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What is the best way to send a provider a loan
escalade1964 65 Reviews 3641 reads
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Hi,

A traveler that I have seen a few times recently asked me to send her some money
so she could get her car repaired. Ironically, she requested $350, which is her 1 hour donation.
But "Let that Go" The next time she comes here of course I would get priority booking.
and obviously the date would be Prepaid (Happy Face)

It has been sometime since I have seen her so I assume she thought of me  
due to my amazing BCD skills.

Is the best way to send her money Western Union or like a Green Dot card you get  
at the grocery store?

Your thoughts if any?

Sorry, couldn't resist lol.

Just go drop by a Chase and I will give you my account number, real name, and social security number. Wait, you're not from Nigeria, are you?

He's fully expecting it to be repaid.

If he was from Nigeria he would market himself as "exotic"....he's from Bahstan.  That's the town that is the Stanley Cup runner-ups  LOL

Posted By: London Rayne
Sorry, couldn't resist lol.  
   
 Just go drop by a Chase and I will give you my account number, real name, and social security number. Wait, you're not from Nigeria, are you?

I'll be sure to get it to the hooker keeping you clear of any involvement.  

Sure wouldn't want you to feel slighted when she doesn't pay it back...and never shows up in Boston either.  And if she does show up in Boston...I don't want your feminine side to get all slighted when she won't reply to your emails.

Feel free to PM for my bank info and you can get that wired today  :D

Your thoughts....if any  LOL

Posted By: escalade1964
Hi,  
   
 A traveler that I have seen a few times recently asked me to send her some money  
 so she could get her car repaired. Ironically, she requested $350, which is her 1 hour donation.  
 But "Let that Go" The next time she comes here of course I would get priority booking.  
 and obviously the date would be Prepaid (Happy Face)  
   
 It has been sometime since I have seen her so I assume she thought of me  
 due to my amazing BCD skills.  
   
 Is the best way to send her money Western Union or like a Green Dot card you get  
 at the grocery store?  
   
 Your thoughts if any?

Honestly I thought you were smarter than this...

My first thought is don't do it.

your chances of a prepaid appointment are slim.  You will be the last person she wants to book with since she won't be getting any cash from you and if she does let you book she will most likely ask you to pay and offer to make up for the loan at another time.  That other time will never come...q

"If any"

It's not an official reply unless you add that.  And could have very well cost you the game (think Jeopardy).

You also are forgetting that SHE loves him...and HE loves her.  Not sure why he thinks it's a loan however...there are NO loans in P4P.

Posted By: Bostonguy57
Honestly I thought you were smarter than this...

My first thought is don't do it.

your chances of a prepaid appointment are slim.  You will be the last person she wants to book with since she won't be getting any cash from you and if she does let you book she will most likely ask you to pay and offer to make up for the loan at another time.  That other time will never come...q

Follow the bouncing ball HoC....

John gives hooker 350 as a "loan"

Hooker doesn't say thank you...frankly doesnt' reply to emails

John expects hooker to make good on it.

Hooker is laughing...he's the 15th john to fall for this shit in the last month.

And of course...I won't slam him in a month publicly when all that happens.  But I will have to email him to console the poor bastard.

Your thoughts....if any?  :D

Use Zdeno once the series is over...he'll make sure she gets it.  And he won't be touring with the Cup...so plenty of time to deliver your loan.

By the way...he charges $ 5,000 for his delivery services...IN ADVANCE.  But it will get there  LOL

If you really know her and trust her then this is your decisions to make. Just understand that this is like any other loan to friends or family, don't expect it back.  

If you keep your expectations low and look more at it as a gift with a "possible" return, then when you do get your special treatment it will make it all that much more pleasurable.

Most providers are good on their word, there are a few exceptions, and if you search the boards you will find many many post of men bitching about this, and few compliments about it. So it would seem to be the other way around. In all reality, most humans will remember more and be more likely to grieve over something bad then express something good, or something expected.

If you do this go GreenDot, easier and less information is needed.

Remember this is your own risk, but if you get your hopes up way to high you are more then likely to be disappointed. Then all you will get from the clowns in this circus is "We told you so" responses and them pointing and laughing at you.

I actually did this about six months ago.  I sent her nearly twice that amount using a Green Dot Money Pack (don't confuse it with their debit card).
And, actually, it wasn't as dumb as it sounds.  We already had a date set up and she was recommended by several mutual friends, one of whom lived in the same town.  All of us were going to the same M&G, so I figured the risk was small.
Call me lucky, but I was right.  In fact, she was so grateful she added extra time to the date.  That said, it was the only time I've done it.

I may have to blacklist you now!

