There is a particular provider that I have been trying to set up an appointment with for almost a year. I have seen other providers in the interim but I check in with her occasionally. Most times she does not respond. Sometimes she responds with a question and when I answer I get no reply. I have provided all the references etc and offered more. Even offered to send a link to my Facebook page so she could see I’m not gross or creepy. I finally had an appointment set up almost two weeks in advance. I texted and emailed to confirm a couple days ahead with no reply. I texted the night of with no reply. Then she cancelled two hours before the appointment because she had a friend in town. I remained respectful and said I understood and hoped she had fun. I asked about the following weekend-no reply. I tried again the next day via text saying I hope she had fun and can we set something up-no reply. I began to feel like a stalker which is not my M.O. at all and not a good feeling.  
A few attempts later I said again, that I was glad she got to see her friend but I would being lying if I said I wasn’t disappointed. She replied ‘what friend’.  
I explained and sent her the text she had sent me. She was like, ‘oh yeah’. Then nothing. I emailed her again . No reply.  
It’s just fucking rude, am I right? I mean after canceling on me and everything. So unprofessional. The reason I do not abandon the pursuit is because she is a spinner who does Greek and gets good reviews. Those are in short supply around here. So I continue to be patient and respectful but I just had to vent. It’s a good thing for her you can’t review someone you haven’t had a session with LOL. But maybe they should start that.  
What do you all think? I’d love to hear from other providers.  Am I just being a whiner? Is it too much to expect  the same courtesy you extend?

It is OK to beg for pussy.
It is OK to pay for Pussy.
But it is not OK to beg to pay for pussy.

She does not want to see you.  Move on.  

Oookaaay.....😒
But I like Greek spinners!

Shes probably not a Provider anymore and if she is she probably just doesn't want to see you. I know, crazy right a provider being picky, but it happens. Just move on...its for the best.

Fuck you Herb

Thanks Chanel.

Oh, and Conan says it's "Etiquette."

And, uh, maybe you can find out where she's registered.

Thanks.  
It’s not my first rodeo. I know some providers are more professional and courteous than others. I also know when I’m being blown off. We had an appointment and she canceled 2 hrs before. It happens, I get it. In previous correspondence she eventually replied when she got around to it. I don’t think it’s personal. I think it’s just how she operates. You’re right. I will have to abandon this one and continue my quest for the perfect spinner. LOL

Thanks!  
I don’t think it’s personal.  I think it’s just how she operates.

in to you.  Move on!!!

You are not going to fuck THIS Greek spinner! Move on....She is a Time waster.  
Forget about it!

review was over a year ago.

Uhhhh duh....women get killed now a days for rejecting men. Do you not watch the news or is that something fly past your head. I don't blame her for being scary in this industry. Some women have the balls and some don't.

Don't have any balls at all.  

hanging in there, Peat.  A year is not nearly long enough to wait for this girl.  Keep asking.  You never know WHICH message she will respond to, so you should not give up.  Just because she's rude is not a good reason to give up on your dream.

Be upfront and say " Hey babe, I really want to schedule with you, if you don't wish to see me, I'm ok with that but please let me know, either way, no worries! I'm just a huge fan"
If she doesn't respond, do NOT contact her anymore.  She apparently isn't interested. Also,  I have found that people that just are inconsiderate to others like that, forgetful,  you did mention a spinner, last minute cancel.....she might be on drugs honey. If that's the case, I'd run instead of chase. You may never know really. I personally don't like a man to chase me around BUT I'd never leave someone hanging like that either.  
Just my ,02
XOXO  
TL

Peat, I think you have the gist of what everyone is telling you...pass on this lady.  Personally, I would cease after her inconsiderate and rude behavior.  There are many ladies that are very responsive and would appreciate your company...and you would too.
Research is your friend - search and find another lady.

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Seriously?  Fuck me?

If she continues to act this way, you should just try even harder

Do you really want to see someone as unprofessional? I would not see her for free...

From your post,  quoted below, this sentence is very odd: "Also,  I have found that people that just are inconsiderate to others like that, forgetful,  you did mention a spinner, last minute cancel.....she might be on drugs honey. "  
Inconsiderate, forgetful, last minute cancel, yes, but Spinner? What the heck does being a spinner have to do with being on drugs?🤦‍♂️

Fact is, tons of providers are strung out on drugs. I know of a few that do drugs to stay skinny. I prefer to just eat right(I'm not super skinny either though) but there are many providers strung out. You ever see a bbw methhead? Or a 300lb cokehead? You ad flakey, inconsiderate, unprofessional.... sounds like a drug problem to me or it could be simply just BSC.... or maybe she doesn't want to see him BUT hey,  that's just my opinion. No way am I saying all spinners are on dope but I've seen a ton that were. I'm only giving my perspective here.  Being an ex drug addict myself, it sounds like this COULD be that type situation.  Sorry but, I can smell addiction a mile away.  
XOXO  
TL

once, but I couldn't get past the first step.  I admitted that I was powerless over pussy, and that my life had become unmanageable, but no one could convince me that was a BAD thing.  

I think of spinners as very short girls. Small, petite women. Obviously you are thinking of them as skinny.  

Move on.Why you keep waiting around for jerk you around and take your money

You should put that on a tee shirt and sell the hell out of it !!  Best advice I've seen on here in 10 years.  Way too many guys are begging to pay for pussy.  There's way too many clams in the ocean to get fixated on one.