I was one part of a coed community board of friends across the country. One day the discussion came up between the ladies re: being able to tell just how hung a guy was by any outward signs (you know, size of his feet, how tall he is, etc.) There seemed to be lots of opinions, but no real consensus.

Just the other day, for some reason I can't remember, this conversation came up between the SigO and I. She says a man's hands have been a reliable gauge for her in the past...the larger the hands, the larger the prize.

I know for myself, there does seem to be SOME correlation to all the usually markers. I am a big guy - slightly taller than average (6') but mostly "thicker" (260 lbs now, 235 - 240 when truly fit). I have large hands...not enormous (no Dr. J hands for me...I can't even palm a basketball), but bigger than average. More specifically, it isn't my fingers that are particularly long, but instead the size of my palm that is larger than average (I wear a large cadet golf glove...meaning larger palm, normal fingers). I wear an 11.5 shoe...which is just a bit bigger than the average size 11, but I take that 11.5 in a EEE, which is as wide as shoes come in a regular shoe store (lots of brands / style don't even come in my size).

What does this translate into for me? Well, I've been told that I am pretty well hung; more than the average guy, but no one has ever said, "What the hell is THAT monster??"...lol. I get the impression that the length is a bit more than average, but mostly it is my additional thickness that makes an impression. This seems to fit in with the data above for me.

Anyway, enough about me. The question is...have you ladies (who I would think have a decent sample size to go by) found any sure fire clue to just what you are gonna get when you get a guy going?

I was just wondering....

is more the thumbs...  thickness and shape of the thumb... taperd thumb, tapered tip. flared thumb, wider tip...
but there are always the exceptions to the rule... esp. with curves  thumbs dont tell us how you've been sitting in your pants all these years!
i've heard that all these bits develop at the same time, thats why... also for ladies, not that this really matters at all, but all of us are naturally a bit crooked, left boob higher or lower and same for the ears.
does that hold true for balls?
hold your hands up to your ears in the full length mirror and let me know if the lower ear matches the lower ball
Nicole

Short and sweet - no.  I really can't think of any reliable sign, but then again, maybe that's because I don't really care.  I've had the most fun with the more modestly endowed, it's all in the attitude, you know?  You could say I'm into phallic worship, I guess I just love 'em all, (and I can provide references to that effect!)

-Anya

found that my worst experiences were with guys that were hung like horses. They seem to over rely on their size, and do not feel the need to develope skills as a lover. I've heard the same complaint from guys about exceptionally beautiful women (guess I'm the exception). I have found that, unless you have to ask "is it in yet", size really doesn't matter.

why don't you check for yourself.... (c;

LM

I had a black male boyfriend (not a client) who was about as small as my thumb, and I have small hands even for a woman.

I had a white male client who was as thick and long as my forearm, I wouldnt let him near me.

The BEST LOVER I EVER HAD was about 6 1/2 Inches...AWESOME!

Hands, Feet, Nose...none are really indicators of penis size. It's like a box of chocolates, you never know what you're going to get! :0)~

my 02. cents

-- Modified on 6/25/2002 10:17:17 AM

should i charge extra for that service?
LMAO
Nic

'is it in yet?'
unless you want a gigglefest, and i'm not naming names!!
Nicole

You didn't tell anybody? Did you?

V

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I thought so!

~ Yeah, us guys that are hung like gerbils feel we have to do lots of extra stuff to make our dates happy. A well-educated tongue can make up for a lot (or little, in this case). LOL

-- Modified on 6/25/2002 2:40:51 PM

That method has ALWAYS worked for me,particularly when CAescortgirl is doing the kissing and grabbing!!

that women don't care what size a man's cock is.  I'm sure you also know how far inside a woman's pussy her clit is.  Providers in particular, of course, would be especially likely to want to avoid a man with a very large cock, since becoming sore is not exactly an objective for them.

On the other hand, some screwed-up guys want a woman to feel their "power", by pounding too hard etc.  As a provider said it to me, complaining about these guys, "they want to pound you through the headboard".  The same kind of guys want a woman to feel the "power" of their big cock.  

Where does this attitude come from?  Presumably from a hostility toward women.  Where does the hostility come from?  From feelings of anger toward his mother, leading to a desire to "punish" women?  Feelings of inadequacy and insecurity?
Who knows, could be any of a variety of causes.

Women who talk about how the size of a guy's cock is extremely important to their pleasure are usually women who feel hostility toward men, and take a kind of pleasure in "messing with him" when they sense that he is insecure enough to be concerned about cock size.  I would recommend avoiding these women, unless hostility turns you on.

....I'm assuming your question was posed somehat "tongue in cheek."  Other than that, I'd like to address this with a certain degree of seriousness only because it seems (in one form or another) to come up over & over.

