all or part of the money, for any reason, not counting bad behavior.
In a post below, a girl complains that the guy wanted a 4 hr blowjob session, and that is was 'torture'. My comment was basically, why didn't you stop, say enough is enough, give back 1/2 the money and bailout if it was that bad. He didn't do anything wrong, he just liked having is cock sucked cause his wife wouldn' t do it.
Have any of you girls cut a session short? I am not talking about a guy being an asshole or unclean, or any such scenario. But rather ending a session because you were not comfortable thru no fault of his. Examples being: the guy was too old, too fat, too unattractive for whatever reason, the guy was too large, the guy wanted a 4 hr BJ, the guy could fuck for longer than you liked it, ect. You get the idea. In other words, he does nothing wrong, but nonetheless, you want to leave.

It hasn't happened in at least two years because my screening is tight, I don't meet men I won't get along with very well usually.

But before I was so good at screening out the unbearable yes, I had to just say "this isn't going to work out," and hand back the cash a few times.
They acted miffed in the immediate sense but left politely.  Better to be miffed than to have a girl with your cash just "endure" you.

While we were playing TER hooker jeopardy and she simply couldn't go on.

Well...in all fairness she seemed stumped at the easiest of questions.

I asked who the gayest poster was...and she didn't know.  Sure it was a trick (pun intended) question...as there are too many to name.  I would have accepted Hound Dog...along with about 100 others.  

No refund...but we did have a fucking blast sipping martinis and shit later.  Was that negotiating?  Crap..now the board patrol is gonna kick my ass  LOL

I have never had a woman kick me out in the middle of the session, but when I called again for repeat appointments, they just ignored me...

Its amazing how when the rent was due or business was really slow my phone started ringing again..

I was initially befuddled by it, but it was all clear after a little reflection and talking to other guys.. Of course, this was about 10 yrs ago..

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How can you hobby, and be such a prude?

Four hour BJ ???   Was she serious ?   ROFL   If she knows how to give a proper BJ  and she tries to slow things down , I might last ten minutes the second time , five the first .          Never had her tell me I'm too big to  fit anywhere  she's open  .   That would be devastating to my ego .
 Isn't four hours much too long to have a Big Dick's amount of blood missing from the brain ?

  I'm looking for the provider who can make me last fifteen  minutes .
   

I would think it would be kind of depressing for a guy to think "I can't even pay to get layed".  On the othr hand maybe it's a good sign to improve hygeine/lose weight whatever. On the other hand there is the old saying "I'm fat. You're ugly. At least I can lose weight"

Since being independent, only once. It was a guy w/many highly recommendeds on Date-Check. The first time he contacted me, it was same-night for a multi-hour appt in a town far away, so that should have given me a clue. But he did contact me again with a week advance notice, and in light of his references, which I even double-checked to be sure, I thought that maybe he just wasn't an advance planner or a writer, but was cool in person. When I got there, he was obviously high as a kite and his personality/attitude was completely offensive. I was out within 15 min, even tho I'd driven 2 hours to get there (it was supposed to be a 6-8 hour appt).

When I worked for agencies I used to take a lot more s***. I probably would have suffered through guys like him at that point in my life, god knows I suffered through a lot worse. I only walked out on a guy once (he pushed for bbfs then tried to sneak the condom off), but there were other times I probably should have. One coming to mind was a client who walked in and told me he wouldn't progress until I promised Greek. I showed him to the door, but let him stay when he showed a work ID and apologized. The session was very strange (HE was strange) and he ended up asking me if I'd ever f***ed any girls, huge dildos, and animals, in that order, as if it were a logical progression.

Younger guys have a disadvantage here.
I notice that providers here want older men on their client list.
Why? 2 Reasons.

1. Older guys tend to have more money, and are extremely discreet.
i.e. Have assets to loose...Keeps them in line.
2. Younger guy are often unpredictable. Flake out, short them.. Etc..
General stupid guy shit my friends, and I did when we were 20.

I can't blame them for going with the sure thing.
You shouldn't either.

If I were to do it all over again, I would wait until my 30s to hobby..

So it's in your mouth anyway?
The only difference is my boys are swimming in it!
Ugh! I just puked on my computer.
You are gayer than me curly!
Thats bad stuff dude?

Fuck !!! Can't a dude try out something new..

