TER to me is a majority vanilla board, but I do not consider it a fuck board. We’re all very different. This is not a dating site, but your here to book dates it’s ironic because some people pay you to leave & others value your energy on a genuine level. To say it’s a fuck board is assuming everyone has the same desires as you.  

I agree.

It is indeed good to be alive. I am developing a fine appreciation that I have taken for granted. I use this as something more than a consumer report  site.  I find what some have been saying about our providers as unnecessary and crude.  Takes all kinds, I guess. Usually, what goes around, comes around.  
Y’all stay healthy.

that not everyone shares your delicate sensibilities.  Some of us like it a little bit rowdy around here..  

used to describe websites that cater to sex workers and the customers who see them.  Granted, if you were not a sex worker, you may not find this board as a place you want to go to meet people, but you ARE a sex worker, and to try to call this something else is disingenuous.  Everyone DOES have the same general desires here.  Customers are here to get information about, and to meet, providers, and providers are here to market to potential customers.  If you happend to make friends along the way, that's okay, too, but this is not like the Afternoon Tea Society, it's more like the Cheyenne Social Club.  (I'm dating myself here - lol).  

can indeed be an indicator of what kind of a person they are in real life.

"Online disinhibition effect is the lack of restraint one feels when communicating online in comparison to communicating in-person.[1] People feel safer saying things online which they would not say in real life because they have the ability to remain completely anonymous and invisible behind the computer screen."

You breaking down the word "hooker" to make it a compliment is like George Costanza breaking down the word "manure" to put a positive spin on it:

there are about 6,500 users online.

I never use those words when referring to women in the industry, not even if am beefing with one of them. If a woman is a whore and a guy purchase her services, he is a whore too - it's about time they know this.  
Many men who do this are messed up in some way or another ; Some was molested and or have a father that was the same thing.

is a pub in England.  Could be wrong, but I don't think so.

I always treat ladies with great respect -- just before I cum in their mouths.  (This is an irony post.  Sexuality has its dark side.)

If you do not like those two words I suppose whore and cum-dumpster is out of the question.
Actually I’ve never used the above, to or about anyone here, well not the ladies anyway.

Actually "monger" (for men) sounds better. The other two words (for women) are blatantly ,explicit, degrading and disrespectful - and then you have sex with that woman.  
If you hate something that much and believe it's  below you ,then dont part take .
I have total disdain for hypocrisy, double standard and hate in all forms.  
Wherever there is sexism there is racism,genderism, and other 'isms'..time for it to stop .
If you respect your,grandmother mother,your sister, you will will respect women in general - they are not your foot mat.

I do see women using it to degrade men though . Men are the ones using it.

The word hooker is disrespectful and you do not like it  
But you have used the word hooker when referring to a woman.
 

NOT!!!  Lol

I'm not arguing....I'm thinking about past experiences

Ok first of all while I'm a rare contributor here I do read some posts every once and a while  You are basically the only, um, hoo..er..bi..no...um whor...not that...love saleswoman or perhaps sex rep? does that work? That hangs out here, although I do notice a couple of over the hill ho's chiming in here. Your post is so touching but hun (that's what many hookers call us johns) guys are here to meet escorts and if you're counting on this site to fulfill you with meaningful relationships I think you might be just a teency weency crazy.
Bitch is not a good word but try to telling that to the Rap community, male and female, bitch  and the N-word are repeated ad-infinitum.
That being said , ho, hooker, escort, and call girl are all accurate terms for someone selling sex. I personally prefer escort but depends on my mood.  
Maybe you need to go to a church social or hang out at the bars for middle-aged yuppies, I'm sure there's plenty of those in San Diego, where you can have deep friendships.  
But here, you are a provider for male fantasies and for that I'm grateful. Although I don't suppose we'll become pals.  
As you said, be happy and kind. I find my friends far away from TER. But that's just me and to each his own.

might very well be crickets.   Lol

**Nothing to do with how anyone looks, everything to do with character, or lack of**
   I wouldn't see anyone that conducts themselves the way you do. The way you talk about women in such a  disrespectful,  demeaning manner it's disgusting & disturbing to me.  
     For a moment I entertained the idea of possibly a dom. session, where I could restrain, gag & beat the $hit out of you, Realistically, I know I wouldn't be able to get over the way you speak. think of and I'm sure treat woman.  
     
