I'm new to this game, and my first few sessions I'd go in with a 'goal'. I've learned in my short time that it's futile to have a goal. I still game it out in my head, but as soon as the door opens all bets are off. Now, I just go with the flow.
At first I did think I'd like to have 2 pops, and that sometimes happens, but not always. Now, I just book a few hours and let it go where ever it takes me. And btw, only once I felt the girl was sort of watching the clock. I always do, and on more than one occasion when I asked what time it was, she would say something like 'do you have some place to be', and I never have some place to be, but I like to be respectful of her time.
Not necessarily in this order, just as they come to mind.
1. Looking for someone with whom I hit it off well enough that it could become semi-regular. 2. Keep my privacy safe. 3. Protect my money from bad actors and meet the actual person in the photos, who also still looks like the photos. 4. Get a feel for her personality as well as her level of responsiveness and if she's organized. 5. Spend time and have sex with women I would not normally have the opportunity to. 6. Find someone I can expand my sexual horizons with and explore/test my boundaries. Multiple pops are always desired, but sometimes, I'm not in the mood and just want to hang out. I do find it frustrating when a provider tries to do everything in the world except encourage another round during a long session (90 minutes+). Like they are avoiding it if they can.
I prefer fetish play which limits the choices. Once I find a girl who’s into what I like I’m a repeater. Or at least make me believe she likes it I don’t care. Vanilla is a great ice cream flavor though. 😂
To feel desired and chosen. To feel that I can give pleasure. To feel more virile. Yes, I also want to feel pleasure of my own and yes, I love to get off multiple times too. But these are secondary; for men, they are almost a given. Throw in some social fun like dinner, a concert or a show - and my goal is achieved.
One who you developed a connection with become a semi regular avoiding the hassles of losing your deposit. Testing growing each other boundaries sexually/intimacy and eventually becoming a confidante.
This is why sometimes I try to script the experience. Others, I just book what I want specifically.
If I'm in the mood for a certain kink, I make sure it's clear. If I just want a quick lay, not so much. For instance, let's say I'm in the mood for Greek followed by a facial. I'm obviously going to let you know that in advance. If I'm just looking for a quickie, probably no need.
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