I have to admit, it usually ends up a one shot deal.  But there have been several providers who have made the experience so serendipitous that becoming something of a regular seemed the only way to go.

I see most gals twice, three times if I really like them. My record is seven times and I can't say I won't go and see that gal again.

I like being a regular. I like the comfort level, when I call, and the feeling that she's happy to see me when I arrive, even if it's only because she knows I'll pay her, tip her and treat her kindly.

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I could see sticking to 1 provider and going back to her again and again. There tons providers that I would love to try. But I can't afford it. So I tend to stick with her. And I go to her because I'm comfortable, she's comfortable and SHE IS GREAT! I really dig seeing her, but she is pricey for me. And I got to save to see her. Hell I have to save to see anyone. So I stick with who I know is a solid. That's a good reason, right?

I prefer being a regular than a 'one-shot' deal. More often than not multiple sessions w/a provider has more intimacy than the one-shot deal. A session is a intimate experience and being w/someone who has an identical mindset is more than satisfying. Physical graffiti is enjoyable but the emotional connection makes a session more memorable.

Variety is the spice of life and I enjoy all sizes, shapes, colors, and type of women that have a sense of humor.  I very seldom see a provider more than once unless I feel very comfortable with her no matter how great the sex was (is there ever bad sex? just some that is better than others is my opinion).  The best providers prefer rednecks like me that do the following
1) Foreplay consists of him telling you, “git in the back of the pickup truck and brace yourself honey”;

2) Instead of candles he brings a heavy duty spotlight (workshop size) and asks you to help him “spot deer” in between making out;

3) Instead of nice smelling incense and body oils, he brings a can of used motor oil or axle grease;

4) Only sexual position is doggie style so that both of you can watch the NASCAR race or wrestling at the same time;

5) Dinner  consists of potted meat, viaaaane sausage, generic name beer, or wine that has a day instead of a year;

6) He leaves his farm boots on in bed and tells you that he gets better traction and a better angle;

7) He tries to convince you that “it” or “his thang”  is the other white meat;

8) Safe sex is having a condom with a “hot patch” on the last hole when he used it last;

9) He begs you to make a noise like a sheep to help him get in the mood; and finally

10) He shares a dip of mint smokeless tobacco with you afterwards instead of a cigarette.

i am definitely in the group that has to save up for his encounters. my original plan on entering this hobby was to experience a variety of women, but i've quickly come to realize -now that i've met a couple that i really like - that every time i choose to see a new girl, it's another week or month or more before i can afford to see the girl i really want to see.

so i guess i will try to see a few more to round out my fantasy wish list , then pick 2 or 3 favorites and stick with them.

I am for the most part a one shot deal.  But not because I want to be.  It's because I, like I think most of my bretheren, are lookibng for that elusive all-time "GFE/PSE with comfort" experience.  They just happen to be few and far between.  That said, when I do find a provider that makes me feel comfortable, ie a connection that transcends just the physical acts, I try to hold on to her for as long as possible.

A new provider once in awhile is exciting, especially if I have read hot reviews. However, I most enjoy going back to those women who I know enjoy what they do and enjoy my company. I have developed a close friendship with at least two, who I don't see all that often, but we do talk on the phone often. They share their problems, ask for advice and seem to look forward to just talking.

Sasha, I can only enjoy a session if some kind of connection is made. If there is a connection, then I will return. On the other hand, if we don't connect, nothing else works either and I don't return. New blood is good once in awhile, but I really enjoy the repeat visits.

I purposefully see providers only once...to me, becoming "regular" is just way too much like a relationship, and I have enough problems maintaining the "relationship" I'm in.

I have only seen one provider more than once, and that was twice. It is wasn't because she was such a fantastic GFE...in fact, she is anyhting but (not cold or harsh, she just is detached emotionally...she doesn't even kiss). I saw her again because A) She was fairly close to being my ideal physical type for this type of encounter B) She was very low maintence C) She really seemed to enjoy herself, in regards to me being a bit rough.

Since coming to this board and reading the post, I am more convinced my strategy is the way to go. I've read too many post where guys speak about their broken hearts, money losts, and their "friendships" with providers.

I'm reminded of the one provider who asked me how I found out about her. When I mention to her the guy who had sent me her way via a strong recommendation in a PM, she replied "oh yeah, him...he's an ok guy, but he really needs to get a life and stop bugging me...." This guy thought they were friends too...I guess because she always answered the phone when he called.(Umm...HELLO? She hoping the conversation ends with "when can you get here..." but I guess he never figured that out...lol)

I will try someone new once and a while, just for variety. But basically, once I've found a provider who really makes me happy, I'll be back to see her time and time again.

Example. I usually hit the MPs about once every month or two. I've tried a couple of independents on occasion. But I recently found a girl who has me so hooked, I'll be seeing her every week if I can find the time and budget. It's not that I'm falling for her, it's just that she is SO amazingly talented, and friendly, and we seem to click. And sorry guys, she is an MP girl who has asked that I not review or mention her name. Now, because she's an MP girl, I know she'll be leaving the business without warning. So I will from time to time experiment to find a backup provider. But until she moves on, she'll be my favorite.

I have two providers I alternate between.  One is very sweet and demure.  The other a bit more of a vixen.  I enjoy them both and as long as they are in the biz, I am just not that interested in vetting new ladies.  Exceptions to this are massages with happy endings -- I tend to be more adventurous on this...probably because they are not as intimate.  Of course, I have a  bunch of reviews posted with more than 2 women. What's up with that?  After seeing a number of women, I realized that the 2 "I have" are what I need. Or want.  Or whatever.

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I just returned from Rio de Janeiro and I think I will be going down there 4 or 5 times a year from now on. The cost is not as
much as you would think. Flight $560, apt. $500, Food & drink $200. ladies totaled about $350 for 6 different ladies. Some
stayed all night. How much would this cost in the US.
A little more than $1,600 US for 6 lovelies. I know that's $268. each, but 4 stayed all night and the other 2 stayed for about 3-4
hours, and I loved every minute of it.

Re:Are most guys on here on shot deals?

At my age, I'm happy as hell to be able to do one shot.  But serially, I seldom see a provider a second or third time.  So little time - so much choice.

I am looking for that connection, but am probably fantasizing about it being far more than it can be, so I often end up feeling disappointed.  Also, since its about money for the provider, it makes it harder for me to see her as a friend. So I keep looking for the impossible dream...

I definitely prefer repeat visits.  I look for the true GFE feel, and if it's there, I keep going back.  Usually, things only get better from there.  It's nice to build up a mutual thing.
Of course every repeat visit must have a first appt.  It's mildly depressing when I realize the lady I'm with is not one I want to see again.  But, maybe she feels the same about me.

i seem to go through cycles .. a rutty spell, followed by abstinence for a few months, then a rutty spell. in rut i'll see several providers in a week, sometimes two or even three a day.

the main thing with variety is just that many ladies settle into the groove, the script, the job, and pretty much replay the record every time. once is enough of that, thanks.

if i find a hottie whose chemistry matches mine, and who seems to know what i like before i know i like it, i hook up with her again two or three times at least. the real sweethearts always seem a little different each time, get more intimate over time, and go with the flow ... not just with my body, but with my head.

i don't want to have a "normal" relationship with these lovelies; i don't want to help them with real estate or listen to their family woes. but i bond with them, and feel healed by them, as if they were sorceresses or sybils, and sometimes we have intense, healing conversations during the session.

it's also a matter of my effect on them ... i love to go back to ladies who seem to enjoy my company and flower in my presence.