I could use some input/advise from ladies and gents. I am self employed and find it difficult to get verified.So I have decided to join one of the verification sites(p411,date-check). From my research it seems fairly easy to get verified once you are approved by one of these sites. Is one site safer and more reliable than the other? Do the ladies trust one over thother Any advise, comments and experiences are welcome. Thank you all in advance. Feel free to pm me. Stay safe all.

...Gina does a pretty good job of weeding out the flakes and trouble makers.  Had an appointment with someone from p411 and got stood up.  NCNS.  Contacted p411 and the next day her ad was gone and it has not reappeared.

through self employment though, what makes you think any one else can? You either have the info. available or you don't.

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employer ID. I retired at a young are (46) and when I joined Date Check I simply told them I was retired. I can't remember but I may have given them my employment history but I was verified in days.

from the same info you give to a screening site, I would still not see a guy.

....Gina, and P411 are the best!

Hugs and Kisses,
Kelly

agree..Gina does not tolerate any shit from providers and clients alike..

Being self employed is not the end of the good life in this hobby...It (for me at least) just required some extra work. Here's what I did.

My business if filed with the State, so at least, Gina could Google me.
Then, I did some reviews.
After some trying, I found a few "real" providers...i.e. in it for business, not 2 months for a few quick bucks. I asked for a referral in return for...one said review, the other said no review...either way, I got my 2 referrals for Gina.

Its tough when your self employed, but not even close to impossible.

Dear Ms. Rayne:
Although we have had conversations on this topic previously as well as the fact that you had mentioned that you are not a member of P411,if you where to use the verification sites would it be just a part of the process with another part being emailing maybe some of the most well known providers that he has seen and getting some critical followup information before making a determination?  Also which providers do you find to be the most reference friendly and do you find anyone not to be reference friendly? Finally would you say in this business that you have to verify or vanish which would be imminent because it is only a matter of time before LE catches up to you?

and you have so much time to post here. If you get busted, your clients' info likely will be published. Not cool

any other person, but no if your info is lacking...it's lacking! There is no magical way to pull info out of your ass, so if you don't have it you can't give it to a provider OR A SCREENING SITE!

And, no I don't fk a lot...thanks for noticing lol. You do realize not all hookers 'have to' fk every day, all day right?

You contradict yourself in the very post you so desperately tried to pass off as an insult. If I don't have "a lot of customers' would that not be LESS information if I get busted? Uh....duh. Sorry, but I don't need money bad enough to see guys who are a risk or even a pain in the ass lol. Check your math honey, and check my blog if you want to see just how I really live lol.

If I only see 2 clients a WEEK, that's still 1200 bucks. If you think anyone in New Orleans can't live on that alone, and very WELL I might add, you're deluded. The average mortgage here, even for a house on the water that is over 2500 sq. ft. is less than 3k!

When you see me cutting my rates in half and running specials every day, you'll know I 'want' more business...wait for that to happen lol.

I don't keep a client log, so what's to publish? Test that fact out. Email me as a provider looking for a reference, and see what I ask you about the guy. It sure as hell won't be his name, email, or phone number because I would not know it. When you don't see 10 guys a week, it is not all that hard to remember who you've been with.




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No laughing: What/who is Gina? This is an interesting thread to me because I am traveling to new areas where the verification seems much more restrictive than some of the other cities I have visited, e.g. Las Vegas and the West Coast. I had never considered giving my real identity and particulars out to people in this world, but it seems to be not only common, but also perhaps to open doors to better experiences. Also, though I have been around here for several years, I have never written a review. Is it considered good form to contact a provider before writing a review? And, finally, if you have very limited experience in the hobby, how do you obtain references?