That'd be a fun time...don't you think?
London is a hoot...you would like chatting with her. She's just as unfiltered as I am...hard to believe but true LOL And the Chicago gals catty....yea, a fewI think I have a deficiency or something. Not that I go out of bounds/line often.
I've always looked at this profession from the ultimate extremes.
Who do I trust enough to decide what is safe for me? Me.
Who do I envy enough to be jealous of? No one.
When do my choices hurt me and others? Sometimes, but hopefully not often.
Do I change who I am because something or someone takes advantage of my natural optimism, to my detriment? Nope.
I LOVE my Chicago independent workers, but maybe that's because they are on to something! They have created a foundation, flawed as anything, but supportive and changing and growing. Most of these girls and Bad Ass!
I don't take anyones reference for more than it's worth and especially if I don't know them.
London, London, we should meet! Lol
Some of these local boards have providers who hate touring hookers. What's that all about? Lol
This is a head scratcher
I don't give a shit about any of the local hookers having issues with the touring hookers. Now...if they want to have a trainwreck...I'm all in LOL
Gee, don't blame the touring providers if you are not making enough money in this business. Go get ANOTHER job! It really evens out if you think about it. When I used to tour, we had a ton of ladies touring my town the weeks I would go somewhere else...we both made money. It's tacky to show how desperate you need money by bashing women coming into not, "YOUR," but the town you live in.
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When touring ladies come to town, the locals lose business, as everyone flocks to see the touring lady.. Seeing a local would always be put on back burner, because the new hottie in town, is only here for a few days.... And before this hottie is gone, the next hottie comes....
What is so hard dude?
Yep, exactly. When you tour, you are ALWAYS the new girl. You know how many cities we have in the U.S. alone? That's a lot of "new" lol.
Believe me when I say I'm not scratching too hard lol
When the fuck did proof have anything to do on any of these boards. (not to say the OP doesn't have any)
I'd agree that many local girls dislike the idea of new girls coming into town. In fact, in Chicago, the biggest base of "tasting hobbiests" tend to prefer the touring companion. It's a little like spreading your scent a longer distance
Adding that the biggest local complaint seems to emphasize the recent lack of "regulars" based on regulars finding something "new."
My thoughts on this subject are that like all businesses, there is a point of no return. If I offer exactly what so and so offers at such and such rate, without any market plan, I might not like my results.
If I tend to devalue myself with targeted exclamations and undesired menu options, I might actually come to devalue my experience.
We are all here for the same reason. We don't need to scream it to sell it.
What we local girls need to do more is support each other, adult and independent, globally.
We have a very special freedom and to negatively attack the girls that travel, or anyone for that matter goes against what we are supposed to be about: An openness to things, people, ideas, lifestyles and our sexual selves that most people are too afraid to embrace.
I also have a theory that this recent so called explosion of nsnc's for touring companions lacked one basic element. A phone call. Maybe some bored and angry local girl decided to book appointments...Xo's
Just a thought
I've seen that happen too...the part where you touched on local guys and gals booking the touring ones just to cancel. What happens is her dance card fills up before she leaves town so she thinks her trip is set. Then, when she gets there, 4 out of 6 guys who prebooked cancel, leaving her pretty much fked unless she is one to not screen and do last minute. This is also a way for local guys to get discounts. They figure if so and so gets cancelled on 4 times, she will have to offer a discount to make up that money, and then mysteriously a slew of men email her that last day. Fkin idiots.
Guess what...cover your own ass, because no one else will. I am appalled at how many refs I have given over the years and I generally respond in less than an hour, just to not get shit in return when I need one. Well...that's why I don't go for this sisterhood and all for one shit, because very few women in this business would I ever trust. Many are so damn catty and jealous of anyone that makes more money and does less work, they deserve to be stuck in their miserable lives.
I've given a reference to the same bitch that outed me! I won't take one from her, but I sure did give her one. Now, let me catch her at the mall and I am not above beating her ass, but in this business I will help anyone out. I am sick to death of women who blame other women for THEIR mistakes in life. It is not another provider's fault that you have to charge bargain basement rates when she does not. It is not her fault you have to fk 10 guys a week when she only has to see 2. It is not her fault she is 110 lbs and you're 150, and the list goes on.
This is why I have always favored hanging around with men...no drama!
Seriously.......thanks gals. I'd no idea schmucks did some of that mierda. Damn....no wonder ya'll sound like you're on the rag most times.
Truthfully, I've seen a lot of changes in this industry. My biggest recent help has come from the men and my biggest complaint is that too few girls, share what is necessary. It's all fear.
I think I have a deficiency or something. Not that I go out of bounds/line often.
I've always looked at this profession from the ultimate extremes.
Who do I trust enough to decide what is safe for me? Me.
Who do I envy enough to be jealous of? No one.
When do my choices hurt me and others? Sometimes, but hopefully not often.
Do I change who I am because something or someone takes advantage of my natural optimism, to my detriment? Nope.
I LOVE my Chicago independent workers, but maybe that's because they are on to something! They have created a foundation, flawed as anything, but supportive and changing and growing. Most of these girls and Bad Ass!
I don't take anyones reference for more than it's worth and especially if I don't know them.
London, London, we should meet! Lol
That'd be a fun time...don't you think?
London is a hoot...you would like chatting with her.
She's just as unfiltered as I am...hard to believe but true LOL
And the Chicago gals catty....yea, a few
Of course not the ones I know!
I think I have a deficiency or something. Not that I go out of bounds/line often.
I've always looked at this profession from the ultimate extremes.
Who do I trust enough to decide what is safe for me? Me.
Who do I envy enough to be jealous of? No one.
When do my choices hurt me and others? Sometimes, but hopefully not often.
Do I change who I am because something or someone takes advantage of my natural optimism, to my detriment? Nope.
I LOVE my Chicago independent workers, but maybe that's because they are on to something! They have created a foundation, flawed as anything, but supportive and changing and growing. Most of these girls and Bad Ass!
I don't take anyones reference for more than it's worth and especially if I don't know them.
London, London, we should meet! Lol
Don't get me wrong...I have about 5 women in this business that I adore and consider friends, but no...I don't spend too much time hanging out with hookers on my off time lol. Just not what I do. If we have to see a guy together or I throw a party, sure, but I can't think of the last time I just spent time with another provider just because. I am always happy to offer a place to work from, dinner, clients to ladies who pass through, but that's about it.
No fucking drama...a sweetheart.
Rarely posts here...but always thoughtful when she does.
You'll have to buy this time around...are you game?
You'll just have to find a deduction. Or chalk it up to an expense that could not be avoided
Alright, I'm done for the night/month...Xo's
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But she knows like you know....
CPA always pays ![]()
... men = no drama ?????? what color is the sky in your world darlin' ???
you've obviously never supervised a crew of 20 guys :
Guess you're still cleaning up at the glory hole.
.... men = no drama ?????? what color is the sky in your world darlin' ???
you've obviously never supervised a crew of 20 guys
ou still amuse me bookkeeper...
Go and find where I ever used the "glory hole" in a post here.
That should keep you busy for months and off the boards.
Oh...and you can keep on guessing as to what I do for a living...you're not even close LOL
you still amuse me bookkeeper...
Boston Ma. please