The last few months I have noticed that I have had a provider or two either cancel or tell me that they did not want to see me as they felt I was not a good "Match" for them. At first I thought it was just a fluke and accepted it with no problem. But again today I received another message from a well known lady I was planning to see who basically said after some thought and reading she felt I was not a good match for her????

She mentioned my reviews but most all my reviews are decent and should not lead any provider to feel I am some sort of a bad client or "Not there type". Before I contact any woman I do research and read reviews to insure she offers what I like, so I am not contacting anyone who doesn't meet my needs.

So tonight I took some time to just do a google search using not only my name here, but my phone number or any other identifying info a provider may have.

Long behold, what do I find???? I find a TOTALLY falsified made up "Badboyreport" report that someone made under my screenname I use here!!! There is nothing at all in this report  that is true, its is 100% false and made up, even the ph# and name is wrong! What is correct is my screen name I use here.  

If I was a provider I would RUN and lock my door after reading that report...OMG, Im pissed!

Have any of you gents out there ever had an issue like this that was totally false and if so how did you handle it. Im thinking of deleting my profile here and never using this name again as this report I found is that bad and makes me look like Im some sort of Nasty, crazed rapist! WTF

Muffy

You can change your screen name. If the phone number is incorrect and it is simply your screen name that is identifying you just send an e-mail to admin requesting a change of name. End of story.

Thanks, I did not know you could do that here....I really hate to change my name as I do like it very much, but with that totally false report following me.... I dont have much of a choice!

Muffy

etc. get changed automatically.

OP prompted me to goog my handles and i'm astounded how common they are.  I paid a team of monkeys to bang out the most random handles possible and now thinking of demanding all the bananas back!

After reading your post, I googled "badboyreport," which I had never before heard of. There several companies devoted to removing, or at least burying, a false report on that site.  

I also went to the badboyreport website itself (link below) to check out whether I am listed. I was relieved to find that I am not. Other TER members may want to do the same.  

By the way, this is from their so-called Removal Policy: "We do not remove reports, comments, posts and/or topics if you ask us directly. These will not be removed even if the statements are claimed to contain defamatory allegations. Only the submitter or an arbitration service can remove a post here."

The internet never forgets...

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Smart guys And my common miss spelling and how i talk is a turn off and they cant see how i survive.

What does it mean when the bad boy site will not let you in?

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I don't think your problem has anything to do with highjacking of your screen name. That is a smokescreen. Dude, I checked your 18 reviews and you did not see a single provider in 3 years who merited a score above 7 for appearance or above 9 for performance. That is amazing.  In college students avoid lousy graders like the plague. I think they checked your legitimate reviews and decided they didn't want to see you, which is understandable. Poor and negative TER reviews hurt their business. If your scores are that bad across the board, where are you getting the providers? BackPage?

We have a misunderstanding on our end and then we get a well known hobbyist pm ing guys and stating to not see us they had a bad time................

 
  I had one guy come here after i was crying on the phone, i told him i was at hospital for my back. I had a friend come by to take trash out for me that week. I couldnt even lift a 15 lb bag of laundry from laundry mat, My right side my lower back was tweaked.......

 

    I also was out a money had not worked all week. It was a huge snow storm.

 
   I was overwhelmed but he said fine.. No appt. Let me just ":be a friend to you" no appt, I am near your place lets go pick up your laundry, {which he had to carry for me it was washed dryed n folded} i was unable to lift like even a trash bag or laundry bag that week..................ouch! it sucked. my lower rright side my back was in alot pain.  

 

 

            so i go with him we get laundry, I realize ok, i have this guy here, lets pull it together and do a massage, give him 100 bucks off, ................

 
   so i offer a hour full body sensual massage with bbj, i knew i wasnt capable of gymnastics so i did a discount rate at 150 for hour. we did some dfk, a long massage, then a bbj but more like a bbj til I collapsed. far from a happy ending! it was more like a pse bbj til your neck is gonna break and fore arms are burning, A combo or bbj then tryin to use hand with a nice combo of balls tugs and massages and licks. well over the hour! and all the otc talking and shpwing me pictures of thier dog, thier house in maine, Telling about thier daughter.

