"Why me" is the question that gets asked when something bad or unfortunate happens to us...  

 
Rarely people ask that question when something good comes their way.. How many times have we asked..."Why me..." Why do I get to live in America and not some impoverished country in  Asia or Africa?  "Why me.." Why do we get to live in the 21st century where technology has made our life so easy, and not in the 18th or 19th century? I could go on, and on and on, but you get the point !!!  

 
So far, in last 20+ yrs of hobbying, I was asked only once why  I chose her.. I told her that she was the 2nd best choice after someone else I contacted flaked out on me.. Never got asked after that.. Either no one cares or the word got out not to ask me... LOL

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It can be treacherous, like the question:  "Do these pants make my ass look big?"

 
So, accentuate the positive.

 
There are many good answers like:   I liked your posts on TER (or wherever) and thought we'd be compatible.

Or, just say that her photos turned you on.   If she says what about them, say it was the pose, or the look on your face, or just that it was a sizzling shot, etc.
Complimenting a gal's web site is also appreciated.

 
Saying that you were the back-up plan, or your rates were cheap, or that kind of thing is not going to get the relationship off to a good start.

I ask it frequently for several reasons. I truly want to know why someone chose me, what makes them think we would have fun together and how did I connect with them while reading my ad or website. It's also an ice breaker and gets them talking about themselves and most relax then.  
It's important to me as someone who is creating a business and a happy lifestyle to know what about me, or my website is resonating and connecting with the other person.  
Answers range from you're my body type to you are someone I want to spend time with, and I liked what you had to say on your website. From their answers, what and how they said what they said, sets the tone of our time together and I plan accordingly.

It's not a question I like to answer, to be honest.
The reason being, answering truthfully can really hurt the session sometimes. Just imagine you're telling the truth every time.  

 
"You were the only girl who was available at 10:30pm, I've tried twenty others and they all declined".  

"I saw a review where a guy said he fucked you in the ass vigorously for an hour and thought I'd get the same mileage out of you"  

"PO said I have to see you first before seeing superstars of the agency"  

It's really more of an interview question. On repeats, sure. If you repeated at least twice with provider and keep seeing her,then after a few visits that's perfectly fine. For each new client? I think that's overboard.

On a first date be sweet; if it is a repeat, be honest.

On a first date, just tell her she looked beautiful in her ads and her reviews made her seem like an interesting person.  

On a second or subsequent date, you are obviously into her so tell her exactly what attracted you to her initially and why you are repeating.

I have never seen a lady just because she was available.  I'm not desperate or horny enough to book a date with someone if I don't find them attractive in some way.   If they're not my type, have terrible ads or websites, come across as rude or boring on Twitter, etc.,  I just don't book.

Even if they weren't my first choice at that particular moment, if they are on my list at all, there is a reason for it.

I think it would be standard marketing research.  It's so expectedly natural that I can't even remember if I've been asked that.

Why ask such a crazy question? I mean this site is not a dating site for serious relationships. This is an escort site where Providers get paid to satisfy the Hobbyists. So think about that when you want to ask why you were chosen. Who cares why you were chosen. Just be happy that you were.

Just deflect their goofy questions. You deflect work around on how they make you feel. Throw chocolates or cash at them.

One woman I saw earlier this year, had the same name as someone I went to high school with. Obviously not the same person, different ethnicity, age, location.  

But they both shared the same meme on their social media. Figured that was a sign from above that I was to see her. Appointment could've gone better, but I will shoulder some of the blame for that and probably will try and see her again the next time I am in her area.

But other than that, most of the time my answer is gonna be some variation of "you were hot/you were affordable/you had decent reviews/you were available"