I'm a little nervous about seeing a Provider who has an ad on eros.... she is beautiful, seems nice on the phone, but she has no reviews here at TER, so I don't know.  

I didn't bring it up to her, probably should have.  Anyway, I have an appt with her tomorrow.....

Should be no problems..... right ?

I guess, I'm looking for re-assurance..... But, I guess my real question is.... Will you see a girl without a review here ?

thanks for your input !

Are you sure she isn't a travelling lady whose reviews might be in a different area?

Just think positive

It may lead to other ads-

On one hand, she could be just starting out and you'd be finding a new gem in the rough, so to speak.

On the other, you could be walking into a bait and switch or upsell type thing.

Just protect yourself and be willing to walk away should she not be the person in the pics or not deliver as promised. Keep an ATF's number accessible in case you bolt.

Katie

...TOFTT.

I used to do that until I got hit with a cash and dash session many years ago (off of Eros).  Since then, I only go for well-reviewed ladies.

Nobody can give you the reassurance you seek.  That would be like reassuring you that you will win the next crapshoot - caveat emptor!

I'm one of those new providers. I get emails from gentlemen asking for TER reviews and I have to explain to them about being new and all that. I offer to meet them briefly at a public place before a date so they can see I'm the same lady in the pics. I realized I have to make extra accomidations until I become established. Not all of us newbies are a dud
Hope you have an awsome time on your date!

...we don't know your personal situation.  Your level of risk comfort could be a lot greater than most of our's.  For example, a married guy with limited hobby funds and play opportunities would view this as a lot riskier than a single, self-employed guy with money and/or time to burn.

However it turns out, a review by you is required!

... for me to ever feel comfortable TOFTT there.

Search the name. Search the phone number. Search the e-mail address. Search her website link. Search anything about her. Something should pop up somewhere.

Many times, I've seen other ladies with the same phone number. When you research those ladies, they tend not to be the best choice you can make.

Occasionally a new gem appears on Eros, but not likely. From what I have heard, it is relatively expensive to advertise on Eros. Thus, Eros tends not the be the first choice on places to advertise for a new lady just starting out. (new in the sense that she has not advertised somewhere else).

Yes, she is visiting, but according to her ad, she only goes between two cities and her phone area code is one of them.  I have searched the TER reviews and googled every clue on her.... cannot find anything.  

Thus, I did the logical thing, and I emailed her asking if she has reviews....of course in a polite way.

I don't know..... just a bit nervous without reviews here.  

Thanks for the replies !!

but I might add, that a newbie, which I assume you are should not be out there TOFTT.

You might mention your concerns to her and ask if she has any reviews out there.

Good Luck, just remember to use the big head.

...that's all any of us can do in any situation. listen to your first instincts. contrary to the belief of some, TER is not the alpha and omega of the escort business. the vast majority of providers and hobbyists worldwide do not use TER, have never heard of TER, and are not suffering because of it. also keep in mind that some providers do not WANT reviews.

when i took my first dip into providing a little while back, very quickly i had 4 or 5 reviews (all positive) from gents i had seen posted on the site i advertised on most. i was HORRIFIED. i had to delete my account, change my provider name and go wayyy UTR for quite a while because reviews are honestly the last thing i want. they make the whole biz less intimate and personal, they can cause potential clients to have certain expectations regarding activities, they often provide way too much (dangerous) personal info such as a girl's screening methods, location, situation, etc., and many other unpleasantries. i do not mind a gent maybe passing on my contact information discreetly to a friend, but a public review imo has more potential for harm than good.

so all of that to say, there are some legitimate reasons why a good provider may not have reviews, on TER or any place else. more than reviews if i were you i would focus on things like the chemistry (if any) between you two when talking on the phone, whether or not she is clear, genuine and open in your interactions with her thus far. and of course more telling than anything, that little feeling in the pit of your gut...is it the warm fuzzies or a touch of foreboding?

As a newbie on this board,i see the dilemas for both sides and i do recognize everybodies worries..I agree with Ciara and Joy when it comes to TOFTT, We cant forget that all new providers arent duds and even your atf had to start somewhere..But i do agree,(if she is not totally new on the scene)That something should pop up in the search...She may even have reviews elsewhere..

even if you don't have any reviews, pointing them in the direction of your posts would go a long way toward reducing the risk for them of thinking LE setup. So newbie providers should be posting, and advertising on the regional boards, just to get their name known.

It won't answer questions regarding performance, etc., but the risk from LE regarding someone who has been posting for awhile should be quite low.

Hey Joy and Robbin,
 We know all new Ladies and new Gents are not all bad, it's risky is all and we have all been there. It will happen just be careful and wait it out. Eventually there is always one who takes the risk and then you are off. I am sure as soon as it does, you will be very busy with lots of reviews. Good Luck Gals...

Nicole

...what did you end up doing???