Sometimes I see a provider who likes to use a vibrator during our session, even during the most intense part for me. I understand the logic, but also feel like it diminishes the session a little and gets in the way. I course want her to achieve satisfaction without it. Maybe if you have a lot of sex you need the additional stimulation, and it's certainly better than faking.
Thoughts, what do you all think? I am seeing someone again next week and expecting this.We all like to have everyone "get theirs" but in this world who's the customer??? If she doesn't get off with you, don't take it personally. But tell her to loose the toy for now.
And I'm sure she'll understand...or I hope she would
Do you want her to have a real orgasm or to fake one?
Real one= using vibrator
Fake one=not using a vibrator
The percent of women that can have an orgasm just from penetration alone is like 10%. Can you have an orgasm just from having your balls rubbed? It of course feels good, but very unlikely. The clitoris on a woman is the same as the head of the penis on the guy. You of course are the customer so if you don't want her to use one that is your choice, but I would assume that she enjoys her time with you and wants to have an orgasm with you and that is why she is using it. You should take this as a compliment, not as competition that you seem to be insinuating. And the amount of sex she is having is allowing her to know her body and know exactly what she needs to do to climax. Again, this a good thing. If I seem kind of disappointed in your post I honestly am. There are so many providers that fake their way through it with clients and don't give a shit and it sounds like you have a provider that actually enjoys you and wants to climax with you. You have found a unicorn and you don't even know it. Go toy shopping with her and enjoy what you have!!
I wouldn’t hesitate to tell her .
For me, having her cum while I'm inside her is a wonderful thing.
I have placed a small egg vibe between our pubes while sitting face-to-face rocking inserted in her, and turned it up slowly until she shuddered, bucked, clenched on me, squeaked cutely, lost her breath, and came down all softened with a dreamy smile, keeping me inside her snug warm wetness. That was a memorable experience!
I have used a Magic Wand on a girl while fucking her doggie style and enjoyed her clenching and loss of body control along with mine.
Just yesterday I had a lady hump and grind on my thumb between us to orgasm, all while I was deep inside her.
I love this sort of thing and would like to have it happen more often.
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So you see I don't find a vibrator during sex distracting or unpleasant at all.
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Just my own experience and preferences, for comparison ... .
Totally agree!
I always bring the Magic Wand (MW) in my bag of tricks when visiting a provider. I cannot tell you how many women completely lose it when feeling the intensity of vibration the MW provides.
The MW is a rather large unit with a hard rubber head slightly smaller than a baseball. Sometimes women freak when they see this, thinking it is going to be inserted. When we have dispelled that notion, and applied the hard rubber vibrating ball, the look on their face is priceless. The facial muscles go taught and they are entirely focused on the sensations the unit is providing them. A little lube helps, as the vibration is intense.
Sometimes, use the MW becomes the whole session. The experience can be enhanced by licking certain areas and insertion of fingers, whatever. Recently, a very hot Asian woman got off on the MW several times, after which she scooped some of her own cum onto my finger and pushed it into her ass. This led to an ever more intense orgasm where her rectal sphincter gripped my finger so forcefully that it felt like an iron band. This continued until she was exhausted and collapsed on the bed.
I am perfectly capable of satisfying a woman without the MW, but why walk when you can ride! Plus the MW never gets tired!
I keep wondering to this day......does she have a point.
She's just shy about her addiction to vibrator use. She could also have come to terms with the fact that she will never get married and wants to blame it on her vibrator use rather than her ugly mug.
Actually she was a fine woman then. We just wanted different things .
I personally enjoy toy use during a session. I genuinely enjoy when a woman gets highly aroused. Regardless of whether it is by me alone or augmented.
But, if it is literally getting in the way, I mean physically obstructing your access/rhythm, then you need to say something. Or, ask her to find a toy that "fits" the situation better.
I have lifted many vibrators to girls when I see them. It's a gift thars appreciated & keeps on giving.
I have lots of vibrators & sex toys! I don’t use my vibrators unless, requested. I do bring toys just in case someone is interested in trying something new. I have toys for boys! I share my vibrators, butt plugs, dildos if you’re open-minded. I pride myself in being able to stimulate any man’s prostate by providing TLC. I am always equipped & prepared for anything because I am the Queen of all traits!
Having all the tools of the trade. That's why I love professionalism and professional women.
"tools of the trade" too, but some are sharp and can hurt you. If I had to choose one way or the other, QB's selection looks more like fun.
I heard the Asain acupuncture is fun,you should try it.
you went to spelled "Asian" the same way you did, I'm sure it was the real deal.
If you can handle a 'typo' am sure you can handle it. Be a man ,go check it out and let me know.
Suggested by Kgirls I have seen. Didn’t really see any results. You might as well buy magic beanstalk beans.
It’s your money, your time, and your session. You’re not asking the lady to do something crazy or that’s on her “no-fly” list. You might try just politely but firmly explaining that for this session you’ll want just the two of you in bed, no accompaniment. If that’s too much for her, try another gal.
... Is a sad session indeed 🤤
guys here may show up with extra condoms, you arrive at the session with extra batteries?
exactly 😏
Yes he does. As I always say, different strokes for different folks. Some guys do show up with more batteries instead.
"yes he does"
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he got it. Lol
no flies on him - her? 😂
I am with breaks out her real playtime toys, I know she is completely comfortable with me!
And that always takes the fun to one of the highest levels!!
Wondering, are you complexed that you think she isn't getting what she needs from you?
A gals gonna like both, some dick and some clit vibration action. Sometimes solo, sometimes at the same time.
Plenty of women have a toy or 12 and they still can be satisfied other ways ive found. If any of you guys are getting worked up over a lover having a toy stash, just stop that shit.
simple .. if it has any negative impact on his enjoyment, she puts it away ... we are not talking about a girlfriend here, the lady is providing a paid service, the service is pleasuring her client.
no disrespect to the lady but let's keep everything in perspective.
for some her climax can make his more intense, but it's totally the gentleman's call.
if the lady doesn't understand that find one that does.