First off, sorry for the alias, but based on the nature of this post I'm trying to avoid fanning any flames. The commentary below won't refer to any specific provider (nor will it include enough details for you to try to figure out of whom I speak), but rather a situation that I'm curious if anyone has ever had.

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Those so called providers should be ashamed of themselves, if they don't want to be reviewed, or reviewed less than something they might not deserve, they shouldn't be on here. It's mind boggling to see that supposed women do things like that. Yuck. Sorry to read your story and I hope you don't give up on the lifestyle because of that person. You deserve lots of love! I am also grateful for this community! I've met so many good people! the bad ones I just brush them off like ants, you should do the same. Kiss

You say you'd had multiple engagements with this lady in the past.  Ordinarily, that means that you and she have at least a decent rapport.  

Your accusation is really off-base and honestly hurts me to know you so misinterpreted my words.  

I reviewed one girl.. a good review... she was very popular and I ended up seeing her at least 4 times.. She had announced that she would be leaving the business.. we always got along.. connected on other areas.. and I was sorry to see that she would disappear.. I scheduled a last meeting with her..
It was awful.. it was obvious that she was going through the motions.. and unlike other trysts. she was as dry as a bone.. totally turned off.. nothing.. and in my head.. I didn't want to be there with her when she was so uninterested.. so circumstances change..  I think we, as hobbyists , may fool ourselves that the girls are there only for pleasure too.. and some are.. no doubt.. but things change and all of us .. when changing jobs may bring a different attitude with us to "work" and that's what it is. Nothing is always perfect.. Providers are people too.. Did I then re-submit a bad review?.. no, there was no point. she had a ton of great one's.. over 100 as I recall.. so live & let live..

I have had two similar experiences.  

People hate to receive unpleasant news, especially if it affects their livelihood and their sense of identity as well.  I'm glad you showed the integrity to state it as it is.  It also bolsters the argument for doing away with numerical scores as if the experience of a sexual encounter could be captured by a mere number.  It would force people to really read the reviews, and eliminate a lot of conflict as you have described.

The world is full of people who are just not right in the brain.  A woman who threatens you over a  whore score is clearly bat shit crazy.  I wasn't too thrilled with my recent 7/7 but I didn't contact him lol.  I simply pouted over it and  kept it moving.  Our chemistry dictates my performance. I am not a child so I need that connection. If that connection is absent I guess I provide a  7 kind of time. Mind you a hot time isn't exactly a bad thing.  But,  as humans we all want to be the best I guess. Anyway,  consider yourself hugged and I like your alias...very clever.  😊

eviews need to be read with a shaker of salt. In addition to reading between the lines, you really need to think about what has NOT been said.  In addition some meta-analysis can be useful, like checking the number and type of reviews and by whom, and other techniques for sussing out what is really going on.

Perhaps I am overreacting.   Being labeled a "greedy sexbot" isn't exactly a warm-fuzzy feeling.  Nor was it intended to be, obviously.  

When the passion fizzles, it's time to move on. Nothing to be gained by beating a dead horse. Granted, if she was not interested in meeting with you anymore, she could have taken the initiative and not booked your appointment requests. But then again, dropping a client can be like navigating a minefield for providers, so I can understand going with the "give 'em bad service so they don't come back" route.  

between two individuals.

I agree that the OP took the coward's way out. He could have tried saying "hey, is everything ok? You don't seem to be having as much fun with me as we had before," and felt it out from there. I don't see how he thought a bad review would motivate her to "prove him wrong" on his next visit.  

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The longer I have been in this hobby, the longer I continue to encounter such childish behavior.  Not at anyone in particular, but we are all supposed to be adults in an adult entertainment field.  Whether you're a provider or a client I believe it is our obligation to a) Not be a jerk and act childish b) Provide the best possible service to ensure a return or good review c) Understand that big boy rules apply.  

coercion was intended by the OP. Just thinking out loud a bit about how subtle coercion and manipulation can be at times.

If I'm having "a bad day" I won't see anyone, because that at the end of the day, affects MY business. It has happened in the past years ago, where I've felt sad or really down, and I saw a gentleman. It was awful I learned my lesson that one time, I also apologized to the guy and he saw me again and everything was back to normal. I'll let my guys know 1000% of the time if I'm not feeling good to see them and I'll tell them why not because that's how you build some sort of trust. It's a business, great customer service and good ethical habits is the building block to a great business. If a gentleman had concerns about my behavior I want to know! I agree with Debbie on that as well.  

First of all I will respond with out an alias... IMHO a lot of cowardice posting going on here. I understand the OP's use of alias but others....

Switch to "tree mode" and you will be able to more accurately be able to see who is responding to who.

