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Using chat to find partners?
LazyGuy 10786 reads
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I hope this post won't be deemed too off-topic, but I believe it's at least somewhat related.I chat extensively on instant-messaging programs such as ICQ, Yahoo, and Odigo.  Lately I've been hearing a lot about people using these services to find sex partners.  (I mean "amateur" partners, not providers.)  Several of the women I've chatted with have recently been telling me about the sexual adventures they've found through ICQ.  This has intrigued me, and I've decided to raise the subject with the hobbyist/provider community.  I guess the questions I'd most like to see discussed are:Have any of you ever used chat or instant messaging programs to look for partners or clients?  If so, how successful was it for you?  Were your experiences generally good or bad?I've only recently become aware of this, and I'm hoping there are some folks out there with some experience who can inform us a little...

shonda8016 reads

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In 1998 I met a large number of girls through Yahoo Chat in the Los Angeles area. At the time I was 23 years old and I met with 16 girls during the course of about 10 months. The girls I met were between the ages of 18-25. I had sex with 10 of the 16 girls I met, the six I didn't get it on with, I went out with one time and didn't see again, due to lack of interest on my part or theirs.Of the 10 I did have relations with, all put out by the 3rd date, as ordained by FM talk host/legend Tom Lykis and his Lykis 101 school of thought. 4 of the girls were one to two night stands, who I never actually took out on any date, basically they came over, got fucked, went home. 3 of the girls put out on the first date (yes I actually bought them food, drinks), and I dated for a short period of time. 3 of the girls put out on the 2nd or 3rd date, and I dated for varying lengths of time, of this group 2 actually became girlfriends.My modus operandi was to chat in the Yahoo regional Los Angeles chat room. If you live near a major metropolitan area, choose the regional chat room closest to you. It helps to be young, most of the girls in these regional rooms are under 30. Basically you want to find a girl with a picture, who lives nearby, and will give you the time of day. It helps if you have a picture on your profile or one that you can e-mail. If the chat goes well I had no problem getting a phone number after the 1st or 2nd online chat. If she won't cough up digits quickly, then she's a waste of your time anyhow. Talk on the phone a while but not too much, and it's always nice to find a girl in your area code. For your 1st in person meeting, go with something non-threatening, Starbucks is perfect. That way you can figure out if she's cute or not, and get a vibe. If that went well I'm always a big fan of the "Get Em' Drunk and Fuck Em'" school of seduction. If you're an older guy going for older guys you might have to alter this technique slightly (might have to buy them a steak).Of the girls I met, as far as looks go, I'd put one in the 9-10 range, not one of my conquests unfortunately. 5 were in the 7-8 range, 6 were in the 5-6 range, and I'd say 3 were in the 2-4 range (really beefy). Most of the girls were nice, and cute, maybe the main reason they'd meet a dork off a computer is that a lot of them are either healthy/volumptous/slightly overweight. It's not a bad deal really, but I wonder how much time I spent online to meet all those girls, probably enough hours that if I were on the clock that whole time I could have afforded a few quality sessions with a provider. Then again real conquests are just so much fun.

In 1998 I met a large number of girls through Yahoo Chat in the Los Angeles area. At the time I was 23 years old and I met with 16 girls during the course of about 10 months. The girls I met were between the ages of 18-25. I had sex with 10 of the 16 girls I met, the six I didn't get it on with, I went out with one time and didn't see again, due to lack of interest on my part or theirs.Of the 10 I did have relations with, all put out by the 3rd date, as ordained by FM talk host/legend Tom Lykis and his Lykis 101 school of thought. 4 of the girls were one to two night stands, who I never actually took out on any date, basically they came over, got fucked, went home. 3 of the girls put out on the first date (yes I actually bought them food, drinks), and I dated for a short period of time. 3 of the girls put out on the 2nd or 3rd date, and I dated for varying lengths of time, of this group 2 actually became girlfriends.My modus operandi was to chat in the Yahoo regional Los Angeles chat room. If you live near a major metropolitan area, choose the regional chat room closest to you. It helps to be young, most of the girls in these regional rooms are under 30. Basically you want to find a girl with a picture, who lives nearby, and will give you the time of day. It helps if you have a picture on your profile or one that you can e-mail. If the chat goes well I had no problem getting a phone number after the 1st or 2nd online chat. If she won't cough up digits quickly, then she's a waste of your time anyhow. Talk on the phone a while but not too much, and it's always nice to find a girl in your area code. For your 1st in person meeting, go with something non-threatening, Starbucks is perfect. That way you can figure out if she's cute or not, and get a vibe. If that went well I'm always a big fan of the "Get Em' Drunk and Fuck Em'" school of seduction. If you're an older guy going for older guys you might have to alter this technique slightly (might have to buy them a steak).Of the girls I met, as far as looks go, I'd put one in the 9-10 range, not one of my conquests unfortunately. 5 were in the 7-8 range, 6 were in the 5-6 range, and I'd say 3 were in the 2-4 range (really beefy). Most of the girls were nice, and cute, maybe the main reason they'd meet a dork off a computer is that a lot of them are either healthy/volumptous/slightly overweight. It's not a bad deal really, but I wonder how much time I spent online to meet all those girls, probably enough hours that if I were on the clock that whole time I could have afforded a few quality sessions with a provider. Then again real conquests are just so much fun.

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