Because its early in the month and rents not due?? Yes. HOARDS of us ladies sit around, paying for ads and hotels, but only taking appointments after the 20th.

I wish you guys would realize how insulting it is to suggest that the responsive girls are only doing so because they're desperate, and the unresponsive ones are borderline scam artists posing as business people, the way y'all are posting about us recently. And the repeated sentiment that we won't get off our asses until something is past due is really getting old. Maybe she didn't want to see you yourself. Maybe she's busy already. Maybe you are the one saying something to cause your emails to go unanswered. Maybe you just really resemble someone who's been blacklisted and they're not double checking.  

Maybe lots of things.  

Either way, a girl is not going to sink a grand or so into a 3-4 day trip (yup, that's what it costs!) and then not answer your email because rent isn't due. And to make a blanket statement like that, without it even tying in a little bit to being ignored by multiple providers, is frustrating to see as a girl who has her shit together for the most part, as most of us do on here.  

And for the record, it's not all that unusual for a girl who is good, and travels to an area regularly, to book up a week or two out. It happened alllll the time with the girls in the agency that I was with, in multiple cities, with a huge variety of girls. And, we all had to work almost twice as much as we actually wanted to in order to break even AND pay rent if nothing crazy came up. So, if it can happen with girls doing double the volume of a typical Indy, what makes you doubt that she could possibly be happy with her trip already?

If a girl doesn't email you back, get. Over. It. Worse has and will happen, no need to come on here and pretend we ladies can't see what you say.  

 

 

 

 

 

I was really nice on the newbie board today. It almost counts for something.