So I'm one of those guys who had all his eggs in this basket (TER). I got tired of seeing the same old regulars and finding new girls since FUCKSTA and SHITSTA has been a little challenging so I just joined P411. The great thing about TER was being able to search for girls based on services provided. P411's listing of services used to show specifics too but but i was surprised to see they do not anymore. Instead of "greek" and "cim" all I see is "girl next door" and "openminded". Am i missing something? Can you search by services provided? Since I'm ok'd, would the girls respond to questions of specific services?
I'm a member of P411 but am not active at the moment. What I do know is Gina sold it and the new owners have made changes. Even though P411 is still located in Canada they are probably taking precautions so as not to violate US law. Same thing here at TER. Have you noticed this place committed suicide?
Don't discuss services ahead of a session. It sucks but you might as well put on a cop uniform for the reaction you'll get, up to and including blacklisting. P411 is not a review site. It attempts to exclude LE and really bad providers and clients.
Most bookers and providers did not discuss specific sexual services with NEW customers. As Lester says, it makes you look like LE. Nothing has really changed in that respect as far as the etiquette for new customers. Since there are no reviews, I find the most reliable way is to network with other hobby bro's in my area and find out what the menu was for him/her (Yes, I have a couple of female hobby bro's) and how the service was for a girl I'm thinking about seeing. I did this even when there WERE reviews. This is primarily why I still want to maintain my TER VIP. I had about 60-70 guys in SoCal that I regularly traded info with before, and about half of them kept their VIP service after TER went dark in the US, so we still network about local providers. If I lost all contact with them, I probably wouldn't ever see an indie, and I would be much more cautious on which agency girls I would see. Between the flat-out pimps and promoters, and agency bookers that are just trying to book as many guys as possible, its tough to go it alone, as you're finding out.
BUT, the response will hardly be the kind you are hoping for.
Sorry, but while a lot of things have changed post FOSTA/SESTA some things have not and one of the things that have NOT changed is the rule about NOT discussing specific services with someone you have not yet met in person. I strongly advise you not to try asking these types of questions before meeting the ladies in person, doing so is VERY likely to end up with you being on a bunch of DNS lists.
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