Guys are stimulated visually more so than women.  So for us, light = good!

Is it going to be kinky session where I am going to get spit on and beaten up? Am I going to be lucky enough to get my head ripped off? Will I get a bloody nose, broken jaw?--- If answers are YES, the I want to lights to be up.

Is it going to be a sweet loving making session to jazz music with wine and strawberries? Then I would prefer the lights to be dimmed...

I want her to see this gorgeous hunka man that's giving it to her. What the hell is wrong with you?

I'm a dimwit.

Candlelight is great.  Not to mention, when I "plug in", my dates always light-up!!

knowhatimean?  

I wanna see you while I do you....and you do me.  There was one gal who I had to keep asking to turn the lights up so I could see her.  I'm a totally visual guy, not a fucking mole.

Up to begin with.  Then dimmed for a bit. Then off for a bit. Then back up.

Seriously.


HH

On how attractive the lady is!

I personnaly find that some ladies who may not be overly attractive provide a great service but the visuals are not so great. While some of the more attractive ladies more often than not lack in the skills department so the visuals are a requirement.

Fog

But a day time encounter with the shades drawn usually has plent of light (around the edges) with out the overhead lights.  I don't want to need shades, indoors.  Even at night a couple of stick candles safely on the dresser is plenty of light.  
H

I want to see her so I like lights at least at first. But it often depends on my mood at the time. I do like candle light, real or battery, I don't care.

Once my wife and I were making love with the lights on and right in the middle of it she says...Oh! close the car door!! (rim shot)

Besides, I'm 50 y/o and prefer to boink young girls. Think they wanna see me? lol

to match my intellegence.

so that she feels comfortable and can do her job right.

As long as the table lamps near the bed are off, I am fine.  I hate them to be shining in my eyes.

One gal I know loves to have just the light from the TV on (With the sound turned off.).  She says the flicker in the light from the TV is a turn on.  Whatever.  8o)