Maybe your situation is different, but this could possibly be the downside to having a favorite provider?
Maybe PM some of her other clients and just run this past them??

I have had an ATF that I have seen for more that 3 years
Suddenly she tells me she hates me.
I'm shocked, she said you have gone from clean to filthy.
What do you mean she said.
She said your stinky stanking ass smells
She told me she hates me, but...
That's all I needed, to open the door and promise to clean up.
I got another appointment, and sure enough
She told me she hates me.
Why, I asked, and
She said your stanky ass has not changed at all.
I asked if she would just take her tongue and clean my dingleberries
She told me she hates and and threw me out of the Budget Suites
I knocked and tried to apologize and promise again to clean up
She told me she hates me and told me to go away.

That's when it all changed
I said screw you bitch, I will find another ATF
And, I did find another ATF... in the Same Budget Suites building
She cleans my dingleberries now once a week, and
She told me she loves me.

Anyone ever have this happen?

I am happy for you and sad for you at the same time.  You had me until you said, "Only problem is that she is not very financially stable". I just don't think you should lose your good sense over a girl that tells you she loves you to the point that you don't care if the condom breaks. Be careful.