Yes, every girl wants to be known as a 'GFE' these days... and there are quite a few reviewers ready to accomodate them by throwing the label around from anything that substantiates a smile from a provider to "she offered me fresh soap in her shower". I see more and more reviews labeling a girl a "GFE" without anything closely resembling the experience in their reviews. Let me tell you my interpretation of a 'GFE'.
Years ago I had a girlfriend of sorts. We weren't exclusive however we dated consistently for 11 months. At the time we were both committment phobic, we liked our privacy. In those 11 months we rarely saw each other during the week... we never even met each other's families. On the weekends it was dinner, a movie and f**king in the sack. The next morning we either had sex or I was out the door by 10 am... no complaints. We were busy people with little in common, except some incredible body heat.
For years I 've thought she would have made the most incredible provider. She was intelligent (a Master's Degree), incredibly sexy, She liked to give and recieve. She made me a better lover. I've met providers that have given me a similar experience. You meet them and they're, friendly open and accomodating. No mention of money, roses... trust is there through the whole session. Time is taken to chat and catch up or get to know each other. There is no clock watching. They take the lead, but also enjoy the experience. DFK, orgasmic, laughter, passion, and maybe a little bond. After the last pop there is a few blissful minutes of relaxation and snuggling. The only difference in the experience is the 'gifts' exchanged for each others company.
Lately I've seen reviews like this: "I arrived at her hotel, we had a beer. She let me undress her and then she played with me. I enjoyed a little DATY and then we finished with a BBBJ and a little doggie. Total GFE!"
That sounds more like some chick I banged in college and didn't want to recognize the next day in Calculus. I guess everyone has their own interpretation of what consists of a GFE... I just tend to see some pretty weak reviews, touting "GFE" experience.
What's your opinion? Overused or open to interpretation? Discuss!
And yeah, a lot of guys have different 'interpretations' as to what GFE is, as well as the providers.
I know what I used to do with my ex-girlfriends, and some of the providers I've seen have done the same. Even more in some cases.
Basically, it's in the eye of the beholder. Some guys might have more or less experience than you or I, therefore, who are we to judge what they interpret as 'GFE'? And them, us.
you have already come to your own conclusion in this matter.
"Overused or open to interpretation?"
Why are you asking this question? You clearly, have already come to your own conclusion on this matter, your subject line already tells us this. You think, GFE, is the most over hyped label for service these days.
"GFE... the most overhyped label for service these days."
Urban Dictionary alone, has 10 different definitions. Sorry if I burst your bubble on this one.
I think its so hyped because its what guys are looking for, But they miss the point of what a true GFE is to be.
GFE in my opinion is extra tlc, Loving caring and intune with the partner. GFE-is not bb ANYTHING. Even in my reg life i use condoms with my MAN.. And i am every bit of the GFE with him
If your looking for BB anything,,,... refer to a PSE Which is wild crazy meaning sex, and usually BB.
One would think that what they observed on the screen is what will be provided to you and you find out not so.
There a plenty of so-called "PSE", yet as they jump into the provider world it is covered everything. I've seen a couple porn stars though it was BBBJ, it was certainly not GFE or anything close to it.
As GFE is overblown and again in the eyes of the receiver, so is PSE highly overrated.
I can name several ladies I've seen who were every bit the PSE without classifying themselves as such. Just sayin
In some cases more than likely but none of the PSE providers that I personally know offer that. Guys like to tell the ladies that and try to get them to cave in on the matter telling them it's not PSE because it's not covered but that is totally not true.
...when we saw each other out on the weekend (which was inevitable, we frequented the same two establishments in our small city), it was like "whose place are we going to tonigh?"
To your question, of course there are as many opinions on what GFE means as there are different men's tastes for different ladies. You're not going to fence in the definition here; just find the ladies that hit your stride and enjoy.....
We agree it's meaningless with all the different perceived definitions, at least as an advertising term or to describe something. I personally try to limit their use in my reviews, but I write mini-novels anyway...
Thanks for the morning chuckle (while I sip my french roast and take a break from responding to emails).
When I first expanded my menu, I used the term "GFE". I love passionate kissing, cuddling, and hot sex. Unfortanately, I seemed to be attracting guys that only wanted to cuddle and chat in bed. Sooo, since I love to fuc*, I changed my accronym to "HGFE" and told gents that I do really like to have sex. Horny Girl-Friend Experience seems to be a better fit for me!
Open to interpretation but the last thing you should be doing is comparing a real-world gf to any escort. Regardless of how you feel about it the term is intended as short hand for a group of available sex acts, not the IQ or personality of a provider.
A few years ago I was driving to dinner with my ATF after we had boinked each others brains out. She had showered and washed of all of her make-up. We where discussing this very topic and she joked that the way she was sitting in my car with wet hair, no makeup and wearing sweats was a REAL GFE!
Your definition and mine are similar...but your are describing my definition of a courtesan. I don't even use the term GFE because the definition has been so overused, diluted and polluted.
