When you brought an outfit to the session; Did you ask or indicate that you want a discount for the session just because you brought a sexy outfit to the session? If your answer is 100% "NO". Then She should have kept the Outfit and said "Thankyou".
In anticipation of an encounter, I bought a top and a skirt for the provider to wear (not a costume). At the beginning of our session, I brought the outfit out, she put it on and I "enjoyed" it thoroughly. But, at the end of the session, while I was collecting my things, she motioned to the outfit.
I appreciated the humility (of not assuming that the outfit was a gift - which it was). But, I was not prepared for the possibility that one outfit might be reused across multiple sessions/providers.
Is owning outfits (one or more, costumes or not) and bringing with them to appointments a thing?
and sexy underthings, etc., are a frequent entry in many gals' "gift pages". While these things don't necessarily need to be worn for a session, they often are, but since they were offered as a gift, then of course the gal gets to keep them.
A more common scenario is that a customer request that the gal wear a certain item, which she often has to go out and buy, but at least she now has it as a part of her wardrobe.
What you have here is sort of a hybrid of the two, so as far as rules go, you are sort of writing the book right now, but my tendency would be to let the gal keep it. After all, if you kept it, it could only be used by a gal of the same measurements, and that means it would be problematic at best. It would also avoid the awkwardness that comes along with having to explain to the gal that you didn't mean it as a gift, and that you intend to bring it to other sessions you have with other escorts.
When my dates are extended dates I always bring the "get up" for the young lady to model for me. I know what I like and what I hate (garter belts are the worse along with fishnet stockings). And it's always GIFT, it's just plain common sense, I mean who would recycle clothes, be it intimate or casual wear to another lady?
It's cool to see the young lady dancing and prancing in what you got her. She'll enjoy the gesture and it's a bit of a turn on.
I don't do the whole Agent Provocateur, you nuts!!! But what I bring is tasteful and still had that naughty look.
Now I don't do it when I do a one hour incall, or if it's a quick "hit it and quit it"....it's too much hassle.
So in my world, yes it's a kinda thing.....BUT TREAT IT AS A GIFT!!!!
may one truly receive.
Generosity is usually rewarded. I say treat is as a gift.
Just ask provider #2 how much she enjoys wearing some other girl's panties.
Next time, consider shopping at Costco or Amazon, both have generous return policies.
This is an interesting thread not seen before! (at least not by me, because someone in the regular peanut gallery will make a snide remark)
I once met up with a gal and brought her my signature gift, a pair of classy heels. The type that look sexy, but can also pass for nice heels that the gal can wear outside in her normal life. There is a fine line between slutty, sexy, and classy. Stripper heels? A big no......
Anyhoo, she loved them...couldn't remember if they were Nine Wests, or Calvin Kleins, but they were deemed classy looking by her. And I received a great true GFE session. I wasn't out too much $$$, and it set the stage for future visits.
She told me that once a dude brought Louboutins for her and upon first look and slipping her feet into them, she was thinking that that was going to be a dude who was a keeper.
She thought too fast. At the end of that hour, the guy got up and boxed them up and took them with him out the door.
She was aghast. Yes, she knew they were pricey, but who does that?
Had a client with a specific stewardess fantasy and I didnt have the outfi that he wanted so I told him as long as he bought the outfit for me I wouldnt add the extra donation. So after the date was over I started to hang up the outfit and he was like oh I wanted that back to gift to my wife for Halloween. I was taken back and kind of disgusted (although I didnt show it lol) so I politely said that he would have to provide the extra donation if he wasn't going to let me keep the outfit and he argued and said that it wasn't what we agreed on and I explained that I thought it was an understanding and something that didnt have to be said that I would be keeping the outfit. He argued and said Why would I think that and I said because Ive never had any client take back something they had brought with them for me to wear. He was being a real pain about it and I could tell that he wasnt going to give me the outfit or the extra donation so I just let him have it and he left.
That was the first and only time I have ever had anyone take something back. I felt bad for the wife and wondered if he really ended up giving it to her. Guess I'll never know!!
The character traits of an ass hole do bubble up at the least little bit of contention. I believe you were smart to finally let him take back his gift - the smart, safe thing to do.
Very lovely photos on your links from your TER page. lol, this old fart wishes you were closer... Be safe!
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Given the fact that women will rarely wear something that doesn't fit them well, I wonder if he chose you because your dimensions matched his wife's. This isn't a slight btw, but it does sound extremely weird.
Whyd his wife wear something that another woman clearly wore? Maybe he really liked you and he kept is a souvenir to smell you or whatnot... Lol. What a story. Thanks for sharing!
What a nit.... I can't decide if he is a cheapskate, or really totally clueless. I hope he at the very least left a tip?
Generally speaking, my gifts are the "tip" and future visits are a combination of another gift/extra $$$ combo.
BTW: Tina, I imagine that that outfit (if it fit properly) would win you a lot of fans!
Hope to see you someday in the DC area.
What poor taste on two accounts. Going back on an agreement being one, giving it to his wife being second.
This dude has all kind of issues. I hope you never saw him again.
His behavior gives us lovers of women a bad reputation.
When I bring anything to an incall it is always a gift, meaning it's for the girl to keep! Be aware of what things cost and if you can't afford to leave it, don't bring it! Now with size it can be tricky. You can guess, sneak a look at a label when you're removing the piece of clothing or ask!
I brought a pair of really nice, and to my surprise inexpensive, side tie lingerie to a favorite of mine. I do like to untie them when I remove them, hands or teeth! I had no intention of taking them back, they were a gift for her! I just request for her to wear them at different times when I visit. She really liked them and I don't know if she wears them only for me. I'd like to think they are exclusively worn for me as a surprise or as a request! But, they are a gift to do with as she wishes!
Also, to take something from provider to provider, well it won't stay looking new for long and might get soiled pretty quick! That might have you looked at as cheap or inconsiderate bringing something used before, like a rinsed off condom LOL!
She wore it for you because you brought it. That doesn't mean she liked the outfit. She motioned for you to take the outfit with you because it probably wasn't her style. If she thought she could use it in a role play as a secretary or teacher, she may have kept it.
Silently indicating you should take the outfit with you was her way of not hurting your feelings. Unlike costumes and lingerie, clothing is worn in public. Maybe she knew she had no use for the outfit because she knew she would never wear it again.
If you've ever been shopping with women, you know how picky they are about clothing. Even if you think something fits perfectly and looks great, they'll still keep looking for something "more perfect."
Do NOT reuse the outfit with another provider. If you can't return it, donate it to charity.
Thanks for the comments.
btw - I did leave it with her, as I had intended it as a gift from the start. That's why I was surprised by her reaction.
Also, in this case, I don't think it was a matter of "probably wasn't her style", as she specifically mentioned that it was her style and in fact, was something that she would wear IRL (it was not lingerie).
I leave there. Girls get skittish if they think you may reuse ANYTHING with multiple providers. Whatever it is I want to take, I buy it new, and leave it as a gift. I try to present it in the original packaging so she KNOWS its unused. This goes for clothes, lingerie, toys and whatever. If she doesn't want to keep it, SHE can dispose of it. I don't want to know.
When you brought an outfit to the session; Did you ask or indicate that you want a discount for the session just because you brought a sexy outfit to the session? If your answer is 100% "NO". Then She should have kept the Outfit and said "Thankyou".