How would you go about it if your ATF really wanted to see you but wanted you to come to her place where she lives with S.O. ? She's an awesome time and really a cool person to hang and party with but would you feel weird knowing that at any moment you could get busted by the S.O. leaving work early and coming home while you are Cumming at her Home ??!!! Or would you say f'ck it and just bring the vodka and enjoy the home cooking ??!!
...SO is or may be.
The worst idea I've heard. First of all it sounds like a setup. After meeting you ATF at neutral sites why is it so important to now meet at her house with a known SO? Sounds crazy and yeah you might find yourself the subject of one of those shows on Investigate Discovery.
This is all moot in case her SO is a woman. Then you try to pull the threesome. Good luck.
I don't mind seeing providers with an SO, but they would never make it to ATF standing.
For me ATF means something more than just a great fuck, and knowing her heart belongs to someone else would mean that our relationship would be strictly business. That doesn't mean I couldn't enjoy great sex with someone who belongs to someone else, just that she would never make it to ATF status with me.
How about if she really didn't like the S.O. and was just not ready to change her status. Not that I have delusions that she really wants me but she is definitely an Awesome Awesome Time and greta to hang with and we have so much in common and she cooks great too !!!
One other question though, does he know that she is a provider?
If not, I think I might pass on the "home cooking" lest I come down with a bad case of "lead poisoning" lmao
Sure rtm...whatever the gal tells you must be true.
I'm sure she has no use for her SO other than he puts up with bullshit. Are you ready to? Remember that she's a living breathing gal who will run you ragged doing the "honey dew" list...and you get to listen about how she hates her family, and they hate her. Not to mention what do you do with her kids? Wanna bet she has headaches as well...often LOL
Thanks for the reminder of why the good ones know that it's really GFE...and that dudes like you can't tell. You become those stalkers they complain about.
Or if he gets shot and killed by the SO before April 1, he's eligible for the 2013 Charles Darwin Award.
http://www.darwinawards.com/darwin/darwin2013.htm
Is there a cash award as well?
http://www.darwinawards.com/darwin/darwin2013.html
Or just a midair whiskey pour like in Borat: this one for my homeys...
WOW!! Once again Thanks CPA . Your insightfulness on all things is extremely helpful. Especially given that you know how ignorant "Dudes" like me can be. One day I do inspire to be wise enough to see through all the smoke screens before me. The great part is that you were able to read into all the things that were not actually posted and still able to offer your Wisdom .... Again ...Thank You So Much for your input !!!
Have no fear rtm...your "I've fallen" story won't be the last.
Be sure to rerun it in late November so that it can be considered again. And maybe update us on how you've saved the damsel in distress. That's always good for a laugh as well.
At least you aren't addressing the gal as "my provider"....yet LOL
WOW !!! CPA, you really are smarter than any of us thought. You can see my embarassment through your Rose colored spectacles !!! AMAZING !!!!
I guess delusions are just a part of your make up.
Seems like you haven't exactly endeared yourself to the masses here...but maybe someone will post an encouraging comment. LOL
Perhaps you should stop digging...if not I am sure I can FedEx a shovel that will make your quest easier.
All you are to her is an envelope of cash. Don't ever forget that.
You mean the vodka I bring and the food don't count??!! OMG I thought that was what she wanted me for !!!!
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Now your making excuses. Ok she says she doesn't give a fuck about him, but are you a mind reader, what the fuck you gonna do when he comes in with guns blazing because he really does give a fuck about her STILL? Your a IDIOT! Heres a heads up," how do you tell when a provider or a hobbyist is lying? WHEN THEIR LIPS ARE MOVING" Your still an idiot.
If you actually think about the responses .... hmmmm... who are the Idiots ?!!!
Plus she's got Great T-ts and a nice Tight Wet P'ssy and loves Greece besides giving an awesome DTBBBJNQNS !!!!.... Not that that matters to me.....Oh...and I know her forever !!!!!
I can promise you this:
You will get that everytime you give her an envelope of cash.
But you're off to a good start. Most, if not all, providers have SOs. They won't tell you because of your reaction here and because they want you to think you are really special & they want tips & gifts, which you would be less likely to give if you thought you were giving them to her and her partner.
The year has just started, so there is a long way to go. I suspect you'll pull yourself out of the running, eventually.
No worries Capt. I have not Fallen and I can get UP !!!! plus going by this board I know I am way out of contention already ...
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Early in year yet but at least we got it rolling !!!
and my statement stands, I might enjoy dozens or even hundreds of different women that have SO's at home, but those women never make ATF status with me.