     The only reasons I have declined anyone; their interest in something not on my menu, t
If they are disrespectful, rude, have superiority issue's, and lastly safety concerns.  
   
No hard feelings though. Sending light, healing and love vibes.

BBBBWWWWHHHHHAHAHA!
Lighten up Mama. If you had a sense of humor you might recognize i was mostly joking.  
Plus i said Bitch is a bad word and i prefer escort.  
But fortunately i also see your hilarious comic writing.
Like suggesting i go to Ohio so you can beat me. Although i looked at your pics and you could probably kick my ass.  
Thanks for the laughs and may all your desires come true, well except for kicking my ass. 😊😊

-- Modified on 4/3/2023 11:58:33 AM

The "k" and "l" are right next to each other on the keyboard, so it's understandable it could come out as Kick, or kicking.  

of him and his ilk

How about you tell us exactly what, in your mind, all the requirements
are for a Fuck Board.

I totally agree about the type of origins for the need or drive, Marie.  

but there is no meeting of men and escorts happening on this board when the disrespect has chased all of the women away.  

First of all you have to give yourself a different handle. Perhaps "Mr Lonely"
My comment referred to the fact that this board what ever it should be called is not a real form of communication but rather just another Social media platform.  
"Banter with the ladies?" Hilarious!
I find "banter with ladies" satisfying only when said lady is sitting in front of me in person, live. And I actually have some ladies to do that with, unpaid of course. When I pay, the banter is the lady wasting as much time as possible as to lessen the time naked. In fact I thing it should be one of the ratings 10 - she gets right to the point when the door closes to 1- She just "talked" there. I think a 7 or 8 is ok, a brief get to know you and then let the games begin!!
I think that you and the Queen should have an all digital relationship and you can discuss such deep matters as: Do you think its ok to date an escort, or, What's your favorite position, maybe, What is the oldest escort you will see. Like I said the great philosophical question of mankind.

Haha, yeah Queen FB! Queen if you want boys to talk to hang out at a gay bar. They'd love you!
THIS IS A FUCK BOARD. It's called the "Erotic Review", not, "Getting To Know You.  
How about J Date? You can meet a nice Doctor.

that a dim bulb sheds little light.  

Great Master you have given light where there was none. I was in the dark cave seeing only the shadows created by a dim fire burning behind me, and accepting these false representations as truth.  
But you shook me, gently, from this unholy slumber and caused me to see this spurious existence i was living. Energized now by your greatness i rushed out of the cave and was met by this Godlike orb of light. And i now saw all around me such magnificent creatures and fauna, with tears running down my face. I owe all this to you oh Master.  
But i have one question, why oh MasterZen do you choose to live in this TER cave when you too should be out in the real world save the lives of poor souls like my self?  
Oh also, is Queen B a real queen?

My original response is removed, so here is  the short  abbreviated version.
Again , that what you referred to was  headline in  TV news media and newspapers , not my words, so don't  try to called me out over headlines news I did mot create. You know the culprit who is to be blame.

Yes.  This is a community where people get together to fuck (etc.).

I know you can't help being who and what you are.  

Provider advice often comes with an agenda, hobbyist advice USUALLY doesn't.  Many providers are not trying to reshape our perspective, but there are some who are, mainly the ladies who left TER during the down-time in the US, and are now coming back.  An example are the ones who are trying to convince us that deposits are good for EVERYONE.  

"hobbyist advice USUALLY doesn't" come with an agenda? In fact, everyone has an agenda of some sort.
And where are these ladies who "are now coming back." I haven't seen them.
I wish you were right but I see no evidence of what you assert. This place has been moribund since it re-opened in the US and remains so. You can perhaps cite a couple of names but that's hardly a trend.
Dream on....

and pimps shilling for certain ladies, but those are pretty transparent.  I think most of the hobbyists here are exchanging what they believe to be honest information in order to minimize the possibilities of a bad session for themselves or others, and their only "agenda" is to find suitable women to fuck on terms and at prices they can agree to.  If you call this an agenda, then yes, we all have one.  I was referring to agendas that do not have other hobbyists' best interests in mind and/or are intentionally misleading.  Other than the shills, what kinds of "agendas" do you see coming from hobbyists that are designed to mislead or misdirect other hobbyists?  

