I called a provider based on her ad pics and we set up a time to meet. I arrived to find that she was 40+ pounds heavier than her pics. Definitely a BBW! I'm sorry, I don't have any physical attraction for  BBW's or skinny/Anorexic women. I'm a middle of the road kinda guy.

Anyhow her TER reviews made no mention of her weight gain. She claimed she had been off work for 6 months with an injury. Not wanting to create a scene, I stayed and tried to make the best of the situation.  I later sent her anonymous text message to voice my disappointment about her false pictures and asked her to do her clients a favor and post new ones. She could not bring her self to admit that her pictures were old. I've posted a review but this session left a very sour taste in my loins.

Question: How do you fellas handle ladies who post old pics, do you leave if she does not look like her pics? Some girls have been known to create a scene if you do this.

But the pics were VERY photoshopped in this case.  I stuck around as the gal had hundreds of good reviews...and I was most interested in a T&D BBBJCIMNQNS session anyhow.  She didn't disappoint in that department.

Didn't write a review on that session...but let my pals know via back channels about what she looks like.  And many acknowledged they knew.

So.....hopefully this was a fairly benign session for you.  Tell your pals...and move on.

Oh...and you sent her an anonymous text?  How anonymous could it have really been?  Trust me...she knows that you know.  And she'll continue as long as johnnie boys reply to her ads.

it happens at least once. Its like quarterbacking. You will get sacked no matter how good you are. Its part of the game..

I would say give her a fair review, if you want. And leave it at that.

Handle it professionally, and move on to next hooker. Hopefully next one will be better.

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I am ok with a little liberty taken, but I have had an appointment that I had to walk away from it was so bad. The only way to solve the problem is to walk. CPA is right...as long as people keep paying, she's going to keep posting those photos.

Create a scene?  Unlikely. Just fucking walk.

she would have tackled him to ground? Some of these fat hookers can play nose tackle in NFL

That is always my biggest worry going into incall...

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Hopefully we hit more than we miss, and inform our fellow hobbyists about her failure to live up to her pics.

You will risk making more of a stink if you walk out, so at that point you're committed.  It sucks for you because you spent time and money.

All you can do is write a bad review.  Sorry to hear that.

your hotel room.

Seems almost just as bad as fake pictures. If you know you look significantly different, and someone is about to give you A LOT of money based on how they think you look, it's very rude to lie.

I think it would be better to be honest about how you look, and get the clients that want you, then to lie and get angry reviews and have NO clients want you.

I'm sorry that you lost your money.

for this reason. I never want anyone to say "She doesn't look like her pics".

If the lady doesn't look like her pics, Leave. Why? Because by not leaving you're telling her she can do it again and more  guys will be ripped off.

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In fact, if you watch that "American Courtesans" movie (which we all know isn't representative of many/everyone on here), you get the feeling that there is some misrepresentation of looks and appearance.

Problem is, if providers have your personal information and you decide to leave, they can become spiteful and just put you on a blacklist.  Or call your house or employer.

As clients who have given up our personal information, it doesn't put us in a good position.

A good provider like you won't even let it get to that point.  You use updated pics.  But if a guy walked out, I am guessing you wouldn't blackmail him.  But other providers would.  And have.

Very mismatched upside and downside for the client.  Client has very little upside and lots of downside.

Are AFRAID to tell the truth

I just can't understand why my former ATF is resorting to old and even to fake photos. She continues to use photos in her ads from almost three years ago, shortly after she started providing, supplemented by a few taken about 20 months ago. She also periodically uses some ripped-off, fake photos of several other girls who "look like her" ostensibly for security and safety (huh? You can easily Google her telephone number or working name to find other, real pictures of her in other ads! WTF?!). More recently, she has freshened up her ad photos by using previously unused outtakes from the same photoshoots the others came from. Most are flattering, while some would not be a first-choice selection, which is probably why she didn't use them previously. I know all this because we had discussed her photos and dates and places they were taken. Also in the last 6-8 months, she had briefly posted cell phone photos of herself that weren't all that flattering: they made her look like a druggies or a street walker. In the latter case, I tactfully mentioned to her that it looked as though she had a rough day and she promplt took them down, never to be used again. While I haven't seen her in several months, I don't believe that she's gone down hill: she is still getting great reviews and mini-reviews: 7 or 8 in appearance and 8 or 9 in performance. Perhaps she figures that once she gets the client to the door, her guaranteed great service will bring them back as repeat customers. But she could get so many more customers without the deceit and deception. And its not as though she can't afford a professional photo shoot rather than resort to her shenanigans of using years-old photos or other ladies' photos. She's quite financially successful in her business. I just can't understand her thinking or her actions on this...

Saltyballs had no balls, unless of course this was an outcall.

If she makes a scene. run faster.  Call the hotel after you have left and tell them there is an overweight hooker in room. XXX.

I did it. You oay some xtra points and get your photos "verified" you need to take some photos of yourself holding sign with the date and your identification number for this site. then days later , youl have a little "photos verified" logo in corner your ad profile .
and why not check for ads where the lady posts recent cell candids. i seen alot do this , I myself do it. maybe payin the mebership dues for the site with verified logos option is a good idea for you, .. initialyy i think its like a benjamin for guys dues, but hey , whats worse , you goin and dropping the whol appt fee n being bummed out? maybe you should join that site, where you definetly cant handle the thicker ladies . Because from what i hear from guys this is common. the lady being older and heavuer. and alot guys dont care about the ladies age or weight so, if you care so much you gotta start utilizing this feature, I signed up for it immediatly thought it was great idea.