I'm working this deal...and you fucking come along and tell this moron that it may indeed work  LOL

The minor difference is you advanced a well reviewed hottie....he's sending a BP hooker money.  I'm trying to save this poor bastard from himself.  And it's a bitch....the more I infer (is that right?) damage control...this ass-calade posts up more drivel that the hookers will complain about.

BTW....next time you want to advance a hooker money.  You better fucking use CPA Direct...via Zdeno Chara Express.  WE guarantee delivery.

Posted By: inicky46
I actually did this about six months ago.  I sent her nearly twice that amount using a Green Dot Money Pack (don't confuse it with their debit card).  
 And, actually, it wasn't as dumb as it sounds.  We already had a date set up and she was recommended by several mutual friends, one of whom lived in the same town.  All of us were going to the same M&G, so I figured the risk was small.  
 Call me lucky, but I was right.  In fact, she was so grateful she added extra time to the date.  That said, it was the only time I've done it.

Let's say you figure out how to get the $$ to her. Here is what you can expect.
[1] You will never see her again
[2] She is retiring from the biz
[3] It's not a loan. You are not getting the $ back and you are not prepaying for a service [see # 1]

Sorry.

and not feel bad about it.  Many have advanced money...  it's about 50/50 whether they get it back or what ever deal you had.  If you really really trust her...  and can afford to risk it...  then go ahead.  I don't see anything wrong with green dot.  I've mailed cash...  But I didn't expect any pay back.  I've gotten OTC social time...  actually we cooked lunch at her place...  but I was good with that

I wouldn't believe it if I hadn't heard of clients lending providers money several times before (all ended badly).

She charges $350 per hour yet she needs YOU to lend her $350 to get her car fixed?  

She can't come up with the $350 on her own? If she is in such demand that a priority booking would be necessary, it should be easy enough for her to raise the funds herself. This sounds like a scam to shake down as many of her clients as possible.

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I almost just shut up (hard for me to do, lol!) but it was a reasonable question that hadn't been asked in a while, and one about which I have some recent direct experience.  Spank me!

No excuse. This guys a total cumguzzler.  

Posted By: inicky46
I almost just shut up (hard for me to do, lol!) but it was a reasonable question that hadn't been asked in a while, and one about which I have some recent direct experience.  Spank me!

hotplants1511 reads

OK...it's totally snarky.

But, if a provider actually NEEDS a loan of $350? The equivalent of about one hr of work? So much so that she is proactively asking clients for the $? I really gotta scratch my head on that one.  

Much more so as to why you would go there than why she would ask.  

As far as how you get her the money? Dropping it in the closest toilet seems as good an option as any

Panthera121342 reads

You know that most providers are broke most of the time. Besides, she could solicit 15 dumb ass "hobbyists" and if 10 fall for it, she has $3500 and remain vertical.
Of course escalade would add a tip.

hotplants1562 reads

In fact, for women who have their shit together, I highly doubt that's  true.

Many people find themselves in a bad spot now and again, and need a loan. The red flag here, for me, is $350. The amount is so small that it's very hard not to draw some unflattering conclusions.

You have no idea how dysfunctional some girls are.  The one I sent the $$$ to is just a clueless train wreck and will never learn.  She's also a really nice gal and completely honest but has zero life skills.  As I said above, I sent her the money because, given the circumstances, the likelihood she'd beat me out of it was about zero.  And she delivered.  But still, a train wreck.  Just not my train.

galaxy_note21543 reads

then you must be dumber than a bag of rocks.

just tell the lady to see a few clients this week and she'll get her money.  

no need for a loan.  

Galaxy

Posted By: escalade1964
Hi,  
   
 A traveler that I have seen a few times recently asked me to send her some money  
 so she could get her car repaired. Ironically, she requested $350, which is her 1 hour donation.  
 But "Let that Go" The next time she comes here of course I would get priority booking.  
 and obviously the date would be Prepaid (Happy Face)  
   
 It has been sometime since I have seen her so I assume she thought of me  
 due to my amazing BCD skills.  
   
 Is the best way to send her money Western Union or like a Green Dot card you get  
 at the grocery store?  
   
 Your thoughts if any?

Still thinking of sending her money?  Keep hitting your head until you fall down.  When you're awakened by the paramedics I'm pretty sure this incredibly fucking stupid idea will have passed.

If that is her hourly rate, ask yourself why she can't get 1 appt to cover that. Not hard if she is a good person, she'd have regulars calling all of the time.  

Sorry I am a strong believer in that you don't ask for help unless desperate. You handle your own issues.  

Western Union you need her real name (which is a good thing to protect you BTW). Green Dot can freeze your acct and the gal would lose the money.