I saw a provider who delivered as advertised on service, granted she was about 25-30 minutes late due to traffic but she kept me informed which I appreciated. I just sat in the lobby of her hotel and waited. After our session I sent her a note asking to review her with an 8/9 score. I was surprised to get and email back asking me to do a 9/9 or higher. I was taken aback an 8 is really hot. Needless to say I did not write the review because I didn't want to rock the boat. You never know what someone might do if you piss them off.

I agree.  
That provider must have been aware that she wasn't giving the same level of service.  
And reviews are NOT written for providers, they're written for the hobbyists as part of the service.  
I'm not going to write one to placate anyone, and my expectation is that other guys write honestly what they experienced.  
Frankly, this isn't a thread that any provider should be responding to, it's meant for the guys and should stay that way on this thread.

You just bored her. And following you post you can bore somewhere else.  There are many other men with whom she will enjoy the date. Your updated review is just showed your disappoitment and no one knows why to write it too. To inform all of your experiences with this particular escort and "caution" all others are childish. Xo

Sadly it doesn't work like that on this board.  If a client discloses that he has had a bad session with a provider, he is chastised and ridiculed, thats even if his post makes it to the board.  I once wrote a review which was an honest assessment of what went on and encountered so much red tape from admin that I just decided, after having it sent back 3 or 4 times, to not submit the review.  Excluding some sickos who want to exceed what is on a providers menu, I think the majority of reviewers have a decent moral compass and understand what is accepted when seeing a provider, there are some clueless exceptions, as with any profession that requires human interaction.  

Be a smart ass all you want  
But the statement stands.  
Your input in not unbiased, it can't be

You do make a valid point that especially if it happened more than once it really does show a lack of stones that his first action was to write a negative review instead of going to her directly to see if there was a reason for her noticeable lack of enthusiasm.  

I don't know if he should rewrite reviews, hard to say and only he can decide.  
But bottom line is this: we all have a responsibility to each other to give a heads up (pun intended) to the other guys.  
And sometimes bad reviews aren't fair or impartial. But mostly I think they're warranted when the service isn't there or is declining.  
Anyone who has been a hobbyist, or married for that matter, knows things can and d change.  
Maybe it was her off day, when it happens more than once that excuse goes out the window

In his first situation, I believe "re" writing the review should have been his last course of action, not his first and I think he very much shares in the blame, especially for expecting a warm welcome from her after writing her a negative review, even if deserved. This first scenario is hardly a black and white issue, it looks like there are a LOT of grey areas here.

I mean honestly, what did he expect after rewriting his review of her?  

I don't disagree.  
Some of these guys revert back to early childhood in this game.  
Nothing in life stays the same long term, most adults deal with it.

I didn't know guys could write reviews under aliases, and wow I agree, both are at fault for 2 different things, she's an asshole, and he's somewhat of an asshole for updating the review cus he felt uncared for after things have changed with her, and then trying to book again. No honey talk to me let's fix it or let's end it.  

Hahahaha OMG I laughed so hard thank you, great response hahahaha love it!

The second situation is entirely different... I agree with GA Gambler and most on this board that that kinda BS should never be tolerated.

on the other hand negative reviews can be a two way street.  i have heard from many a lady about fake reviews they have gotten, or even worse, reviews which leave out pertinent details, ie, how the client was a jerk in so many ways (asking for more time, demanding services not offered, asking for bare back, etc) and made the lady uncomfortable, thus leading to a bad session.

while I wouldn't write a review with low scores, it's not necessary as  the sessions are complete, the fun and passion has dwindled.  

This is one reason why the review system is f**ked up here.  As some have already said, if you want to write an honest review do it under your alias.

When I first started seeing her the passion was more than I expected and stayed at that level for a good number of visits, but then all at once she started phoning it in...felt like going through the motions, merely performing a service...I gave her a couple more chances but the passion remained absent and now she won't be hearing from me again...

The girlies seem to like my look

I read this shit and so happy to be retired. Some of you just get entirely wrapped up in this world. I mean, you should print your post and store it in a time capsule. Break that shit open in 20 years if you're not 80 now and hopefully you'll be wiser and know just how pathetic that post sounds.

t looks like the AI Team programmed our 40-something Sexbot with a personality profile of "Teenage Drama Queen".  See below.  

Its called life...... Same shit happens in real life relationships. But in real life you have this thing called love that hopefully pulls you through those times.   Unfortunately in the pay for play world you dont have that.....

These are like movie or restaurant reviews.  I used to watch Siskle and Ebert (dating myself.)  I practically never agreed with their reviews, even when they split on them!!  Negative reviews for movies can cost the film millions of dollars in lost ticket sales.  Restaurants can go out of business due to bad reviews.   So of course TER reviews can affect the bottom line for these providers.