OK, So.
I was talking to an old childhood friend and he brought up the topic of his mother and how instrumental she was in holding together his family. This included being the primary reason for his success in life.
And I thought you know that's true! I have to give my mother a lot of credit for being the "blessed" (very Old Southern term takes too long to explain) person that I am today.
Then I thought about my wife and how instrumental she is in the life of our children.
Alas, my mother and wife R not hookers.
I wonder if they could be as good at Mothering if they were Providers.
I mean the two things are mutually exclusive (before you go to Google it means contradictory: unable to be both true at the same time).
Wait for it this is the controversial part. You can't be a Good Mother and a Hooker. How could you?
The life of a Provider is based on AVOIDANCE. Why else be a Hooker? Instead of going out into the market place and competing with the rest of society.
Such a person has shown that she is incapable of handling the demands of motherhood. Real mothers don't avoid they confront.
Hey, I mean I am not judging. Do what makes you feel good. Eh.
Well, that's another reason a Hooker couldn't be a good mother. Real mothers do the exact opposite.
What do all these men have in common?
JFK
MLK
Abe Lincoln
Dwight Eisenhower
Answer: Their mothers were not Hookers.
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Ridgetucky Says You All Have A Great Weekend
I know one that has a beautiful child and is a great mom. ( all this without the help of a man )
Really, you should be ashamed of yourself for posting this.
Posted By: Ridgetucky
OK, So.
I was talking to an old childhood friend and he brought up the topic of his mother and how instrumental she was in holding together his family. This included being the primary reason for his success in life.
And I thought you know that's true! I have to give my mother a lot of credit for being the "blessed" (very Old Southern term takes too long to explain) person that I am today.
Then I thought about my wife and how instrumental she is in the life of our children.
Alas, my mother and wife R not hookers.
I wonder if they could be as good at Mothering if they were Providers.
I mean the two things are mutually exclusive (before you go to Google it means contradictory: unable to be both true at the same time).
Wait for it this is the controversial part. You can't be a Good Mother and a Hooker. How could you?
The life of a Provider is based on AVOIDANCE. Why else be a Hooker? Instead of going out into the market place and competing with the rest of society.
Such a person has shown that she is incapable of handling the demands of motherhood. Real mothers don't avoid they confront.
Hey, I mean I am not judging. Do what makes you feel good. Eh.
Well, that's another reason a Hooker couldn't be a good mother. Real mothers do the exact opposite.
What do all these men have in common?
JFK
MLK
Abe Lincoln
Dwight Eisenhower
Answer: Their mothers were not Hookers.
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Ridgetucky Says You All Have A Great Weekend!
Why do I work this "job" instead of something where I disappear for 40+hours a week? Because I make sacrifices to give my child the best possible start in life. That means giving her a full time stay at home mom, who as a single mom would otherwise have her spending most of her days being raised by strangers in a daycare.
I don't even understand where or how you're coming up with these conclusions and I'm just going to assume you're a troll looking for a reaction. I HIGHLY doubt you'd dare say this to a woman in person, so please enjoy hiding behind the internet and using anonymity to be an asshat. I think it says more about you by cheating on their oh-so-wonderful-and-saint-like mother and paying women to have sex with you. But that's just my opinion
Your point was a cheap shot at providers who work by fucking men like you. It's work, like cleaning toilets, or doing rectal exams as a doctor. We all get paid for doing something for a living.
You said nothing about women in general working.
here and elsewhere who make shots at hos don't even realize that their moms may have been one, but of course isn't going to tell them. lol
For dungy after that stupid pic below I'd say Russell Brand ! U guys need a daddy figure . And yeah he was a hooker . Hope he ain't who Rod got for that back door action.
Many women become providers BECAUSE of their kids. I doubt anyone is working as a provider because they want to avoid a mainstream job. I've heard time and time again women who are mothers do this to spend MORE time with their kids. You work less, you get paid more and you aren't going to get fired if you have to tend to a sick kid for days at a time. My mom got fired from two different jobs because she had to bring my little sister to a bunch of medical appointments because she almost drowned in the care of her dad. We became homeless as a result. If she worked as a provider she would have income still coming in and would have time to take my sister to appointments and we wouldn't have ended up homeless. Your logic is faulty and demeaning. Women have been providing for their children and families for CENTURIES by doing this. I applaud the mom who choses to only work a few hours a week to spend more time with their children who will definitely benefit from it. There are moms out there who do nothing but work and hardly ever see their kids. In fact there was an incident in Detroit where the mom worked two full time jobs and her son somehow got a pistol and shot a little boy. Parents who spend more time with their kids are less likely to have delinquent children.