A gent and I have fun while we are together...and then we part ways, going back to our lives. we live for that moment in time, that is all. Coule be just how I think though
There is no constant contact in between times (other than the occassional hello). There is a measure of respect between us. That is the big difference for me..you give me a little bit of respect...and you will go far. Its simple really. With the foundation of respect, the building of trust is established. With those two things (and throw in some actual chemistry) a friendship is forged. You call on me when you want your release....and an escape from everyday stress and worries. I give that...and then we part ways. Simple, eh??
I am more than just some fucked up piece of ass! More than just an escort, more than just a willing piece of ass. It can be more than just sex.....of course, the sex had better be good, but that is only a part of the whole picture.
Briefly: As with most things in the hobbby GFE is in the eye of the beholder. My definition is much like yours. I want the woman to be friendly, accomodating, engaging, intelligent, articulate, exceptional at DFK; and without belaboring the point here, just seem like she is really into me. I want her to be enthusiastic about the whole experience with the envelope being treated as an afterthought. I research thoroughly before I see someone. Fortunately, therefore, most of my experiences have been like that.
I think some per hour call girls just got tired of the "image".
Frankly I don't want it anymore. I frankly I am not sure I ever asked for it. It seems it is what a lot do because they want to play it that way. OK
To me it means DFK and DATY are available. Cool. Also a good chance she likes a mutually pleasurable session. But do I want someone to pretend to be my GF for an hour? No thanks. And while most real GFs are more than happy to have you buy something for them, any GF I had in the past would kick me in the balls if I asked her if she would swallow my load for $200. LOL
And these "girlfriends" have another "boyfriend" coming in a couple of hours anyway. Which actually does make them a bit like my lying bitch GF in college I guess.
What is the point of this illusion?
Now don't get me wrong, that does not mean I like cold-hearted sex or 100% PSE. What I want is a call girl (not GFE) who is honest and not playing fantasy or mindgames. I do respect them and I definitley do care about the person behind the body that is being provided to me. But lets just be real people. Leave the GFE script you use behind and just see if we can like each other a bit while we have fun.
I dislike GFE. I do like to meet and know the person I am with. In the long run, I would rather have reality and a possible friend than some GF roleplay.
That's what I love about the TER review system. No "GFE" field - just a list of services and a narrative from which you can draw your own conclusions regarding personality. Allows the hobbyist to match his own individual definition of GFE without worrying about what the ad says.
nope do not agree. this saucy experienced nice lady always did this. it is not a (thing to do) if one truly lives the feeling all the time before people coined the phrase. its the warmth behind it being wanted.
i bet there are plenty of girlfriends who fake it with their boyfriend they are with for whatever reason how would he know?
one could search for it at a night club, whereever, but alot of time is wasted searching.
this is why friends return reguarly its something missing in general society oh well.
than saying I don't like GFE providers. All of my favs have been GFE providers. But I also soon make it clear that I do not wish a GF fantasy played out. No fake orgasms, no insincere affection, no false compliments. etc.
Girlfriend Experience is used because Wife Experience would send guys running away. LOL But you are right, GFs lie and fake stuff to. Some even don't have sex with you because "you are special" while fucking your friends behind your back. Who wants that experience again???? LOL
With some the GFE style just suits them and they feel natural at it. So to ladies such as yourself I say go for it and have fun. But we all know that the number of natural GFEs is A LOT less than those that sell it. When I can choose from Message, GFE, PSE, and S&M/B&D, you KNOW that GFE is just a service.
I just want reality and you should stay within your own skin. And if that is GFE, cool. But it is not always the case.
thanks for clearing it up nice stan va. i used to hear it before. id ask what does it mean? guess i had some esp about those things nice to know nice things.
so now i get to know someone thru e/mail then move forward from there to make a nice regular friend.
i dont try to compete with younger ladies they have their positive qualities. i like to say theres someone for someone else. some people prefer exotic over other items have a wonderful day.
dont forget daylite savings day this sat mar 13 turn clocks forward spring an hour otherwise you might be late for goings on.... kim the nice lady
for me at least. I read her reviews, and what she offers. If it sounds like were a match it's a go. GFE is not even on my radar. I've been with a few ladies that didn't advertise GFE, but it sure felt like it for the time I was with them.
So I agree the label is over-hyped and largely meaningless.
And ... thank goodness!
Remembering birthdays, holiday shopping, dealing with family stuff, remembering to call her 3 x /day, having to tell her whether a new outfit makes her look bad, etc etc etc etc.
I mean, its the rare provider where I'd agree to meet her parents or to whom I would introduce my offspring. Ya know?
I'm not saying it has never happened, just saying it would be damned rare.
That means the lady does her best not to act like you are on the clock during your time with her. If she's really good it should feel like you've known her for about 3-4 months and she's a NEW girl friend. This is a fantasy world here.
To me it means for that magical time the outside world doesn't exsist. But that's just me
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Kim the nice lady