Several points....To begin with there are NO reliable physical indicators!  Any guy who didn't keep his eyes closed, or diverted them, during the showers after gym class while in school (or the military) already knows this.  And "no" for any who might wonder, I completely straight.  Height, weight v body frame, size of feet, hands, etc,etc, are no indication whatsoever.  There simply are none.  Nor is race, how hirsute the guy is or anything else that might be apparent strictly from a physical once-over.  No---some of the more "popular" consceptions are really misconsceptions.  Black guys ain't hung any larger than anyone else, nor are Asians all necessarily smaller.  

While I haven't read every reply to this thread, I'll nonetheless chime in with what I've been told by many gals (for as long as I can remember, mainly OUT of this hobby)---When looking a guy over as a potential bedmate, they seem to be more concerned with less obvious physical features...the degree of confidence with which he carries himself being paramount.  This can be manifested in many ways...his walk, exrpressions, the manner in which he appears to interact with people around him---the list could be endless!  But what a gal is really looking for in this sort of situation is a good lover...regardless of the size of his tool.  It's not always a question of "is it in yet," but could also translate to "what a waste."

Guys should simply stop worrying about this shit!  Any gal (I think it's in their nature because they know how many guys are insecure about the subject--whether civlian or provider) to be complimentary in that aspect.  Look guys---ya got whatcha got & don't give it another thought.  Wanting to know how you might compare to other guys she's seen is ridiculous.  Think how you feel when you're asked that sort of question! BTW, don't get all hung up (npi) in what a providers tells you. If you need reinforcement inthat regard then you've got deep problems.

Sorry....I probably got much too serious about a humorous question--it's jsut that I've seen the same subject discussed so often.

But to all the gals who have actually seen me....I'm sure you'll exhibit the proper decorum in not "outing" me on such a public board.

Try the lengh of your middle finger (literally)......as a great
SMALL example of your length & head shape. Really!
Nice, soft, shaped fingertips equal a great looking head down below! hehe kiss

and my nose is used for shade when I take the family to the beach. All that and I end up,

NDtBF

Go figure...

Were it not for my Gene Simmons tongue.....

Hostility towards men if we care about cock size????

What are you, the male equivalent of Andrea Dworkin? Honey relax! It is not all about some big bad psychological thing, okies?  Really now, I'd prefer it not to come out the other end ... however I do like being filled up, of course, who doesn't? There is more to our bodies than just our CLIT.  

One thing I think we all oughta realize before expressing our feelings is that... in this world there is room for every sexual preference that exists... and as long as you are talking about a consensual situation between adults, there ain't a thing wrong with what I prefer, or you prefer, or anyone prefers. There's room enough for all of us without talking about how if a girl likes big ones she's hostile towards men. LOL!

I'm wondering how YOU feel about the women in your life to make a statement like that. Personally, I have been hurt by lotsa men... I've also been loved, snuggled, cherished, adored, kissed, and caressed from head to toe. I adore men!!!!!  I adore men with big ones, and little ones, and all the ones in between, TOO!

So there
Nicole

No.

I feel the need to clarify, because a couple respondents:

A) Didn't see that I directed the question toward "ladies"

B) Read more into my inquiry than I said.

I didn't ask anything remotely about whether more was better, or if most guys have enough, or if I have enough, or what most women like (though when the LADIES provided this feedback, it was worthwhile on an anecdotal level).

What I asked was what I asked...if the LADIES (who presumably have seen more ERECT penis than the guys here, locker room experience or no) have noticed any correlation between ERECT penis size (no, I didn't make that distinction clear, I assumed it wasn't necessary, because I didn’t think any guys would chime in with their own personal shower experiences) and any other physical attribute.

As I did mention, I asked because several LADIES I know (none of whom are providers, and thus would presumably have less experience and a smaller statistical sample size) insist there is one, and each seem to have a favorite indicator of their own. Frankly, short of any of you GUYS insisting you are doctors and then providing a statistical basis for your "no correlation" theories, I am more willing to go with their thoughts on the topic than yours (unless you are of course both gay and a slut, in which case that makes you something of an expert on erect penises as well, so feel free to chime right in).

So, thank you for your pop psychology analysis (oh, BTW, as I am sure several of the women here would agree, and has been documented many, many times over in many places, penis size may not be a true determination of a man’s prowess as a lover, but it IS important to some women. Sorry buddy…that size doesn’t matter myth is just that…lol) but it wasn’t necessary.  

And no, I wasn’t looking for any “reinforcement”, because I have enough sense to know that any woman who is taking my money to fuck me is more than likely willing to tell me just about anything so that she might have the opportunity to take my money again. MY anecdotal information about myself was derived from women who slept with me (and did so again) because they cared too at the time, not for compensation.

Speaking of compensation…you two guys don’t have a need to compensate for anything, do you?

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But I am intrigued by the respectable number of ladies who have participated in the discussion. There must truly be something to penis size. I've always figured there's no effecting that particular attribute, so why worry about it.

I'm overwhelmingly average, but I have other good qualities and skills.

Resnicker) LOL.....(eom)

A good man is hard to find and a hard man is
good to find....hehe