Ridge is one of the notorious trolls here and often returns to stir up outrage and abuse with idiotic and judgmental posts. Your choices are either to join in the fun and ridicule him or just ignore him. It depends on what your policy is regarding trolls.
but we all know better. Keep up the good work. I think I speak for many of us when I say, we all like a well contested SPOTY.
Denying it at this point is just silly. Besides, if you really aren't a troll there is only one other explanation: you are stupid beyond belief.
No, my vote is for troll. Unlike the Dungbeetle who I fear is every bit as stupid as he looks.
but I will confess, it does make for some interesting matchups for this months SPOTM.
See I know my sister is an abysmal excuse for a mother, to the point where my nieces will jump at any chance to be anywhere but with her. I've seen providers who are far better parents.
And the only reason I know I'm not gonna make a good father is I'm to laidback and I'm immature (though some providers tend to disagree with me on the latter), I'm also young and not looking to have kids anytime soon.
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or man a father?
Goddamn societal engineering has young girls day-dreaming of domestic family bliss, and young boys bloodying each other's noses for their favor in a 25+ year commercially driven mating dance sanctified by the church. It usually isn't until far too late that boy or girl realizes that perhaps "they" possibly weren't nature’s first choice as a perfect parent.
Pro-lifers will do most anything (legal or illegal) to convince an under-age, impoverished, impregnated by rape mother-to-be NOT too abort their pregnancy. Once the kid is born however; the pro-lifers will quickly make clear "You're on your own, it's YOUR responsibility".
You keep trying too find ways to malign any and all participants and aspects in the hobby; Ridgetucky. But you're simply casting light on the entire human condition
When I was 21 or 22, I carried a sign sporting those exact words to a pro-life counter protest in Boston. The obvious message being that many Catholics and Evangelicals believe that contraceptives, masterbation, and homosexuality are SINS, yet they are clearly also some of the MOST EFFECTIVE ways of preventing unwanted pregnancy!
Other people carried signs alluding to the hypocracy you have mentioned in your post- for the first 9 months the mother is welcomed into a "Crisis Pregnancy Center" where all of her needs are taken care of... and then for next 18 YEARS she has to be be belittled and judged as a possible "welfare queen," "food stamp recipiant," and "drain on the system!"
And if she turns to sex work... to avoid having to rely on public assistance and to be able to spend more time with her child/children? THEN she is lambasted and called an un-fit mother for being a porn actress, a stripper, or a whore!
It's not like these woman are magically getting pregnant on their own, yet to hear some politicians/religious types speak, you would think that immaculate conceptions were VERY common!
especially in the case of RT, I think it should be legal for at least the first couple of hundred trimesters, and I would be willing to extend that to dungbeetles as well. lmao
And then has the AUDACITY to judge YOU, for accepting the money he paid you to do this... shouldn't you then be able to shoot him??
I could have sworn that fell under the statutes of "Stand Your Ground..." 
Shoot the mofo, you certainly don't need to ask me for permission, and I guarantee you a mistrial at worse if I get selected to the jury. lol
somehow the image of Ridgetucky, wearing a ski mask, trying to put a dog collar on you, makes me laugh hysterically. We won't even go to the pissing on you part, I don't think that cold, dead, corpses are even capable of pissing. lmao
You're too clueless from all the random skanks you fk, to even know what being a father even entails. While you're out SPENDING your children's and wife's money, we are the ones using that same money to put our children in private school. While we are on the subject, how many hours a week do you and your wife work? How many hours did your children have to spend in daycare from years 1-4? Mine spent none, because servicing dumb asses like you allowed me to be with my child during those years.
So, a crack head is a good mother "just because" she's not a hooker? What about a cheating, alcoholic who comes home late every night? What about one who mentally, physically, or sexually abuses her children, who is not a hooker? You get dumber by the fkin day. Please don't ever say you have a degree again, because your posts contradict that you have an ounce of sense in that pea brain space you call a fkin cavity.
What do your tell your wife and kids about the money missing from getting your rocks off? What do you tell them about the time spent whilst doing it? Nuff said. If a hooker can't be a good mother, then your trick ass can't be a good father or husband. Who is really lying here? I lie to no one, because my child is far too young to even ask. I am certainly not lying to my SO. I am sorry your life is so miserable that you have nothing better to do than judge the very women STUPID enough to fk you...even if it is for money. I sure as hell wouldn't.
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THANK YOU!!!