Now it looks like you are the one who has put himself into the running for SPOTY 2014, don't worry there is a long ways to go, and I doubt anyone will ever remember this dumb post of yours by the time the ballots are cast. lol
IDK I'd rather be third runner up so they can stalk #1 and 2
You have that that "most, if not all" hookers have SO's.
But I have seen the complete opposite...few have an SO/BF/Hubby. Doing this type of work seems to not be conducive for that type of relationship. Frankly many are here because the SO/Hubby/Baby's Daddy bolted some time ago. Many are single mothers (and grandmothers) eeking out a living fucking. In my sample that seems to be the norm.
The year has just started, so there is a long way to go. I suspect you'll pull yourself out of the running, eventually.
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But you can believe what you like. Seems the rest of the world has a very different POV on what they see.
And I can assure you that gals need not tell me anything. I prefer to see the documentation. Words are easy to manipluate....facts are evidentiary.
And I do accept cash for payment...but checks are more preferable as I report all my income. Don't you?
depending on where you live, he can legally kill you and get away with it. He walked in and saw an intruder raping his wife/SO.
And two -- I love being alone way too much to have an SO much less a live in one. Besides my last ex told me I was a shitty girlfriend
I do mainly out calls and only do in call to a hotel. Private in calls-SO or not-are too risky for my taste. A lady can choose to do business however she likes but nosy neighbors and psycho clients, SO's, former SO's or whatever make a private apartment or residence a no-go for me.
At least you don't have to worry about him tracking down who you are and where you live. Your privacy will be intact. Your face will not.
Have some sense to find out more about the SO and the situation.
"Busted by the SO" suggests he/she doesn't know about the providing.
That should be a walk away situation. Don't meet at that house for the safety reasons mentioned by others. Not to mention the fact that she's being plain disrespectful to her SO by doing it there.
Instead of trying to how stupid you are.
Think about it
See above message. Hmmmm....who are the idiots ??!!!!
as that is between them. You really don't want to be there when the shit hits the fan. It is a good way to get hurt. Besides any woman who wants to fuck you on her SO's bed has issues. BSC may be fun, but gets real scary real quick.
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I love the she's being disrespectful comments because if you actually ran the numbers ( Hey CPA, This Is One Of Your Forte's Right ??!! As Well As All Knowing on Just About Everything Else ) aren't the majority of HOBBYISTS being disrespectful to their ( GASP !!) S.O.'S ??!!! Or are you all under some misguided belief that Hobbying isn't disrespecting anyone. Imagine if I actually reviewed my ATF and you were able to contact her. You might find out there is more than meets the eye, but going by the comments uhhhh....probably not.
You just don't know when to quit. But given your inability to see anything clearly it doesn't surprise me...and apparently not anyone else either.
And some review that YOU write would tell anyone what? Simply that your version of a session was amazing. While she simply can't wait for you to leave so she can go take her SO out for a Wendy's dinner with your money.
Then she'll fuck him BBFS and tell him how great he is. Yep...you're just a jealous little bitch LOL
Just curious...how does his cum taste?
Oh contraire...I do know when to quit, I'm just not ready.....as opposed to one of your reviews or anyone elses that state..." I aroused her so that there was such a wet spot " lmfao.......do you really think that there is a review here that isn't based on someones personal feelings at the moment ? Or do you Hobby strictl for the good of others and give a totally unbiased review taking into account everyone's personal tastes before posting.....Plus your stereotypical comment about Wendy's means what ...that providers are all lower class citizens and they eat at fast food restaurants. It would be like a provider thinking that everyone who has time to post on these boards incessantly is probably an overweight repressed crossdresser who isn't sure whether he likes giving or receiving so that's why they are regular posters. See how silly that is now BECAAUSE obviously that's not YOU !! oh and since i know you have a need to get in the last word ...I'm done not quitting just done...Actually was bored ...that's why I came here in the first place...my work here on this post is done......
It becomes tiresome lecturing idiots on self preservation.
Only since you asked.
But if you don't want to take our advice, by all means go ahead.
Charles Darwin award, here we come!!!
But I agree lying to and cheating on your SO is extremely disrespectful. But even you got to admit doing it in that SO bed brings it to whole new level of complete disregard.
And while you're at the house I strongly suggest you try on some of his clothes, drink his liquor (preferably from an old fruit jar), brush with his toothbrush, reprogram his radio and television, kick his dog and eat up all his favorite foods. And when he busts a cap in your ass the lady can call an ambulance for you just before she throws herself back into the SO's arms now that he's proven he really does care for her.
