuck them. I've been with a provider in her early 60s and another that was only a couple years younger than I. What with plastic surgery, experience, and attitude, I can attest that they can certainly be lots of fun.
As long as we stay in the gym, can hire personal trainers, and the phone keeps ringing, why not?
Variety is the spice of life. Some like em young, some like em midrange, and some like em mature.
Why can't there be a choice for everyone's tastes?
I will be 45 in November and things are still going great. I am often still carded, and often told I don't look a day over 35. Life is good and I will work it as long as I can.
When do you think is enough years to provide ?
Is it something you don't mind doing for the rest of your life ?
It will be time for me to move on when I reached the goals the hobby has helped me to be able work towards. Every girls needs an escape plan, a plan B, goals. I don't think there is an age on this but when a provider reached a goal or certain place in her life that tells her its time to move on.