Providers in the 19 - 20 somethin are Facebook users.  What happened was that 3 provider told me their real names and I found them on facebook. They accepted me as their Facebook friend so I respect their trust, and I use it sometimes to connect to them. I created a separate account that didn't include any info about my own family and friends, but of course I could see all their info and their friends/families.

Here's the thing .. when I look at the friends of my provider friends, I recognize them as escorts on Backpage or those who used to advertise on Backpage. Wow! Facebook has that loophole when you get inside the local networking between these girls, then you know their real names. But of course, I'll never tell anyone as I respect their privacy.    

At any rate, I recognize one girl I met before who use to be the roommate of a provider friend, but I never did a session with her.  She retired two months ago, cuz she was goin to see if she could get back to school.  So she asked "do I know you". I said, yeah I saw you twice when I visited your rommate. She asked me to email a pic, and then she said "oh yeah, I remember you".  We just chatted in a friendly manner for like 2-3 days on Facebook chat app.  Then out of the blues, she said "I can come and meet you if you want to hook up. Just tell me when."   To cut the story short, I didn't because she's not into the GFE thing and just wants a straight romp.

Anyway, I just thought if anyone used Facebook rather than CL and BP to hook up with UTR providers.

You know, I'm just going to STFU.

Do your deal dude. Good luck.

"hooking up" with UTR providers via FaceBook, Mysspace etc, is one of the worst ideas ever suggested on this boards.

I will leave this post up just long enough for the rational members to explain exactly why this is such a bad idea.

I am sure there is a reason to disapprove a post for  being "stupid beyond belief" and once I find it, I will probably pull this post as a public service, but in the meantime we are still under LP's "amnesty".

Thing is - I got this proposition via a Facebook chat from a lady I met twice very briefly. I really didn't intend on hookin up with her. And in the end, I didn't pull the trigger, since she wasn't really my type. I agree it's not a very wise idea, but wondered if others came across doing this. As LP said, post away LOL. Thanks for the amnesty.

If I am looking for UTR that is unreviewed I would rather find a civvy that has a BF or a husband.. She will be as much of a GFE with PSE lust thrown in as I can handle.
Go to any restaurant that has corporate after work meetings or get togethers and the restaurant  must sell alcohol,and have a dance floor. To better my odds, I won't  drink more than two alcohol drinks at those functions, however I don't advertise that necessity..Coke in a glass looks like Jack Daniels and Coke.A group of twenty people will usually have at least a couple suitable ladies . The average attached civvy silently pondering a no strings fling, will not want to have an affair with her co worker for a number of reasons, but the big reason is clingy guys and risk of getting caught..Pick one out and ask her to dance at 9pm. At 10 pm if you are blunt enough but not conceited, and you don't talk too much,she might go home with you, for a two hour experience.
Other than that I'm sticking with TER reviewed providers only.
Trust me you don't have to be handsome to be successful , her alcohol consumption will take care of her perception of you, as well it does of her perception of me..If you don't know how to dance or feel self conscious dancing,don't move your arms too much and no one will notice.

You said rational members!

When the fuck did I get lumped into THAT fucking group!

You fucking drunk, R?

Shiiiittt!!!

Personally, I would find it offensive for many reasons.

First, from what I have read, Facebook may not be a secure platform.  Who is to say that their mail system and chat systems are not monitored?  Like Google, your history is saved.

That said, if one provider has befriended you and trusts you enough to add you as a friend on Facebook, that is not an invitation for you to contact her friends. In a way, by your actions, you are betraying your provider friend's trust.   Providers who have Facebook profiles generally set them up to communicate with their friends and family who do not know what they do.  Just because you have stumbled onto their personal information, that does not give you the right to overstep boundaries and contact them.

Put yourself in their shoes.  Would you appreciate if a provider friend contacted your family members or personal friends to solicit business.  I am sure you would not as you have stated that you set up a "second" Facebook Profile that your family and friends do not have access to.  You are concerned about your privacy, yet you are not respecting theirs.

Also, we all have those email distribution lists that we use to send or forward humor to.  How would you feel about someone on this list taking it upon themselves to contact other members of this list that they are not acquainted with for no particular reason. (They were not planning a surprise birthday for you and sending invites.).  You and the friends contacted would most probably feel this is an invasion of privacy.  

A couple of links:

http://mobile.computerworld.com/device/article.php?CALL_URL=blogs.computerworld.com/15237/security_pro_facebook_is_the_new_big_brother_and_the_bad_guys_best_friend

http://www.independent.co.uk/news/uk/politics/now-big-brother-targets-facebook-1653407.html

For one thing, i am also on Facebook thru my personal email.., i use it to connect with my kids, my family, relatives and there's only 3 of my hobbyist friends who i have known several years are on there where we play mafia wars together .. that's it!!! i don't use it to connect and set up dates with them..  and thats JMHO

I have no interest in facebook, but my wife wanted me to setup an account. I gave a few reasons why I thought it would be a bad idea, but ultimately she thought they were silly. So I went ahead and did so.

In less than 2 hrs (seriously!), reason #1 showed up in the form of a friend request from an ex girlfriend.

In less than another 2 hrs, reason #2 showed up similarly.

Within 48 hours I was getting invitations to hook up from a subset of my ex girlfriends; even though I had set my relationship status appropriately and even linked to my wife as a form of preemptive avoidance.

I'd send back a 'thanks but I'm married nowadays" -- to which a couple responded asking if my wife would be cool with a threesome!

My wife can't do the sex thing at all; which is why I hobby. SO a threesome would be out as well. But I'm damned sure not going to be sharing that fact with any ex girlfriends.

Most of them are really fine people, but better to not encourage them -- just in case. Practically all of them wanted to meet her. I can appreciate the curiosity, but I'm a bit leery of that.

I have had it happen before that an ex-gf seems perfectly fine in the ex role; (and ex means no sex, duh) -- but at the slightest whiff of a hint, she turns predator. Some of these ex-gfs are extremely bright, and I don't want them having a motive to improperly direct their intellects.

I haven't the bandwidth to deal with that sort of potential drama.

Either way, I shared some of the correspondence with my wife; for whom enlightenment finally dawned. Now she is okay with the fact that account pretty much sits abandoned. lol

But, I guess, it would be pretty easy to hookup via facebook if I were so inclined.

But would I?

No way. I pay professionals!

Professionals aren't going to turn into deranged stalkers, start showing up at my house, try to make "friends" with my wife in order to sabotage her, want to meet her to size up "competition" or any of that jazz. Professionals aren't going to cause drama in my life.

what does "UTR" mean? Sorry if I appear slow...

It refers to a provider who does not generally advertise to the public.

Under the radar can also be a civvy, usually married or living with someone, who usually doesn't tell her friends, who she's having sex with on the side.
With a UTR provider unless you saw her reviews, or had personal experience with her before she went under the radar,there is a chance of poor performance..
A UTR civvy who is attached will usually give all the performance she can muster, and it won't cost a thing, unless her husband finds out and gets irritated.