Bwahahahahah

Once bout 30 min into it, I got fibromyalgia pain.I usually get in very very severe in neck. It can be immobilizing and blinding and I wont be able to freakin see straight or even think.  I can get it in stomache, back neck hip flexers , Its some at times debilitating arthritic condition they dont know much about, . It runs in my family actually. So I was realizing i just couldnt pretend to be enjoying myself in that state, I embarrasingly started ballin my eyes out, Explained the situation, And returned the rest the money. He was understanding, I had that happen a second time maybe 2 months ago. On outcall. I again burst into agony and tears, and had to have him help me carry my back pack out to truck. I again returned rest money, he was so nice I whitelisted him, He felt awful , I had to explain its nothing he did I had fun i jus have this bizarre somehwat at times debilitating pain disorder. I went home and plugged in a heating pad, Took one my flexral, a motrin 800 and laid on couch til it passed. I have had it happen in vegas too that time was more in the legs, I was at a clients hotel . nice one too ballys, We did one my 2 hour 750 dates evenin before which was easy and stress free, I however wasnt sleeping as much as I need and eatin crazy too.I ate all his cookies and his whole cold cut tray, it was vacation.  Next night I got fibromyalgia pain so severe in my legs I again cryed in front the client and had to pop a flexral and its very embarrasing I cry like a godam baby when it acts up. Its freakn the worst pain you could ever imagine,picture gettin whacked in the legs with ginormous sledge hammer over n over.  I enjoy certain pain, Hence my 16 hour back tat or whatver, The fibromyalgua is liek thsi severe pain that interferes with your mobility, and its a bad hit.
however layin in bed isnt good either for ya if you have it, So you gotta try n stay busy , and keep your stress down, i rember in vegas he wanted ANOTHER 2 hour 750 date which woulda ruled! but i was in so much agony I couldnt really move too much, I get weird too when it happens cuz i am in so much pain i am so sad to be unable to do thinsg, oh well, . But yes 2 times in past 3 months i had some issues with the pain disorder I suffer from and had to forfeit remaining donation as well as remaining session.    They were both undertsanding and nice about it.   I am sure they appreciated it instead me bein greedy and doing poor job just to grab the xtra money, .

to read about what you are having to physically deal with.  I wouldn't be embarrassed about the crying, someone would have to be a MASSIVE ass-hole not to understand.  Hugs...

How do you know that you will enjoy spending time with every Johnnie boy

Idiotic comment to make...especially here.

The newbie board may have a guy that would buy her nonsense.

I've never had to end a session....there was one time I wanted to....he kept spitting on me....I was so disgusted....had me on my knees....yes...then came on my face....I felt really shitty after that....I don't think too many girls like to be spat upon.....before and after he was very kind and didn't seem like the type.   I won't let that happen again.....I had just started out....


Live and learn...


Khori

Turn the throttle up a little higher!
I am not tasting jizz!!!
For the last time!!
I'm not THAT gay!
But Amber invited us to a hot tub party!
Yay! I can handle some sausage in the pool.
You can even watch me get some..
But you CAN'T TOUCH!!!
Now I understand why everyone got so up in arms about my sexuality!
Yikes! It's un-nerving.

I have always had a good time, if not a great time with the gals I've met; at least since the advent of the internet where I can learn something about the person beforehand.

I had to make sure they understood it totally had nothin to do with them, i can ignore it 90 percent the time i have a super high pain threshold, or so paul booth said, my tattoo artist, he said i sit very well, better than full grown men twice my size. i have had it happen so bad in my neck i couldnt even hold a dam cell phone up that weighs 2 lbs,! its that severe when it does act up, even the toughest person in wprld would have it interfere with mobility, its not like oh i am a little stuff from over sleepin, nope, its like youl tryn lift your arms or do somethin and will be stuck cuz the agony is so terrible. its nuts, ! and they given me like a zillion attempts to treat it cortison injections, muscle relaxers , motrin , nothin works, it so crazy.

I had pill boy bust an "O" ring trying to tell me that I had to have seen crappy hobbyists ( he does not believe for a second my marketing has worked and that I can't spot a douche bag a mile off), it is not possible that in the time I have been doing this I have not had assholes and time wasters and boundary pushers and bad review threats...nope he is convinced I have seen someone like him.

Why is it so hard for some of these little boys to believe that with very careful marketing and selection some of us can and do, avoid what many ladies complain about on this very board. It does not mean we are better people, just better at marketing to whom we want to see and using that same marketing to deter whom we don't want to see.

That dumb hooker crap that is pervasive on this board has most guys believing it. That we are so stupid that we have to see everything that calls/texts and emails and that we have no clue how to weed out the detritus.

As careful as you gents are, so are some of us.

as some of the men do in their selection of who they want to see. I have seen posts of guys who have not TOFTT and have had good experiences. Why not the ladies? And by enjoy, I take that as they are not assholes and give her the respect she offers them in return. "enjoy" does not necessarily mean sexual...that is something the ladies can't tell without first meeting.

Why is that so darn hard to believe? We all have had a couple of jerks and that most likely makes us all the more careful.

I read complaints on here about how ladies can't get guys to leave, how they sometimes hurt them (but the ladies are too scared to say stop ) etc...I am sorry but I have never been treated like that. I won't tolerate it and will speak up.

Not all of us will tolerate shit in the name of a good review or money and then complain about it after.

Except in very special cases. But yes I've done it.

Hello Angel. Reading what you had to say makes me more interested in meeting you (which I have been thinking about for a long while). I don't want to say that your pain humanizes you, but as someone who experiences a number of auto-immune problems...well hugs to you and I hope to meet you someyime soon. DW