I got an email from an out of state provider. I have never seen her before and don't even know who she is. The email states " Hi, this is abc. " I will be in NY next week. Hope to see you. " I searched her on TER and found her profile and her website. She seems to be legit. There is a big M&G this week in my town, so I am guessing she is in-town for that ( but her name is not on the M & G provider list ) . But how did she found me especially my email address? My guess is someone is selling their clients list? Or providers are swapping clients list for new customer? Any ideas? I though this was a discreet hobby...You can PM me for her name.

She may have the same booker as other ladies and the booker may have contacted you, or you contacted her before and don't remember. In all my years I've never heard of an agency or provider selling a client list, nor would I even be interested. She may have also changed her name  and she was previously something else ? She worked for an agency, you all exchanged information and now she's indy, the list goes on and on

It seems like an innocent enough question and while you can't be sure you'll get an honest answer you should at least be able to gain some insight.

And would NEVER, EVER give it out. Even when contacted for a reference all I do is confirm that I met you and whether or not I'd see you again and if the girl doesn't have correct information I would sooner contact you then get back to her right away.  

I think, really, it depends on the quality of lady that you are meeting. Pay attention to how discrete she performs everything through the whole process, and her reviews and where she advertises. All of those factors can be indicative of how much you can trust a lady.

new at this and I only need two hands to count how many providers I have been with. The woman who emailed me is from Las Vegas ( I have not been there in years ) and I am sure that I have never seen her before with the pictures on her website. I will take one of the advise from here and email her and ask where did she get my email from. Let's see if I get a reply.

Totally unacceptable. NO strings attached business.After appointments Delete any private info. of hobbyists and escorts.I don't lay anything around.No reason to let it get in wrongs hands.Thank you.Play SAFE folk's

Your personal dat has the greatest value in open market. Information about nobody like me has zero value.

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Do you know how much revenue an agency generates on client lists? Half of that money comes back to them, every appointment they book, every hour they book for every girl. No way.

If you looked at my pictures from even two years ago, or even saw me now, you would have no idea it was me if I had a different name/location, unless you followed my online presence that long.

My hair is almost black and down to my titties. It was bleach blonde and short before. Of course, if I didn't post all over social media, no one would know. Some women can completely change their look - lose or gain weight, change color/length, get surgery, even use a new photographer, etc etc.  

All this to say, it was either a provider you've seen who has had a name and look change, a provider you have tried to see, but timing didn't work out and she kept your info,, or a virtual assistant who she recently hired.  

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It would just be stupid to sell one's client list, not to mention WTF is anyone else going to do with your "little black book" launch an email or telemarketing campaign??? lmao

A list of guys who fuck hookers is going to have limited value, and any attempt to use such a list to market other hookers is likely to do an agency or even an indy more harm to her "brand" than good.

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