I don't think they are degrading, its just another fantasy/fetish that men have.

Also, if a woman does not want to do a facial she won't, but then again there are some (NOT ALL) woman who work in this line of business for the $$$.

My advice, keep giving your facials.


Shaye

I think there are women who actually love it but it's probably  a small percentage.  I would never force it on anyone.  For the women I've given facials to, I know before-hand that they've done it before and get pleasure from such acts.

I agree it's a visual turn-on.  I would be curious to also hear provider's side (those who genuinely like facials) on what the attraction is to them.  It's always a plus for me when looking for a provider.

Another OPPRESSOR who wants to take choices away from me.

Tell your friend this... feminism (or support of WOMEN, however you want to call it) has to do with giving women choices. Not taking them away. Not deciding for me what is or is not degrading, but allowing me to make that choice for myself.

OK that kind of thing drives me crazy

Now, of course that's a bunch of nonsense. How can anyone make such a pronouncement upon all of womankind???? Puh-lease give us a little credit... we are just as infinite and varied as you guys are. Just like in the 3some thread below... I know some gents who could not imagine why a client wouldn't want the two ladies to GET IT ON!... and other guys feel the opposite. Variety is the spice of life. Take things on a case by case basis in terms of the ladies, but in terms of YOURSELF... ask yourself what is right and wrong, don't ask someone else... he doesn't have to wake up in your skin every morning, you do!

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Nicole

I once told a boyfriend something about receiving a facial and he said "OH MY GOD!  WHAT KIND OF MEN HAVE YOU BEEN WITH?"

I was stunned and inquired as to what he meant.  He informed me that facials were a man's way of degrading a woman.  I had no idea that it was degrading but after that I never allowed a man to give me another facial.  I don't want a man thinking he is getting away with degrading me, even if I am a bit naive sometimes.

How can something be degrading if you both like it? Some do thing anal is degrading too

but I don't agree..as long as it gives pleasure and excitement for both it cant be degrading at all..

I also love a good facial, not only does it get me really hot to have a guy masterbate over my face, it's also very good for your skin, pure protein!619-607-7672

I most enjoy facials when I'm with two (or more) men. The mood, how it's done all makes the difference. I happen to like it but then, it's never been a client - it's always been my BF; and, I've known that we were going in the shower afterwards. Again, as Nicole says, it's a case by case basis..

Sedona

Any of you who know me understand why I'm LOL to think of myself as the voice of reason.., as opposed to, say, the instigator of mischief....but I can't believe I haven't read anything on this thread yet about one small detail...I adore facials...though, settle, instead, for bodyshots, especially all over my tits...because, simply said...you-all just don't seem to have enough self control to keep the range out of the eyes.  It burns...like hell, and leaves them red, for days.  And, beyond that, if one is going to expose the eye membranes to any type of potential virus or other std possibility, the condom is sort of a dead issue.  

Get down with your bad selves...but..be careful out there! Just a word from the hall monitor.

I don't have much experience on facials in specific;  I've asked a couple of times, but only when it's been mentioned in prior reviews.  In both cases, the request was politely denied.

My "thing" is aiming a little lower...  Russian finishes or HJ finishes in the Russian part of town.  Every provider I've seen has been open to this, and every once in a while one is wonderfully enthusiastic and/or verbally encouraging.

Here's my interesting observation / revelation about myself that relates back to this topic.  I like it when, after I've finished, the provider slowly rubs the "results" all over her breasts.

I only bring up this second request when the provider seems fine or even enthusiatic about finishing there.  Even then, I have found that at least half the time, the provider's face shows reservation / disappointment / feeling of being disrespected by the second request--often enough that I never ask any more.

I too dread that feeling of ever being thought of as disrespectful.  So I'm curious how others have asked for, or how providers want to be asked for, special "materials handling" like facials or my breast thing in a way that doesn't risk her feeling like it's a way to put her down.