This has been going on now for almost 2 weeks, Megan has choosen to belittle me in private and once again in open forum I will not lower myself to your level Meg. However, let's clear up a few of the new items which you mentioned. I did not ask how much Megan makes.  Megan asked me if she should increase her rates.  She said that she wants to retire in five years and would like to purchase another home since she paid cash for her first one.  Secondly, she said that she is seeing up to 7 clients a day. I helped her do the math, increase your rates by 50 and see one or two less people a day.  As for the porn, she told me that she has done one and is looking to do another .. and I asked why? her answer; easy work, very lttle time involved, and big bucks.

She asked me to critique her body and I did so, by being honest her feelings were hurt. If you don't want honesty then maybe don't ask.  Goes along the same lines of your wife asking you "if her ass is too big or does this dress make her look fat." Your not going to win.

As for the review ..Meg's history of reviews has scores ranging from 3 to 9 on app. and 6 to 10 on perf. with 10 reviews of 6 or lower on performance.  I had a nice time with Meg, and that was it a nice time, not earth shattering, no bells, no fireworks, her skills compared to others that I have been with were good, not fantastic.  Will I recommend her to someone that I feel she may be a good match for? yes, was it time well spent? again it was an OK session ...

TER says that in order for a provider to get 10's she must live up to our most powerful fantasy, and is an experience that is really worth a million. Many of us maybe giving out way to many 10's (MHO).

A review is only an aid to assist "us" the hobbiest so we may become informed and choose wisely in our decision process, a review should never be written to gain favor of a provider.  Reviews need to be honest and truthful if we the hobbiest and providers are to learn and grow. Give it a rest Meg.

It's all about communication.

Megan's thread title was about reviews - something I obviously missed, or passed over.
What I noticed was about an unsatisfied customer and her wondering why? Which is why I responded as I did. And communication is the key.

I never went to look at her reviews, let alone search 'which one' she was talking about, so you would have been anonymous to me, and I give you a great deal of credit for coming out and saying how it was from your perspective.

Just sounds like common miscommunication to me, and that can be in any (type) relationship.

It was apparent to me which review bothered Megan.  I suppose I'm blind as a bat and dumb as a stump but I still don't think it was that bad.  It seems more like an endorsement than a criticism.

I have recently experienced Megan.  That being the case, I find Spinner's review to be absolutely believable and credible.

I never would belittle anyone privately or in public..I never mentioned a name..I asked a question..because to me a 6 sucks..if i got 6's all the time I would wonder what I was doing wrong..I find the after attitude surprising..I just wish we could review clients..then  we could both be happy..why tell a provider that you never write reviews..then suddenly write a negative one...it just does not fit...I was so nice to you..and we both know the real reason you chose to be mean to me..dont we..but I feel that I am way to great of a person to come out and exspose others obvious insecurities..I felt that I had been wronged by a very out of character review...I will leave it at that...

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yall sucked me into this debate, lol
so i read the review
I honestly don't really think it was that bad
it seemed like the reviewer was trying to be as honest as he could from his perspective didn't really seem like there was a purposely negative slant at all
he even put down a recommendation

Spinner...let's see how it goes with a few more reviews...eh?  But I must admit, after reading your review, I did not see the problem...maybe the numbers were a bit low but it seems to me Megan is like the students who ask the teacher to regrade the exam....'why didn't I get an "A"??!!'...I do think that you have uncovered an issue that I do see with other reviewers---namely GRADE INFLATION...there are some out there who seem to give mostly 9's and 10's....it is hard to imagine that even the best TER research will serve you so well..

So if every escort was a GFE, would a GFE then be a 5 or average?  Just how do you define average with a fellow human being?  And given that a 5 is "average" and a 6 is a "nice time", does that mean that an average time isn't a nice time?  You did still catch a nut, right?  Doesn't that automatically qualify as a "nice time"?  Then it'd be a 6, no?  Maybe even a "hot time", which would then be a 7...

My point here is that I tend to feel that people are rating too high in reviews.  I also feel that the narrative is more important than the number.  True, I've been with some awesome women, so maybe "average" to me is someone else's "once in a lifetime".  If I had only slept with one woman and it was missionary only and she just laid there, would it be a "once in a lifetime"?  Or a "she just laid there"?

Not every gal is going to be "all that" for every guy.  That's just human nature.

Darling, you can't win them all. However, I do believe the occasional less than stellar review is not that bad a thing for business. I think most guys, at least the guys you would want for clientele, will look at the big picture.

You might not like the numbers, but the text wasn't that bad, IMO. Chemistry is an important part of the business and you're not going to click with everyone. Reasonable clients understand that.