Posted By: London Rayne
You're too clueless from all the random skanks you fk, to even know what being a father even entails. While you're out SPENDING your children's and wife's money, we are the ones using that same money to put our children in private school. While we are on the subject, how many hours a week do you and your wife work? How many hours did your children have to spend in daycare from years 1-4? Mine spent none, because servicing dumb asses like you allowed me to be with my child during those years.
So, a crack head is a good mother "just because" she's not a hooker? What about a cheating, alcoholic who comes home late every night? What about one who mentally, physically, or sexually abuses her children, who is not a hooker? You get dumber by the fkin day. Please don't ever say you have a degree again, because your posts contradict that you have an ounce of sense in that pea brain space you call a fkin cavity.
What do your tell your wife and kids about the money missing from getting your rocks off? What do you tell them about the time spent whilst doing it? Nuff said. If a hooker can't be a good mother, then your trick ass can't be a good father or husband. Who is really lying here? I lie to no one, because my child is far too young to even ask. I am certainly not lying to my SO. I am sorry your life is so miserable that you have nothing better to do than judge the very women STUPID enough to fk you...even if it is for money. I sure as hell wouldn't.
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Yours should have confronted your father about an early withdrawal.
Maybe they are or were as crafty as hiding it as you are posting this without them knowing Mr Hobbyist? Hmmmmm???
I am pretty sure we are better mothers because we make our own hours (spending more time with our kids) and we do not have to worry about not getting that Child support payment our dead beat ex's never send..
Just When I Thought you Couldn't Stoop any Lower... you prove me wrong.
Not that I will ever change it by anything I have to say, but here goes: You can thank your lucky stars you have the advantages you do and that you haven't HAD to make the tough choices we do.
As for me, I'm not on welfare and I pay taxes on my earnings. I raised my son to be a credit to his family and his community. He brought home 6 As and a B this year. He is reverent, polite, intellectually curious, and absolutely beautiful in every way. Being a mother is the finest thing I have ever done. I'll match my parenting abilities against anyone, not that it's a contest.
As for being out in the community, most providers I know, not to mention myself, do have other jobs, volunteer, and give back. We're invested and involved. That's the kind of women providers are.
Instead of passing judgement on providers (and I'm really not sure what you hoped to accomplish with that), let me make a suggestion for your next online activity. You obviously have ample resources and I suppose you consider yourself great parent material and evidently you have a lot of spare time on your hands. Why don't you visit the foster care websites? Then you can spend your time much more productively. Instead of tearing down providers, you could do some parenting yourself. It's a thought.
There are several others I know were hookers and had successful kids. The thing is most people don't admit to being hookers, so MLK's mom could have been one, but we would never know it. Your mom might be one, but she just hasn't told you.
and I know some highly educated 9 to 5 civvies who are horrible mothers. If she provides for her family, and the children are happy and healthy then the "job" becomes less relevant.
Now, just to clarify something. Most providers on TER that have been here for a while and are successful are not the same providers walking the streets and smoking crack. Still, the blanket can have holes in it.
You and your sidekick sat around and talked about how successful you both were and credit your mothers. You also determine that since neither of your mothers were providers, it is impossible for providers to be as good a mother as your and your sidekicks were. That's just stupid.
First of all to claim being a good mother and being a provider are mutually exclusive is assinine. I would bet there is at least one provider who is a excellent mother out there somewhere. Actually I would bet there are many but I only need one to prove your theory wrong.
I'll close with how do you know for absolute certainty that JFK, MLK, Abe, and Dwight did not have mothers who were provders? I am not saying they were, but if they were careful and didn't want it public no one would ever know.
I am not a mother... but I tend to believe that any gal that does this without an addiction is doing it for their family.
If anything I think most are better mas for doing what they have to do to ensure their kid is ok.
I do it for me and my family and friends.
Sorry but you can NEVER say your mother hasn't been one. Think she'd share with you? You think she would, but most won't. It took my ma a long time to admit to doing plenty of things when she was younger to me, even though I am quite old. (not old, but older and mature ie 28)
Ridgetucky,
Firstly, apologize for the pile on. But seriously, your post is a prime example of why "stream of consciousness" technique of writing should be disbarred. Basically, your mind just took a dump, and I doubt that even you understand what you wrote. Your logic is incoherent, but your malice is clear.
In addition to camel cased sentences, and the juvenile premise, the you-tube link you posted has nothing to do with motherhood or providing.
You are entitled to your opinion, and no one can convince you otherwise; but next time, why don't you ask your mother to review, before posting a message.
y severely autistic daughter has more sense & intelligence than you do .
Not judging? You just did that by posting this ya big dumdum
