I am a big planner myself.. I plan shit wayyyyyyyy in advance.  I rarely do last minute things, and just like anything I've had mixed results.  

 
You can plan 2-3 months in advance, but it has to be with the right person..  I used to see a lady out in Las Vegas. She was my go to person and was a super organized person like myself. The whole world knows that I go to Las Vegas a week after the World Series  - every year.. without exception (minus 2020 of course due to the global pandemic...)    The said lady is now retired...  Now I have tried to use the same technique with others and it hasn't worked that smoothly.. People forget.. They don't take you seriously. They don't communicate back to you.  

 
If you do book that far in advance, do make sure of couple of things.. Make sure you have found the right person who is capable of making good on her promise, and also try to reach out to the person couple of weeks before your trip to ensure everything is in good order for you two to meet.  

 
I have already booked the person I am seeing in Vegas this time around.. The appointment is locked and loaded ready to go -  but guess what.....- a week out, I will be reaching out to her with a friendly text just to make sure we are still good on our schedule..  You gotta control the conversation and appointment.. Don't leave it up to the girl.. Don't leave it to chance  

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and so I plan well ahead, at least a month or two.

 
When I plan to be away in a city, I'll start looking for a gal there right away, even if it is several months ahead, then check in with them as the time approaches.

 
When I see a gal whom I'd been thinking of seeing advertise on my local board, I'll set something up as soo as I can.

 
The only time I don't schedule way ahead is when I go to my local AMP.   There I just call ahead a few hours.

Let the individual lady tell you its too soon but I think that is unlikely to happen. I have scheduled 2 months in advance on occasion. Never seems to be a big issue.

Book less than a week out.  Usually closer to a month.  But I book dinner dates and do extensive research into the lady.  The ones that are professional will put you on the calendar easily a month in advance.

As far as deposits, if you don't want to pay a deposit just tell them so.  If you have good references many times they'll let it slide.  But if they want a deposit a month out they'll probably want one two days out as well.

When I am local, I usually hobby on Tuesday, Thursday or both depending on how I feel and my schedule. I keep a running list of the top 3-4 providers I want to see in the next week or two. On Monday I will book a Thursday session, and on Wednesday or Thursday I will book the next Tuesday session. When I’m traveling, I will formulate my top choices list 1-2 weeks out, and I may book 5-6 days out, leaving an extra 24-48 hours to be verified. For certain bookers or providers I modify my schedule to book at the time they prefer. One booker I frequent never knows who is working until that day. I usually get a last minute choice of a few girls, so I can live with that. If I plan more than 10 days in advance there is added hassle of too many reschedules or cancels. This rarely happens with bookings only a few days in advance as long as I have a few back up providers in mind.

I usually schedule at least 48 hours in advance but usually not more than a week in advance unless I know that the scheduler is reliable. Unless it is something special (e.g., overnight, travel), I find that anything scheduled further in advance is sometimes prone to fall between the cracks and result in a cancellation on their end.  

If it is something special, I will arrange it directly with her and involve her in the planning. Overnights and especially foreign travel involve planning so it is best to start early.

Life is likely to intervene the farther out you book.  So stay flexible and be willing to adjust at the last moment.

Planning ahead is ideal

I may accept a request 2-3 days in advance or 2-3 weeks. Depending on our life plans it's best to reach out as soon as possible. Things change, and you'd like to secure time with your prime choice 😉

Same day or day before. I've tried to schedule further out but it never works for me. If I miss my chance, there is always another girl to see

I make a request to meet far in advance and as soon as I know I want to meet someoene. I need to plan in advance bc of my work schedule, and I only meet ladies locally now. So if I ask them to meet on Long Island it usually requires at least several weeks planning.

A week usually. Never done a same day or even a day prior booking. I like to remain abstinent for at less a few days before, as it heightens the anticipation and pleasure.

Reach out now and get the verification process underway.  Include a small gift card, to let her know that you're serious.  Check that she doesn't have any travel/vacation plans for the time that expect to be there.

 
Then, a couple of weeks ahead of your trip. drop her a line to remind her that you'd reached out before (mention the gift) and include your request for an appointment.

 
Enjoy!

I have gotten away with as little as 24 hours notice. And even if she says no, she knows I’m not trying to be disrespectful of her time and that I’m a repeat customer who will repeat some more.

If the lady is entirely new to me, I find a week is usually enough time to take care of the due diligence.

For special occasions, getting 2 ladies’ schedules aligned, an overnight, etc., I’ll go out as far as 2 weeks.

10 days to 2 weeks usually works for me if I am seeing a New Lady.  If it is a regular in my rotation, a week out is plenty.  If I have an itch that needs to be scratched right away….well you know where to check.  Never get ghosted in 1st two scenarios; the 3rd?….that is a different story!

3 or 4 days, that way I I get the day and time I want.

It depends on the lady. If I know I’m going to be at x spot for a certain time period. I’ll reach out and how far out she accepts scheduling.