Im curious why some providers ask for my TER handle for screening? I rarely if ever am asked for it, but some girls want it. Just curious is all. The lady I am planning on seeing next week when she comes to town asked for it in a previous exchange and I wondered why when I have so many references?

Both to see what kind of a grader you are and to see if you're a real client and less likely to be LE.  It also lets them network with the girls you've reviewed to see if you're not a weirdo and if you're listed on BL sites.

1.  Its another way to verify you.  If you're a TER member with reviews, she can cross-reference your provider references with your reviews to help here reach her screening goal.

I am a tall, mature, blonde GFE. If I look up your ID and see your reviews are typically porn star reviews with younger brunettes, I'm going to wonder if we are a good match. I might press for some details on your attraction to my ad.  If we are a strong match, I have a better idea of what you are into and can go into our rendezvous knowing what turns you on.  You may have seen one of my lady friends. A text to her might garner a response like "He's a doll, you're going to love him!"

Number 2 is the real reason. They are trying to "game" the system!

Or if you are perhaps a BBFS seeker, or any of a thousand other reason that you might be a good or bad fit for any particular lady.

When you write reviews,  
you are detailing the type of session/experience you want.

See your reviews,whitelists and will serach prvs posts. If you're offensive or rude sounding, super picky or ocd or some weird nuance...probably won't see you. On the other hand your handle could prove that you sound fun and like a great date. Personally a reference usually only tells me yes you check out. No details or info like your handle can give. Your ter handle says ALOT and so does everything attached to it.

To see what you like, to make sure we are right match. And yes, for safety verification.

In my case, I have gone from pursuer to pursued...because of my posts on the boards.  The local ladies have taken notice, and every time I get VIP, my inbox is full of messages from providers who think I would be a good fit for them.

Lol why are y'all so dead set on being so intolerably sneaky instead of owning up to who you are???  

I can see where other providers would use all of the above reasons for requesting the handel. I do not normally request individuals handel, with certain exceptions. The main one being, putting in a white list approval.

don't you check out her website, reviews, board posts, twitter, etc?  You want to know as much as you can about her to ensure the best time and connection.

but just because he has next to no respect for the hookers he fucks doesn't make him all wrong on this.

A while back there was a thread asking what we like the ladies to be wearing for a date. I posted a photo of a beautiful woman in a schoolgirl outfit.
A few days later, I turned up to an appointment and the provider was in that exact outfit. It was sexy as hell in two ways. One, she looked amazing. And two, I found it so exciting that she would go to the trouble to make me so happy for that 90 minutes. She told me that she had driven half way across town to get the outfit.

TER rules to have more than one account, so isn't trying to have two handles trying to game the system as well?  I think if you're caught, that is a banishment offense, so do you really want to be on record here recommending that to the new guys?  Seems a bit reckless and irresponsible to me, especially coming from a guy that purportedly has your kind of experience here.    

are more open-minded to experiencing the joys of an older man, fine wine and seasoned wood.

from a practical standpoint, once a hobbyist has turned the corner and made a conscious decision to see a particular provider,  there is usually no hoop too small for him to jump through to make it happen.  I have done what you said, where I bailed in the middle of setting an appointment because of something she said that put me off, but I think most guys don't do that.  The decision-making and common sense has transferred from the head on top to the head below.  

I'm not sure what TER rules on that are but suppose you have a second handle that does not post reviews  or make board posts.? That's not hurting TER.

who have your handle and don't read at least some of your reviews to see what you may like?

acerbic quite often in my posting, I can't imagine any provider wanting to have CDL as a customer (although there have been a few who have reached out to me, perhaps because they want to reform me into being less than the asshole persona I have here), so that is why I NEVER use my handle to make an appointment.  If I can't pass their screening with my substantial references, then I just move on to the next one.  No P411 and no whitelist, just refs.  Guys get caught up in using their handle to make appointments, because it is a hell of a lot easier, but then you are saddled with the dilemma or whether or not to write an "honest" review, or else put up with the blowback.  

the bullshit's on you regarding reviews here being good to use when screening.  First of all, not every girl is a member of P411. And some who are also like to use other means, including TER reviews.
Sorry.

I've seen a few hookers who probably would be shocked and appalled that the nice older "gentleman"  they saw posts the types of things I do on Fuck boards.

... I voluntarily give it to them when I make requests through P411, which is how I reach out to most providers I wish to meet for the first time. I encourage them to read my posts and reviews, and my p411 profile, to get a good idea what to expect when we meet.

