Due to my schedule and the screening process, I have to schedule my appointments as much as a week in advance. Once their scheduled, I pretty much forget about it until the evening before. I find that I dream / fantasize about the encounter toward morning, in the twilight of sleep. I wake up hard. I never bring myself off - I have an SO, a girlfriend, and the lovely ladies to do that for me. I  think about the coming encounter for brief moments during the day - I anticipate. After 35 years of hobbying, I still tingle when I'm approaching the door. The first eye contact, the first kiss, really light me up. The encounter never goes as I have anticipated; usually it's better. When the lady and I have really clicked, the sensations of her body against mine, her scent, her taste, the feel of her collar bones, her shoulders, her breasts, her thighs, her bottom, linger in my hands and on my tongue for days. And I want her again. And her name goes on my "short" list! If I have time one day, I'd love to see what kind of memories we could make!  Ciao Signora Bellisima

Hi Sexy Carolina,

I'm on the front end of my very first encounter as I write this. I can't wait. My heart is racing. I'm reading every review posted about her. I can't focus on my work, and have trying to logoff TER for the past hour.

I'm anticipating her scent and taste...what I'll say...if she'll make me moan...will she enjoy me...

The feeling is unreal. Let's hope the experience matches up!

Re: Guys Tell me "What does it look like?"

All i can say.is i feel like a king for wks,because my provider makes me feel like one.
What a great fantasy to carry around in your head.What really amazes me,is that she really doesn't need my buisness,but chooses to see me anyway...Yes i know it's a buisness,but it still
blows me away!..One other thing,i email her alot
and she never fails to,respond back.That's all i ever wanted in my marriage,was to be made to feel special.(divorced now)...Hey if i have to come up with a few greenbacks,to be made to feel this way....so be it!....The best, to all of you GFE provider's out there.you deserve it.

Even after nearly three years, I still get nervous as hell when I'm getting ready to meet a new friend. My voice cracks, I trip over things that aren't there, and I know I'm going to say or do something incredible stupid. I called one lady by the wrong name TWICE. I know it's not her real name, but it still made me feel stooopid.

I usually sleep alright the night before. It's the night after that gets me, remembering, and usually wishing she was still there. And finally, yes there are some ladies whose memories and visuals stay with me a long time. I can still recall every single moment of the first evening I spent with Cindeee. Her lips on mine are something I will never ever forget.

"Guys can you give me a look into what you are thinking before the date?"

-The main thing I make sure of is cleanliness. I shower and shave about 1/2 hour before I leave for a date. What I am thinking about the whole time I am getting ready is touching and kissing. I just think about caressing her soft wonderful skin and kissing her anywhere and everywhere.


"Do you feel like you are going like Michael Phelps right before a swim?? Adrenalin Rush?"

-Not really, no big adrenaline rush. More like a relaxed feeling. I have seen the same provider quite a few times now and feel very comfortable with her. The very first time I saw her I was nervous as hell.

"Can you sleep the night before?" & "Do you wake up with a smile on your face?"

-Yes, I have no problems sleeping. When I wake up I usually take a while to get my bearings so I don't wake up thinking anything that might make me smile.

As for how long does the memory of our time together stay with me, and the details of said time? I can honestly say that I remember every outfit she has worn for every date we have had. I can also say I remember how wonderful she smells, if I notice that particular scent anywhere else it reminds me of her. Her kisses, her smile, and our chats have all left impressions on me that will last a long time.

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I abstain from self gratification for at least  4 or 5 days before a visit, sometimes longer.  There’s always a build up of excitement and anticipation in the days before a visit for me. If there were no build-up I don’t think I’d be doing this or schedule repeat visits. The night before I usually do not have a problem sleeping, although it’s nice to envision what the experience will be like or to replay what I’ve enjoyed before..

Afterwards…??

Ahhh. The afterwards. The memories and visuals stay with me. I have not been in the hobby for too long, but I can remember events, feelings and emotions from every experience as if it were yesterday.
I have what I like to call “Kodak moments”. That’s where one image sticks in my mind.
The curve of a breast.
An erect nipple.
The curve of a hip.
The shapely turn of a leg.
The face and arched back of the lady when she’s having an O.
Their eyes when they look up to me when I’m on the receiving end of some oral attention.

Then there’s all the wonderful scents. The small sounds made. The taste of her lips and her garden of earthly delight.

Then there's the remembered feeling of the silky skin. The feel of her breast in my mouth and hand. The warm wetness of her yielding to my touch.

Sometimes it all comes together in short sense-surround film, where I can vividly recall the scene as if I were reliving it.
Sometimes a errant thought, sound or smell will take me back to one of these moments. Then I can’t wait for the next time. That’s when the pictures come in  - shall I say “handy”?
The visual reference point to help augment the neural pathways and reinforce the memory.

That’s just part of what it looks like for me…

C_K


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the memory still lingers - more than a decade later... your previous question....  about 18 years or so, I use to frequent a "hot tub house" and would go there.... and always had pot luck (that is - you got whoever was on duty...)

on one occasion - this gal came out - she was really fun... and was the first to introduce me to mirrors... she made me watch us... and she did tricks.. that would astound me... after our session, she gave me her phone # and begged to get together "outside of work"  - alas the connection just never could be made- her work schedule and mine...

a second gal there, was tall, blond and built.. I went to the house after a bout of serious drinking.... she went down on me.... and did an incredible job on just my balls...  never had anyone make me cum only by sucking my balls....

both ladies I remember...

do I get nervous before hand ..... sometimes.... especially if it is someone I have wanted to meet for some time....

and savour the memories, some of them forever.

Can you still bring up memories and visuals?

Yep.  After 2 years, a certain view of a reverse cowgirl is still wonderful.

You give us too much credit assuming we're "thinking" before a date...

or even any time before or after!

LOL!

OK seriously now...

Maybe the first time or two, anticipation caused a sleepless night before, but that didn't persist (Thank God!)  since a good night sleep make a world of difference!

The afterwards can linger a little or a long time, dpending on how intense the experience was, and if I want to see her again...

and how badly - how soon.


"Memories and Visuals"?  You betcha honey!

Guys can you give me a look into what you are thinking before the date?

In a few I am getting off.

Do you feel like you are going like Michael Phelps right before a swim?? Adrenalin Rush?

Not really

Can you sleep the night before?

Yes

Do you wake up with a smile on your face?

No, smiling makes my face hurt too much

And afterwards...how long does it stay with you?

Not long, its forgotten after a few minutes.

Can you still bring up memories and visuals?

I usually dont bother.

For how long have you remembered her lips on yours?

Not into kissing so none at all.

After two dates and at least one earlier civvy experience, I can answer as follows:

Do you feel like you are going like Michael Phelps right before a swim?? Adrenalin Rush?

 I was so nervous, that I really had to make a      conscious effort to calm down. I almost could not drive.

Can you sleep the night before?

 Very little. It is almost like waiting for Santa Claus, but in a grown up way.  

Do you wake up with a smile on your face?

  Absolutely

And afterwards...how long does it stay with you?
Can you still bring up memories and visuals?

 In one case, it is about 19 years and still my favorite and sexiest memory. My date several days ago went so well that I have experienced waves of pleasure simply thinking about it.


For how long have you remembered her lips on yours?

 19 years, same lady as in previous response.  I still can feel her softness and passionate kisses.

I have found that touch and scent that I have associated with a beautiful woman seem to trigger a cascade of memories for me.

For me, making love to a woman that I find attractive is far beyond simple lust or sexual release.