 

                        then he takes 20 back out the little 150 i just blew my neck out for.

I didnt realize he did this til after when he drop me at target.

 
               I was bullshit!

 
he had deducted the money it cost to "oh let me just be afriend n help ya."

 
 the laundry was 15 the coffee n a sandwich at dunk another like 7.

 
so he took the extra cash back we spent on my coffee and laundry . I never wanted the appt anyways he kept begging me oh come on let me just be your friend n help you, he made me think he was a kind soul. i wasnt feeling good n he knew this. i apply discount as well knowing I was sore back..................bad enough to not have been capable of carrying a laundry bag .

 

I spazzed n texted you asswipe! what the hell i will find your house asshole!

 
I know where you live.  

 
whatever. i had not known shit, i never screened his ass.  
I was angry for obvious reasons. I felt i gave a god deal then got even more robbed than was needed.

 
  I find out from another well known alias i serviced. That this same guy is telling other guys NOT to see me, i sucked he had terrible time.......

 
He did know i was not in good shape, in fact i was crying when he caled for the appt on the phone before i met him,....He assured me he wanted nothing but to be a kindness and be helpful.....................

 

 
   anyways, People have falling outs. Such is life!

 
most of us will not hold what another says to high account and will meet you any ways!

 
           i was warned of one gent, by a very goddipy catty john i know of. He calls time to time and never have positive things to say, only random gossip about escorts neither of us know or will ever know nor have we had appts with, I guess he hears this from the escorts he is friends with, So i dont pay attention to a word he says!

 
          i was warned of one client, the guy has plenty of ok's on p411.  

i was told he made some one bleed.  

 
well guess what i did an appt with him anyhow, I didnt have any problem and i whitelisted.

 
he was odd to say the least and needed to be hard and rough and fast to climax. but i myself have to speed up tempo prior to climax bordering on being violent for a few moments even, i can undersand the need to be rigorous during the last moments before climax, i get it, not every one cums the same,.  

Any ways just ignore them and see other people, Luckily not every one is into the gossip and catty and most of us are willing to give people a shot even if one or two girls gossip about a guy doesnt mean its true always.

 
                 there is drama confusion and misunderttandings a plenty in this line of work, Its if you choose to meet folks and decide for yourself.  

lucky for me the guy i speak of he spoke badly of me to this potential client, That potential client gave me a try anyways and we actually stayed in contact and have spent time as friends together otc time before an appt.  

 
           luckily he didnt pay attention to one bad encounter out of 99 good ones and gave me a shot

Damn Angel? WTF? That is a long ass post!! What the hell are you trying to say?

they schedule. maybe more.

                For me there are a few i had a bad time with i wouldve avoided if theyd allowed me to see thier review history, they just didnt sound like nice people in the reviews.

I hate when they dont let us see thier alias before hand. you can dodge a bullet that way and tell alot about a guys personality by his reviews.  

 
it can help you both avoid an unpleasant time, i can tell if i wont like the guy by his reviews. @ that gave me bad reviews had they let me see thier character, I never wouldve booked them thier reviews show they are just plain nasty people. ...  

I dont do a high volume and would prefer to make sure its guys I will get along with............................

Your reviews are so mediocre or lousy!  Why would anyone want to hang out with you!  Even the ladies you enjoyed scored no more then a 7!  I agree with Magic!

Now that I have looked at the reviews, and without doing a full spread sheet so I am estimating - every one of your review scores for appearance is below the ladies average (which by definition would be even higher without your review). One is within 1/4 point, but most are between 1/2 and 1 1/2 points lower. That is massive for a lady's business. It means if she sees you and you review her, she will lose a significant amount of money over the next month because of that.