I want to see how many reviews you written,whether you are whitelisted or not.I also want to see how you are when you are on the discussion boards.So I search all of your conversations.And if you sound like a nice person,that puts me at ease before meeting you.I like to get a feel for a person when I meet them.Or if a guy posting on this board is rude and just a complete asshole in all of his postings...And he made an appointment with me...and I searched all of his posts....I would be a bit repulsed and turned off.So moral of story,some of us ladies determine if we see you or not just by how you present yourself on the boards
Xoxo
London

Once on a while your posts prove valuable. Cheers.

1. I check out the types of women he reviews...If he seems to have a strong preference for spinners and athletic women I will make sure he knows I'm tall and curvy.  You'd be surprised how many exclamations of "you're so tall!" I've heard as if they didn't know I was going to be tall.

Some ladies like to read reviews to see what a client is like behind closed doors and what she might expect.  As hobbyist; we do the same thing when we read about a lady to see what she is about.  We want to know what type of services she provides (or does not provide).  

This is one of the more interesting threads.  There seem to be a vast number of reasons why a lady would request a TER Handle such as the following (Proposed Top 10):
1) ease of verification (vs. sending e-mails and waiting for responses);
2) ensure safety;
3) determine if a guy is a harsh reviewer;
4) assess compatibility;
5) validate that he has a certain number of reviews/white lists (maybe at least 10 reviews and/or white lists);
6) better understand his personality, likes/dislikes, and/or turn ons/turn offs;
7) do something special for him (outfit, room setup, approach);  
8) obtain some insights into what he values and/or expects;  
9) see what types of ladies he seems to have a preference for visiting;
10) PM a few of the providers that he as seen before (white lists);
Obviously, some of these could be combined.  I think that #7 is what separates the good from the great.

I like what one guy said about his review policy.  He indicated that if he wouldn't review a girl at least a 7/7, then he wouldn't write a review on her.  Moving forward, I may adopt that policy.  For the reasons that he stated, that seems to make sense.  

I can think of some reasons why that's NOT a good policy.

Why would you give it to them?

I book a lot of dates through P411 and my handle is listed there. I don't know how many girls bother looking me up on TER. A couple have mentioned in session that they've read my posts. I don't remember anyone saying they've read my reviews or contacted girls I've seen for screening purposes. But that's possible.

If lower than 7/7 is a fair score, then she wouldn't be reviewed.  No harm, no foul.  I've been ripped off several times in the past, but not since I started performing more due diligence.  And I don't expect to be ripped off anytime soon.

Why not! I'm still grinning.

Say it like that, it creates unrealistic expectations for the providers I see.  Now everyone is going to want a good impaling, and at my age, there is a limited supply.

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May as well just let you post for me Zen. lol... We are so similar to answers and thoughts.

I think they want to see who you are sleeping with.  I think they want to make sure you are not sleeping with what they may see as undesirables.Lol    

Nothing wrong with you mentioning them again, but just pointing out they were mentioned by more than one provider before you.

Men don't seem to realize that every encounter with a new client is riddled with all kinds of stress. We have to make sure you're not LE, insane, bat shit crazy, an asshole, etc. All you have to worry about is whether or not we will blow you without a condom.
Try putting yourselves in our shoes and you would see that we need ALL the information we can gather to make a decision about our safety.

Cheers.

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Yeah I didn't read all the posts before posting that...my bad lol

salud

Not to mention identity theft.

If you see "reputable" providers with good reviews and the client is not a fucking psycho then there  
most likely will be no problems..just saying..

The hookers act like they are the only ones with something to lose and that ALL hookers are beyond reproach, and that approach is simply BULLSHIT.

The Hookers I mentioned were high end ones. Just because a girl is well reviewed or in a mid to high price range mean that she is an angel. Some high priced hookers are screaming drug addicts. Other go BSC over relatively minor things such as walk-outs or less than stellar reviews.

I don't claim that the ladies are all angels nor do I claim to be one.I have not had such experiences with the ladies that I have seen..I would like to think that the reason for this is that I diligently do my homework on a lady before I reach out to her.. or otherwise I have been extremely lucky so far.

Mainly providers ask for this to see if you have reviewed other providers in the past and it is a form of verification to. Even if you have references it is always nice to know if the client is part of TER and if he has reviewed any of the ladies.

If people will give these to 411, etc..., what's really the big issue?

P411 requires a TER handle? News to me. I was referred by two girls and never gave up a handle from here. Many guys don't post or review on TER but have P411. Your P411 name does not have to be a board handle.

I am surprised she saw you at all. lol