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very awkward moment...red_smile
iHateAwkwardMoments 1500 reads
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Had one of the most awkward moments when a provider, whom I am close with, asked me to pick her up at a restaurant while both of us coincidentally were visiting the same city while on travel.  We were supposed to meet for a quick drink and then some bedroom action after. She wanted me to pick her up at a restaurant, go to some bar somewhere, and then go together to her incall. She said that her EX Husband will be dropping her off.

Although I already knew she went to visit her ex husband that week for personal/family matters, meeting the dude was going to be interesting.  A little awkward but I've seen and have dealt with a lot worse, so I was "cool" with that. When they finally arrived, I step out of my car to help her with her luggage. She brought her luggage, quite huge,  since she needs her 'provider' stuff.   I tried to say hello to the ex hubby, just to be friendly but I noticed the dude wasn't even helping her with her luggage or even bothered to look at me!!   Things weren't the least bit awkward to me right up until this moment when the guy just totally ignored me, and ignored his ex-wife too while she was struggling to pull the luggage out of the car. One would think that a guy would help his ex-wife with her fucking luggage at the very least??  

Something was strange, yes. At that point, a ton of thoughts zipped across my mind as I quickly came to a realization while trying to understand why. Maybe there was jealously, maybe he doesn't want her to provide, maybe he wants her back... and to him I'm just another pig. (Or, worse, could he be one of those grumpy pimps? After all, she's still giving him money for some reason.) It could be any one of those reasons or more.

Despite being just a few seconds it was really awkward. Then again, maybe it would've been Much MORE awkward if he DID come out and said hello to me, telling me to have a great time FUCKING HIS EX WIFE.  lol

MP67265 reads

Dude couldn't hang. Emotionally, sexually or maybe financially. He knows what she does now, thru her own admission to him, and that's his problem.

Was he a big guy? Could you've kicked his ass if he said shit? I'm guessing not, or he was put in his place before you went to meet her and gather her shit for your date.

Fuck him. He fucked up somewhere along the line and he knows it. That's his fault, not your's.

But if the situation gives you the creeps in the future with her or someone else, don't do it.

I have to ask. Inspite of the 'introduction', how did the date go? I'm thinking you had a great time and your only bitch was this strange turn of events.

Enquiring minds, brutha... ;)

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spider3431242 reads

pimps have to lay low around a customer -- he prob felt just as awkward as you did but didnt want to weird you out of paying his ex wife more money (she'd probably rag on him for ruining her business if he said anything and ended up creeping you out)

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TopDonor228 reads

Can't show no luv for his ho. Sure can't show no luv for his ho's john.

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McDonald000217 reads

Honesty, it took me a while to keep my business away from pleasure. In other words, don't cross the boarder lines. You know, things can happen. Even though your situation is a bit light, you r still seeing her off the clock--I tend to avoid that.

Anyways, that dude could've been any1. She said it was her ex-husband, who the hell knows his real identity. She probably told you that cause she wants to have some dignity of not revealing his try identity. He may be a pimp, could have been her drug dealer, her 5th ex, her abusive boyfriend, you have no idea.

Yeah, I try to avoid any off-the-clock interactions cause it tends to lead to trouble. In your case, an awkward moment.

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Proud_Monger188 reads

You don't know the circumstances of the divorce, and you don't really care.

The dude dropped his ex off and there are two people tending toward the luggage.  He probably presumes she is an adult and can take care of herself.

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DT_lover285 reads

Open the window while pulling away.  
smile
wave goodbye (if he gives you the finger, give him yours in return)
tell him read your review
laugh

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iHateAwkwardMoments190 reads



I don't think I can be that much of an a-hole to anyone but that would be a hella funny scenario if played out exactly like you said. lmao

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