Interesting question for all of us, especially those that love variety..... If you could choose to be with one person or love ONE person (by love I mean you are both in love and of course sex would happen often) or have sex with whoever you want whenever you want.... Which would you choose and why? (You can't choose both) Let's remember the word love and it's true meaning....Unconditional, someone that would do whatever you wanted...even sexually....
Interesting question for all of us, especially those that love variety.....
If you could choose to be with one person or love ONE person (by love I mean you are both in love and of course sex would happen often) or have sex with whoever you want whenever you want....
Which would you choose and why? (You can't choose both)
Let's remember the word love and it's true meaning....Unconditional, someone that would do whatever you wanted...even sexually....
in due time. Love need trust..Trust need time..In the stage I'm in now I chose sex because, I'm not ready to settle or be with just one man/woman. It could also be that I'm very picky... it'll take a strong and special being to tame me.. :-*
The problem is, FOREVER is a VERY VERY long time and the thought of fucking the same woman, no matter how much I loved her or how hot and passionate she was, for the rest of my life and NEVER getting to taste the fruits of another woman just doesn't seem realistic to me.
I will confess that on those rare occasions when I do actually fall in love I don't even look at another woman and I have zero problem being faithful, but as I said, that's only short term. I don't believe I am capable of maintaining that level of feeling for any woman for any significant length of time.
I need more than one lady, to make me happy. Also I don't put limits on myself or have to worry about paid time every time. Lol
Posted By: Fancy8888
PAID time all levels.
Posted By: RoxanneHeartNYC
Hello boys and girls.....
Interesting question for all of us, especially those that love variety.....
If you could choose to be with one person or love ONE person (by love I mean you are both in love and of course sex would happen often) or have sex with whoever you want whenever you want....
Which would you choose and why? (You can't choose both)
Let's remember the word love and it's true meaning....Unconditional, someone that would do whatever you wanted...even sexually....
As in ... Insane? Unconditional love ... Get a dog.
Posted By: RoxanneHeartNYC
Hello boys and girls.....
Interesting question for all of us, especially those that love variety.....
If you could choose to be with one person or love ONE person (by love I mean you are both in love and of course sex would happen often) or have sex with whoever you want whenever you want....
Which would you choose and why? (You can't choose both)
Let's remember the word love and it's true meaning....Unconditional, someone that would do whatever you wanted...even sexually....
The problem is, FOREVER is a VERY VERY long time and the thought of fucking the same woman, no matter how much I loved her or how hot and passionate she was, for the rest of my life and NEVER getting to taste the fruits of another woman just doesn't seem realistic to me.
I don't believe in monogamy. Been there, done that. Monogamy is boring and unhealthy. Of course I would choose to have sex with whomever I want, whenever I want...and I would still love them all.
I think you can....if the woman is open and realistic. I was always realistic even before doing this, I always wanted for my SO to have sex with other women, to enjoy himself (I'm an entertainer and hostess at heart) To me it's only sex. He has the condition that I must at least be in the same room. It's not realistic for a man to be with one woman forever, however, the same could be said about women. I could be happy just having sex with one man. Women and men are different in that. I took sociology in college and what I can got from that in lamest terms is that from an early age men are encouraged to soil their oats women on the other hand are taught to be with someone and only them. I'm wired differently to be honest.
doing this. Not that I don't enjoy sex or anything like that but it's just the different personalities and the different expectations. I would choose unconditional love to be honest. I don't need anymore than that. I was always taken care of so I guess to me it's different but I see what you are saying.
I don't believe in romantic love anymore, after the newness rubs off its just a matter of putting up with one another. This is glaringly obvious even with people who say they love each other and have been married for 10 years or more, they complain about each other and bicker a lot.
So yeah, I got rid of that, I sure as hell don't care to get back into it. I'd much prefer to get laid by different women, when I want to. NSA sex is the life for me, and I'm glad to be of the minority, it might be bad for society if all men were as jaded to romantic love as I am. So by all means, love on. I'll watch from the sidelines.
If love as you define it is "unconditional", which real love is supposed to be I can have both. Because she would love no matter what. Of course, I would give her the same freedom. I think they have a word for that, Poly
OK maybe I never PMed you about the subject, but my polyamorous views are plastered all over different threads on the board for all to read...nice to have you back, Roxy
Since true love always eventually means no sex, I'll take the sex anytime, anywhere, with anyone. I don't have anything against monogamy nor love, even in the hobby, but love does not guarantee sex. The hobby does. Which means my next wife is going to have to sign a sex pre nup.
I've never experienced true romantic love, never had a girlfriend as an adult. I'd rather have sex with one woman 1000 times than 1000 women 1 time but I don't think I can pass up the chance to have sex with anyone I want (Ashley Graham, Riley Reid, Nikki Glaser, Roxanne Heart, etc) whenever I want and wherever I want them.
I've lived a poly lifestyle for most of the time I've been sexually active, have shared deep emotions with many of the guys and girls I've seen over the years, and have real feelings for many of my regulars now
I was never happier than when we were together, Travel ; conversation, sex, everything was wonderful I was happy just to be with her and I dropped out of the hobby. But, i am married with children and grandchildren I loe and my wife is a good an loving person. I felt I was being more and more unfair to the lady who had enchanted me as it became clear after a few years hat I just was never going to leave my family. I told her we should stop seeing each other and I am back meeting lovely and exciting providers, Nice, but I was much happier the other way. I'd go for passionate and loving monogamy any time. Hard to find.
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