Okay, I usually just ignore but I wonder how do people both hobbyist and providers deal with hate mail? I know I'm not the only one that gets them (Although I'm flattered because literally people are taking time to call me this or not including racist remarks) I'm just curious how do you deal with hate mail? Do you report it, answer it back or ignore it?

Some peeps just want to hit and run with the hate mail and aren't interested in any meaningful exchange. Nothing you can do about that.

Ok, now that you have picked yourself up off the floor from laughing, I deal with hate mail the same way as I deal with my "fan club" here. I simply belittle and make such cowards look just as foolish and impotent in private as I do in public. Anyone who has to stoop to "hate mail" is almost by definition a coward. I love making cowards look stupid.

Just ignore that stuff.

That's true Jack, I just don't understand why someone would write they would never see a spic....like what good does that do or oh i hate girls with curly hair. That just makes no sense to me.

Yeah I figured people would send  you hate mail they don't understand your sense of humor I love it. You come off strong baby do you doubt why people send  you hate mail for me it's a turn on. RAWR. lol. Yeah I think I will just ignore it then what else is left to do. Be someone's victim I don;t think so. I just can't imagine why some people would send you mail to tell you how much they hate you lol like really?

How do you deal with hate mail for example  

I see GaG and Jack and BB and...

post the hate mail on here. Say all this sh*t where others could have an input. Where are the balls? That's what I want to know. I love that the alias is always something stupid like 666 or something dumb.

Beautiful skin color. My fav actually.  

I'll just take my 30% commission.

Didn't you send ME hate mail Rox a few weeks ago?  

I've never received anything like that, but if I did and knew who sent it it wouldn't end well...and I don't understand the mental processes that would drive one to write that...

They are fools and looking for trouble!

It's an anonymous fuck board for fucks sake. If some little turd can leave you feeling "bitter and belittled" over some shit said behind the anonymity of the internet, just how the fuck do you survive in real life?

posts on TER are thoughtful and well written. Once I have the pleasure of spending time with you, I will be further able to recount how wonderful you are.

Who is the winner and who is the loser?

Why waste the energy?   Haters are going to hate.  Why let them suck the energy out of you?

Three words: I forgive you.

Anyone who feels the need to block someone might as well just admit the other person got the better of him/her. Unless of course the other person turns into a stalker and starts blowing up your shit.

Though I see your point so like everything else, it just depends on ones point of view. To me I don't think in terms of surrender or cuntiness (is that a word?). It's more that I don't have time for this shit so I don't even want to look at it.  Sort of like putting telemarketers on a no call list.

but what you describe is a tactic often used by "cunts" here. They send a flaming PM and then block you so you can't respond back to them and course they claim victory in the process. If that's not "cuntiness" I don't know what is.  

Clearly I need to consult urban dictionary more regularly.  It's such an advantage living in the information age as before the internet there was probably no way for the average joe to learn the difference between cunty and cuntiness - but now there is.  Now that's progress.

A minute ago, you said "it wouldn't end well" and you would probably end up in jail.

because that certainly sounds like "giving a shit" to me.

And going out of his way to make a big announcement that he put someone on ignore.

‘politically correct’

I thought you were Italian?

Save your breath – you’ll need it to blow up your date

In case you haven't noticed, there is a major backlash sweeping the country against the PC culture and much of it is coming from liberal comedians, who can't use any of the words you wrote on college campuses because the kids all get their micro aggression backs up.

You’re right jack. There is a problem with political correctness. But it’s definitely not about ‘liberal comedians’. Because any comedian, liberal or not, who has at least one foot in the present, can connect quite well with college audiences. This is because these comedians have written a new joke since 1985---1990?

That's the point plants.  

xoxox
Jack

I cry and usually curl up with a pint of Ben and Jerry's chunky Monkey

I don't get hate mail...best to let it go...I feel for ya!

That's good! "Bless your heart" might work too LOL

Now you're the one fucking up

Then they like to post comments like this one below.
 

So Italians had to deal with racisim back in the day.
Also it's nothing Italian about Roxanne.  
It's clear she is a sexy latina.

Ya gotta love that drone program

Don't sweat it Roxy, some people are just plain ignorant. I saw a beautiful provider that had blonde hair in her pics but when I went and met her she was a brunette. I actually thought she was even hotter but still beautiful either way. She told me of a client that came to see her once he saw she wasn't blonde to let him know when she went back to blonde. That was a stupid move on his part.

Those people are too IIU   (insignificant, ignorant  and unimportant  to deal with).

Not about "spics" of course, I agree totally about how fucking wonderful Latinas are, but where it comes to haters and hookers, I say "don't fuck em" Fuck everyone else but them and then laugh at them when they get blue balls.

Roxy was called a "spic" in a hateful manner, what Jack and I did was take ownership of that word and take all it's power away. When a racist uses a word like that in an attempt to hurt someone the best defense is to NOT get all bent out of shape over the word, but the intent. I can't believe that something this basis just flew right over your head.

You really are the dullest wit that has ever come on this board?

His acceptance speech/post.

So you just wanted to write something to feel good about yourself again GaGambler? Lol

So it's going on ten years and counting. Lol
 

Wait a minute!  Are you saying I'm stupid, Roxanne?!  I'm so hurt...

Clearly an intelligent, well spoken woman who is up on all the issues. I actually think I would have a whoot with her over a beer or two.

I ignore it, don't fuel fires you don't want.  If they don't stop, I block and black list them.  Some ladies have gone as far as restraining orders.  Do whatever it takes to keep you safe and away from the nonsense.  Normally not giving them a response is best.

You would think a society would progress beyond such ignorance, but that's not the case. The problem is, we're not getting smarter, we're getting dumber. Whenever some type of derogatory comment comes my way, and it can happen right here on the general boards, I make a mental note of the sender. I may or may not make a comment in response, but after that one instance of disparagement, that handle no longer carries any weight, nor has any value. I refuse to read anything they write in the future. It doesn't matter if it pertains to me or not. They no longer have a voice.

Why bother to write that garbage? If they don't prefer you, next!
If I get to NYC, my message won't be hate mail. Appointment time!
Losers everywhere, the 20% rule?

So you are so obsessed with me that you keep track of my reviews.

If I did, I wouldn't have anyone left to talk to.

Don't wrestle with pigs,  the pig likes it and you both get dirty.

You start trouble with people like the coward you are and then play the victim?
So I could care less but if you start making trouble I will respond!
We all know you are not here for the female providers.
This is your problem you need to find a woman and get laid!
Just take one step at a time but hopefully you will get their one day.
 

Wtf does my views on PC hace to do with getting laid? LOL  

He was declared the SPOTY winner this afternoon.

It's a word for people like you. Lol  

Then you went back to your usual bs.
You are such a joke on here.

First of all, this jackass that sent you this hate mail has terrible taste, IMHO. To each his own, but I adore both Latinas (especially Dominicans) and curvaceous women in general, and Roxanne, you in particular seem like quite a catch.  

I get the context. I do. That was not my point. The point I’m attempting make is more subtle. I also ‘get’ that subtlety tends to not translate well on the interwebs; the only solution to that, of course, is being better able to communicate subtle nuances. And that failure is mine.  

and I might be an asshole, and I might have enjoyed his post, but I was not one of the two assholes who "liked" his post.

I see sarcasm Isn't your area of expertise. In other words ... DUH!