So I assume you're conceding I'm right.
2) As to agendas, what about the many stalkers you always complain about? Last, of course there ARE a few guys who have no agenda, most prominent being mrfisher and a few others. But given how few people actually post here, I think your point is still pretty weak.

the definition of "hobbyists with an agenda" to be those posters that are not contributing information helpful to other hobbyists, and excluding shills and stalkers (I have a few stalkers, but I don't think there are large numbers of stalkers here), who are transparent and easy to spot, I will ask you again what kinds of agendas are you seeing from hobbyists that are NOT in a spirit of honest info or helpfulness towards other mongers, or are we in agreement that hobbyists generally don't have manipulative agendas the way some of the providers do, which was my original point?

I figured it was time I get one.

I have ajenga but I do not bring it to TER. Not everybody here plays nice.

Well that may be some of the people that use this board to be assholes when they are really great guys but definitely not all. And u would think you would want more women to participate on the board. Thus not disrespecting them. I know it's hard.
  Another thing, just as men use this board to make their choices about women they want to see, we gals do too. And I am thinking the men that are just rude are probably trolls and never see any one.  So go ahead and try to sell I am just a jerk online because believe it or not nobody is guna get to the point of real life interaction because of that. And only a jerk would think that most men act different on a board than in real life. Most men like themselves,and woman and don't have to "act" some way to what ? Feel better about themselves? I don't see how being a dick makes anyone feel better. And before anyone takes offense my reply wasn't aimed at one person it was aimed at the larger whole of what I hope is not a very large whole at all.  And yes, rereading that it did sound kinda sexual but I checked, whole was good, not hole.

He doesn't want more women because he already made a dick comment about old hoes or old bags being the only ones on the board. So some of us start to think why bother. It's getting bad where some gals won't even deal w anyone from here. And that's really not fair because I have meant a lot of awesome men on here. Just some bad apples spoiling it as always.  And go check out a bird thing on providers over 50 there are some of the finest women in the business. Just saying

He would be a whoremonger as a whore is someone who gets $ or something of value for , you know. Not sure I can say that. But you know what I am saying.

I'm surprised this stayed up after you removed the scaffolding.  

No surprise.

You are twitching, squirming and wiggling. You are grasping at straws.

You are a total baby. You sound like someone , like a bratty kid. Oops sorry. Now I shouldn't have said that. But your post was like neener neener neener.

Well it seems like a bunch are here to talk shit. And be jerks. So they must have an agenda and it surely isn't helpful to hobbyists. In fact it's probably worse than sum gal wanting deposits.  And if ur guna show up what's the big deal about a reasonable deposit if it's a gal that's verifiable. I don't usually ask for one but there are a bunch of guys that set dates and don't show up and it's only been getting worse. And by deposit I mean an amount u pay ahead of time deducted from the whole amount. Not like extra money. And it's a problem only when u don't show up.  Anyways, off subject.

Nope, I never paid anyone $130;000 , and using money that is not mine, and have headlines  written about me , and get hauled in court for it. Real news ,not fake.

Thanks for your opinion. about escorts over 50 I suppose it's also your opinion to call yourself 'sexy" stephie.
No man in their right mind (sans mommy issues, TS mongers, and chubby chasers) prefers a 50-60 year old to a beautiful 30 something woman. And before you have a fit, I'm 67 and I am also wwaaaaaayyyyy over the hill but with a wallet full of hundies I'm super hot.  
Sorry but not everyone has to agree with you or all the other woke crazies. It's a free country and I choose youth and beauty over experience.

it's called a troll.  They have nothing of substance to contribute other than their own uninformed opinion, so they poke the bear on the guys that are putting out the real info here.

They say not all money is good money, so I am glad to know that there are women out there like you that will not see disrespectful punks, ...unless it's  a domination date were you get to " grab him by the balls".  Good thinking..I like that.
Some people think because they spending a few dollars they can disrespect you .