...to her BP ad. She sounds pretty cool. I might want to hang with her and her BF.
hey you might find out there can be cool women without ulterior motives ( Other than wanting cash for Bigger better T-ts, Liposuction , Tanning and Hair Color ) but I'm just an Idiot !!!!! BWAHAHAHAHAHAHA...
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5 gals...maybe 10 and out of those you know that at least 1 has an SO?
Being stupid is OK...can't be helped I guess. But your naivete is beyond stupid.
I guess you want to be the maven on this...that's OK as well. But here's a hint...the gals tend to NOT have SO/BF/Hubby while they are active hookers. It is just too tough to balance their lives doing that. But you believe whatever...and you believing that going to a hookers home when the SO/BF/Hubby is out with the kids is a good idea.
I guess at some point we'll see your photo online as a mug shot. You are beyond stupid...sorry 
My ATF retired, so I'd meet her anywhere, anytime. Hell, I'm going to die sometime and I couldn't think of a better place than in her bed
The lady retired so she's hanging with the people she really cares for.
While you miss that pussy so much that you've got a deathwish?!
Or a stalking wish. whichever.
Well, good luck on getting that phone call.
I'll nominate you in absentia for the Darwin too
I was joking, go ahead and take your ball and go home. You must be Sheldon, and can't recognize sarcasm.
She retired, left the life for greener pastures. I'm very happy for her, would never stalk or bother her in any way. I was fortunate enough to have spent time with her and I'll always cherish those memories. If I were to see her in public somewhere I wouldn't acknowledge her, after all discretion is one of the most precious things in the hobby.
Sure, I'd love to see her again, but I'm kind of happy that I won't because it means that the next phase of her life is a successful one
...part of this thread is that RTM bleeps out the bad words in his posts.
Heh...
i have several ATF'S and know their live-in SO's quite well..we even party together..i have no pretensions or hang-ups about it..neither do they..after all..its only sex..
Why is this such a problem for some people on here ?
Is it jealousy?
If someone is fortunate enough to make such a connection with someone why is that a problem
What is the difference if this was a affair ? , two people who happened to find happiness in each other's company ?
I am not going to say this is a good idea or going to work out , but why not enjoy it for as long as it lasts ?
And if the the SO is safely away .... What's the difference
Life is short , enjoy it while you ca
It doesn't matter if were Escorts, FBSM, or Hookers. It doesn't matter what you want to call us you still come to see us. Don't you guys have SO's, Gf or Wives?
We are Women and Ladies and deserve to be happy what we do with our personal time and who we choose to spend it with is really none of your concern or business.
Some providers are very good at management of business and personal time and some of us have Very Supportive SO's, Bf or Husbands.
But again our PERSONAL LIVES is none of you business just like your Personal life is none of ours
telling the dude she had a SO. She wouldn't have had to rent a hotel room 
It seems to me the the guy asked questions he really didn't want the answer too. Then came here to complain about her answer. So my suggestion is, don't ask questions that you don't want the answer too because some providers believe in telling the truth and being honest.
Sounds like a simple resolve to me
Nope your personal life is none of our business and most of us wouldn't ask in the first place if you have a SO. However, that doesn't meant that if I found out you have one I wouldn't feel the same way and never see you again. Personally I just wouldn't be able to get the fact out of my head and it would ruin the illusion.
Seriously, I know girls that do this, and it never ends in anything but trouble. Best case scenario, you are both being disrespectful assholes. It is not disrespectful to work, but it IS disrespectful to let a stranger splooge where your significant other will be laying down to rest. Especially if he isn't aware of what's going on.
And if he doesn't know? Boy howdy if he ever comes home early or finds out!! Most "anonymous tips" are SOs who found something they weren't prepared for.
Not to mention this crosses all kinds of personal boundaries. While you may not be crazy now, you're only opening yourself up to lunacy knowing that much personal information about her. It's better just to have her get a hotel.
And to those who think we can't be ATFs if we have an SO? Who gives a fuck?? I mean, seriously. Most of y'all are cheaters anyways, we aren't going to think for a second that we should consider what the hell YOU think of our personal situations. Judgey Mcjudertons. If a girl is dumb enough to tell you, that's on her. But all this horse shit about us having the neeerve to have a fulfilling personal life lately is a joke.
Maybe we should all stare at your ring finger and tell you you can't be our favorites cause it's somehow even "less real" than before. Cause paying a hooker is totes legit.
Guns don't kill people, but husbands that come home early do.
And your anus is his special present. Don't eat broccoli or brussels sprouts for a few days, so fun and hijinx can be had by all without any unpleasant odors.