I'm not going to make excuses for your ATF but if she's not "working" around the holidays she may not be checking her provider email either.  In any event, I've don't the same thing you...sometimes I get a response, sometimes I don't.  

Has she blown you off in the past?

Since I won't have access to a computer Monday through Wednesday, I decided to send a Christmas greeting to my ATF last Thursday. I've known her for six years, probably spent about $10-15K annually, and have always treated her with the utmost respect. So, after four days, not even an acknowledgment has been received. Believe me, I have no illusions about the nature of our relationship, but WTF?

for someone, just do it. Don't expect anything in return. You will be happier in the long run.

You felt like sending her a greeting card. You did it. Great !!! Good for you. You are a good man.

Now move on, and enjoy your holidays.

like the others said its the Holidays and she's probably just not checking her emails and or just spending this time with her family.

it's just a stressful time of year. Probably nothing she realizes she has done wrong and you just feel stronger about it than she does.

Maybe it was something you did that she has not been able to get past. Just keep being a good guy and hopefully she will be back in touch with you soon.

Enjoy your holiday as best you can, good luck.

MM

Until TER decided to close it down  LOL

Maybe she'll get back to you when the dudes that pay her in excess of $ 25k year are done with her.

Remember...it's not about the money  

A saying goes:

"He who does not expect shall not be disappointed"

I guess he was expecting..like the guy who brought the hooker and her kid home and wanted a BBBJ for his generosity.

And BTW...15k isn't all that much.  At least for some fellas  

And have access 24/7?

I guess one or two...but most have this all the time.

But many wouldn't reply if they have other shit going on as well.  But in all fairness...a text/email to wish him back would take...what...5 seconds from her extraordinarily busy day  LOL  Hell...when she's taking a dump she could send him a Holiday greeting!

Hint:  she has a life.  Respect that.  No doubt, after the holidays she'll get back in touch and say thanks.  Then you'll feel like a jerk.
Hint #2: she ain't your girlfriend.

She was in the process of coming for the 400+ time due to my great oral technique.

She'll get back to you after the first of the year.

She promised me 800.

A little common courtesy goes a long way.

Shit...his gal pal may be tied up with SI doing the swim suit edition.

Come to think of it...that might be a lot of fun  

I have a smartphone but use my computer for all ho-mailing. That's for a few reasons - IP masking, malware detection, not wanting to stay logged in for security reasons, and having very complicated passwords. I've been burned in the past so that's why I'm extra careful now.

However, even with all of that, I still check said ho-mail at least twice per day. There is no reason why a girl couldn't or shouldn't send a quick reply to "Merry Christmas!"

Dood!  It's the holidaze! Get with the speerit uv thu seazon!  C'mon, man!

Not a biggie.   Don't take it too hard.

She broke her IPAD after she found her boyfriend was seeing another hooker!

She may be busy

She may not have computer access

You may have gotten caught by her spam filter

She probably WILL get back to you in the next week or so

Mostly, I think you need to re- look up what "NSA" means.  And I have some problems in that area myself, but c'mon, man, a few days?  You're being a bit grabby,IMHO.

Why don't you ask her?

You low on totem pole.

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She is without her work computer and is with family. Not an unlikely scenario. I have a separate system for this work and when I leave on Friday, I don't check till Monday morning. I am taking two weeks off and won't be near that system all that time. Of course an auto responder message might have been a good idea.

But you assume that she has access to hers 24/7, just waiting for you to write.


typical.

Hi,

 a few weeks ago & didn't expect any thing in return!!  She text me , today, & told me that she'll be in town this week!!  Good things come to those who wait!!  

I send the IRS a check for 15k every year and they don't even say Thanks....how rude.!

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But like others have said, she was probably just busy with holidays. It's like, some guys don't realize you have a life outside of being a provider. I had a gentleman send a booking inquiry Christmas eve, and then continue to send followup emails when I did not respond. Hookers are people, and we want to celebrate with our families too.

And I'm STILL not going to be available the rest of the week. KWANZAA, b*tches!

I jest. no one actually celebrates kwanzaa....