I would not see you either. Figure out a way to start all over again without those reviews and reconsider how you review.. Clearly the meaning you have for a 7 is very different than the rest of the TER community where it generally means "She is not that much to look at." Yes, that is not the description of the score TER uses, but trust me, no lady likes a 7 or worse. And most of us are not that crazy about seeing anyone with an appearance score of 7 or less.

As for the blacklist thing, it seems like people work through that crap all the time - ladies know it can just be someone who has a personal ax to grind. The way you described it, it sounds like it is pretty over the top anyway.

zig

Yeah but the people who read what is on the internet often forget what they read.

I don't put much credence into what is said on the internet

I appreciate your thoughts on this and you may have hit it on the nose! I really never put much thought into how the scoring works here and was only following guidelines set forth here by TER. If you actually read my reviews I usually am VERY positive and happy with most women I have seen. If I had a great visit to me based on TER guidelines that should rate between a 7-8. If I had a incredible One in a Million visit that would be a 9 and if I had that same visit with Anal then I could give a 10!

I will never be able to give a 10 based on TER's criteria as I am not really the Anal type so that cant happen by TER rules. So Im left with a 9 as the best I can give....Have I seen any 9's based on TER guidelines? Yes I have but VERY few as they would be 1 in a million and I have yet to see over a million girls...LOL

Ok OK enough of that, my screw up is my misunderstanding of how scoring is done here, not how TER outlines we should. If I changed my scoring based on how the community here scores and not the TER model I am sure I would have several 9's! In no way was I intentionally trying to hurt anyone here with what is thought of as bad reviews (7's and 8's) and I apologize if I had, my ignorance in this matter is embarrassing.

Thanks to all who enlightened me, I good swift kick in the ass is sometimes a good thing...

I have been playing this game for awhile and I review as I see it. That is the point of this site. I have never had a problem. Maybe that is because I don't call them up and say hey this is Balljointnut from TER will you see me. How the fuck would they know about my previous reviews. And yes I do find many of my hookers on Backpage. As a matter of fact well over half of the top 100 in Phoenix advertise or have advertised on BP at some point in their career. Many well into the top 30. This game is not that fucking hard. Stupid people make it hard. I have heard from a few ladies I see that they don't want inflated reviews because they don't want to have to try to live up to the fantasy some douche wrote about them. They are not "model material" and they know that. They are skilled and will make you "forget it was a service" but do they think "they are a once in a lifetime"? No, and they are fine with that. If a hooker won't see you because you score honestly then move on. There are plenty of them that will be happy to take your money and treat you like a king.

No. Give the providers the rating that you think they deserve. The reality is that many providers read the reviews of clients that they are considering and "average" reviews for appearance and performance affect their decision. It is human nature. Whether the rating system is flawed or not, clients and providers alike consider anything less than an 8 to be a "failing grade."

I'm sure that the mediocre reviews did not help you, but my guess is that this lady did not want to be included in the list of women you have seen.

Obviously, you did not fully read my post.

Big deal, just put a number or two at the end of it. Simple.

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+1 ... 6 and 7 rated BP providers mostly is what I see on the review page.  

you can reinvent yourself.

However, I do agree with magicsam that your reviews might just be part of your difficulties. I looked at a few and it does seem that you say great things that don't seem to be reflected in your scores and you don't seem to be able to find or see women you find truly attractive. A few have a history of poor performance, and yet you saw them and scored them poorly (accurately or not) as well - like, where is your judgment?

Nope, I'm not advocating inflating scores. Just saying that when you say she was really hot and rocked your world in the review (and you can't wait to see her again), then the score should perhaps be better than a 7/7.  

Of course, we know only what we can see and can only comment on that. There could easily be some other explanation to be found in your approach to some women that gives them an "off" feeling or bad vibe. Mistakes in that initial communication happen all the time.

Good luck!