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helixir 54 Reviews 55 reads
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Even with ladies I've known a long time, last-minute is hard to find. Ladies have real lives to which they're attending, and, in my experience, that means a minimum of several hours between contact and date with a known entity. There was one lady I saw several times over 18 months who could be ready to entertain me with 3 or 4 hours notice, but even that wasn't every time. There was another who did it a couple of times, but at the price of not getting glammed up like she would for a more planned date. For a new encounter, same day just isn't a thing in my years of P4P.

In 'the old days' I would use Screw Magazine in NY or back page to find a provider when that "I'd love to see someone now" feeling hit.  Where possible I'd validate using TER.    With the loss of back page I've struggled to find somewhere else to identify someone to call last minute.   Sites like bedpage seem riddled with scams and others like Tryst are pricey alternatives.

Anyone have any suggestions?

The person refuses to read my website prior to reaching out continuously it gets me the opposite of hot & ready. Several emails back and forth with nothing I require to book a date this is a vibe check. Kiss 💋 keep it super simple.

This Mama moves when she receives all the booking information from my website and a deposit. 💸  
I could be available now for the individual who deserves notable treatment and has no problem paying me to move fast. 🥰 Available now? Yes! Its possible.

The entitlement some feel for being longtime members, or look at all of my outdated okays. I don’t book via third party websites. Private & personal vetting is very much appreciated. If I’m contemplating going out in public with you I would at least, like to know what you look like that’s nice. Blind dates… You seem to have me at a disadvantage.  

Please & thank you, kindly! Read the providers requirements prior to contacting them. Respectfully.

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100% totally agree! If I don’t get the information needed and it’s back and forth I’m over it and I move on I don’t have time to go back and forth especially since I have a career outside of the hobby.

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Even with ladies I've known a long time, last-minute is hard to find. Ladies have real lives to which they're attending, and, in my experience, that means a minimum of several hours between contact and date with a known entity. There was one lady I saw several times over 18 months who could be ready to entertain me with 3 or 4 hours notice, but even that wasn't every time. There was another who did it a couple of times, but at the price of not getting glammed up like she would for a more planned date. For a new encounter, same day just isn't a thing in my years of P4P.

hehitshewins57 reads

If you get a few regulars, they may be more open to last minute if they are available. Once you see them a few times, you don't need to screen and you probably can text them. As long as you don't expect it, some do not mind a regular just asking. And if there sitting on the couch binging Netflix, they might just need an hour or so to get ready. But understand this does not mean they are waiting and ready for you.

 
In certain neighborhoods, you can still find street walkers. Not my thing for various reasons. But I know guys in LA who don't mind going over to Figueroa in South Central and getting a car blowy.

 
Agencies are a great resource for last minute. Once you have been screened, future bookings are easier. As long as you're not fixed on one lady, they usually will have someone available. Anything from kgirls, AMPS, to more higher end agencies are options.

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Contacting early evening the night before is about the fastest I have had good luck with. It always seems if you don't get things things nailed down the previous evening at the latest things will not go well. Nothing worse than having an appointment set up days in advance go south due to a provider or travel conditions. Rebook with the original provider or move fast to find a replacement. Your options diminish with each hour that disappears.    

I prefer being contacted the night before (for last minute appointments that is)it’s easier and all of the verification is done so all that’s needed is for you to show up the next day.

Have routinely done a confirming on the day or night before .
This started when a date  did not happen because I did not take the initiative.
This does leads to the question the following morning when one as of heard back.

I agree! I mean if I don't have anything booked and not running errands then I get at least a 3-4 hour advance notice I can make that work, but the night before is so much better because you know you have an appointment and also you know what time to be ready, set  up, I like to have something ready to nosh on when you arrive and drink [depending on what time it is whether coffee, water or a cocktail] and get ready for some hot fun!

Though not always possible, there is a certain appeal for a spontaneous rendezvous. There are a few ways you can approach this:

-Reach out to ladies who you are interested in seeing to ask if they offer last minute requests. Everyone has different opinions on what's considered last minute so be sure to specify what availability you are looking for.
-Most sites that I am aware of have the available now and/or rate feature that you can use to filter your search. Tryst and P411 have both features.  
-Make a post in your local and/or the in search of board asking for recommendations. Someone might have a recommendation they are willing to share.  

Good luck!

It’s very hard to be available at the last min when you have clients that fill your schedule with pre-bookings, and have a personal life. I do not accept bookings with less than 3hrs notice.. especially if you’re a new client! I need to screen you or reach out to references. I also shower, do my hair and makeup, tidy up my incall, wash bedding and towels, etc. I’d be suspicious of any provider who claims to be ready NOW. Those instances are when we see reviews of clients who showed up and the provider lied so they waited for 2hrs in the car while they got ready. It’s best for everyone to feel unrushed and plan ahead by atleast 1 day. It’s also a bit rude to expect us to drop everything (but I understand sex drives aren’t predictable). OTOH I won’t complain about making unexpected money by a same-day booking .

So I find that I have a window of time open in a few hours. Get the urge to see a regular and call at 10 to see if she would be willing to see me at 2:00’or3:00/  
If she says yes great if she says no I understand but at the same time do not expect her to be pissed. Work and make money if it work if not OK on my end. Also in this case would not be expecting said provider friend to have to do anything but shower.

The difference is you said “regular”… meaning you already have rapport with the provider. That makes scheduling last min alot easier. I was (mostly) referring to new clients. I wouldn’t be pissed, but yes its annoying when you have a new suitor with zero rapport ask to see you “ASAP”, ignore all your booking procedure, and rush you without offering to pay a little extra to put other things on hold. Also the way women get ready is an entirely different process than men. Especially as sw we have to prep our incall (water, condoms, lube, ambient light, music, sanitize massage table, etc)  or pack an outcall bag. Less than 3hrs notice is extremely unrealistic if you want a good experience, but 1 day notice is top tier.

This - I’m not opposed to a same-day request, but I’m usually fully prebooked for 1-3 weeks out.

But a lot of Orgs (Korean, Chinese and Thai) can accommodate you within a couple of hours or less.They're not like AMP’s.Their incalls are usually at a mid to high end apartments building in a nice safe area. Of course this is dependent on where you live and how well YOU screen.You have to do your homework here.
The drawback is, the girl most likely won’t be the girl in the picture, although one Org does use the real pictures which I appreciate.
But it’s good to be tight with the booker so they can steer you in the right direction.
I have two on speed dial and they usually have very nice girls. So it works when ya gotta have when you want it.
But, this isn’t for everyone

hehitshewins55 reads

I was fixing to see a lady, and two that I contacted fell through. Another I tried that morning, never responded. It was now about two hours away, so I did contact my kgirl booker. The nice thing is I didn't have to screen because I have used him in the past. The not nice thing is at that point you're taking leftovers. Any known/popular ladies are highly unlikely to not be booked already. You're looking at newer/less popular kgirls. And, like you said, since pictures don't match the person, it's a real gamble. Yes, they still have ladies, and you can get lucky and find the new girl is actually cute and she is available because people don't know about her yet. This window is small because word spreads quickly in the kgirl client circles. There's a rare chance a popular lady got a cancelation, but this doesn't happen often.

 
In my case, it was a big disappointment. I got a newer lady who likely will be stuck with getting guys like me who are last minute and will take whatever the booker gives. She was the least cute kgirl I have ever seen. In hindsight, I wished I had just decided I was not destined to see a lady this day and moved on. Sometimes, the best decision is to be OKAY with it not happening on the day you wanted it to happen.

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