I know you have a good heart, but just don't. Do not be a Captain Save a Ho. Never works well for the guy. Now if you are 100% okay with maybe being screwed, then go for it. I am just saying. Your money, do what you want. Some gals are good for their word, others are not. The NOT is quite high.

Maybe tell her how to save and invest, best you could ever do for her! I do alot for family and certain friends, but I sure know how to budget. No matter what you do for a living, it is the greatest thing a person could learn.

Your thoughts, if any?

galaxy_note21573 reads

pretty much sums up everyone else's answer, but in a civilized way.

hopefully the original poster will wise up and use the right head in this situation.

Galaxy

Posted By: AlexandraMilw
If that is her hourly rate, ask yourself why she can't get 1 appt to cover that. Not hard if she is a good person, she'd have regulars calling all of the time.  
   
 Sorry I am a strong believer in that you don't ask for help unless desperate. You handle your own issues.  
   
 Western Union you need her real name (which is a good thing to protect you BTW). Green Dot can freeze your acct and the gal would lose the money.  
   
 I know you have a good heart, but just don't. Do not be a Captain Save a Ho. Never works well for the guy. Now if you are 100% okay with maybe being screwed, then go for it. I am just saying. Your money, do what you want. Some gals are good for their word, others are not. The NOT is quite high.  
   
 Maybe tell her how to save and invest, best you could ever do for her! I do alot for family and certain friends, but I sure know how to budget. No matter what you do for a living, it is the greatest thing a person could learn.  
   
 Your thoughts, if any?

If he can afford to GIVE her the money (and, it is a gift lol ) more power to him. Funny thing, he is NOT serious, and he is mocking many of the boys here for how they act. In fact, his every post was designed to do just that, and most did not catch that.

GaGambler1363 reads

but by now it's pretty obvious that he is doing it on purpose, but that doesn't mean he doesn't get my vote anyhow.

As for sending a provider a loan. I have done it on numerous occasions, with mixed results of course, but I always use a check, a bank wire, or for  extreme emergencies where there is no other option, Western Union. What do all these things have in common? They all require knowing the recipient's  REAL name. If a woman is still hiding her real identity from me, she doesn't know me well enough to be asking me for gifts/loans.

I knew her real name and address.

Yea, I agree with both of you. You would have to really know and trust someone to bother asking for a damn loan, so if you they don't know your real name, you really have no right asking. Some people want to play the "business" card when it suits them, then the "friends" card, also when it suits them.

It was painfully obvious from the beginning that he was/is and attention whore.  

But if he didn't give a shit about any of this....and as London and SexyMilf are being told, that he is doing this to simply "fuck with the guys"....

Why would he have gone as ballistic as he has in defending his drivel?

Nope...he may be trying to learn how to effectively troll.  But he has a very long way to go to be good at it.

But he is learning to his credit...so maybe he'll become a really fun guy to have around.  We shall see  :D

Suppose, he knows the consequences and is willing to help someone in need, do you find anything wrong with it?

When you make life all about $, your life is limited and myopic.

By the way, I have helped many providers occasionally. When I see someone I know been with and is about to thrown out of the apartment, I help. In most cases, I have not lost anything.

Do not assume, OP doesn’t know what he is doing or the consequences some people don’ t think like 90% who are only concerned about $ and ¢.

She's gonna screw you, no pun intended. I got a $10,000 "loan" from a client a few years ago and haven't spoken to him, much less paid him back, since. If she was smart, she would have asked for a higher amount. Basically, she wants your money without having to do an appointment with you. If the idiot I scammed had two brain cells to rub together, he would have gotten something in writing-which you should do. Oh, and thanks-every time I think about him-and this post made me-I laugh my ass off.

Uh, psst. Can I get that guy's number? Thanks girl. You understand. :)

GaGambler1373 reads

I met a Korean provider and hit it off with her last year, I had one paid session and then stayed with her OTC for about a week. It was great, I went about my business during the day, and she did her appointments, then after work we would go to dinner and I would spend the night. Perfect scenario for a single guy, right?

Well after about the fifth or sixth night, just before we were about to have sex, right out of the clear blue, she hit's me up for the exact same amount, a ten thousand dollar "loan", well I might be a pig, but I am not stupid, I mumbled something about giving to her after I got back from a business trip that I was going on in a couple of days, she fucked my brains out, I saw her one more time and then I was the one who did the disappearing act. You don't think I was going to either, ruin the mood just before getting my dick wet by refusing her the money, or even stupider, actually giving her the money do you?

I really can't believe that some people have the nerve to ask someone they just met for that kind of money, I would have had to been an idiot to give her ten grand after knowing her less than a week, but I will confess, it was a very good week. lol

But you are my kind of pig.

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