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darmody 22 Reviews 1720 reads
posted
1 / 13

In my admittedly limited experience, I have found an oddly consistent patter. One in seven of the providers I've seen chew my ears off. Not that I'm complaining, because I don't mean they cut into my time or manage the clock poorly. I mean they go overtime pouring out the chatter. Maybe because they're lonely, locked up in hotel rooms all day, because they have something on their minds, or just because they get on a roll. I don't know.  

Most girls get me out on time. Many hustle me out ten or fifteen minutes early. I'm not a great conversationalist, and I don't ramble on. So I never overstay my welcome with chit-chat. It's always up to them if we start way late or I hang around off the clock to listen.  

There's an odd mathematical consistency to when it happens, is my point. Every seventh girl, as I said. Weird.

coeur-de-lion 400 Reviews 231 reads
posted
2 / 13

1.  Start seeing Asian imports.  They run through their whole Engrish vocabulary in about ten minutes.  After that, its just very hot fucking. AND, they will get you out on time.  

2.  It seems from your scores that most of the girls you see are second or third tier indies.  If you move upmarket a little, or see more experienced providers, they are more intuitive of which guys want a lot of conversation and which ones don't.  Some guys like all the conversation.  

AznWhtTailHntr 17 Reviews 163 reads
posted
3 / 13

That way if there has to be conversation, it doesn't have to be with you.

impposter 49 Reviews 227 reads
posted
4 / 13

SKIP every seventh encounter.  
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Instead of 1-2-3-4-5-6-7(too much chatter)-8-9-10-11-12-13-14(too much chatter)-...  skip numbers 7, 14, 21 ...

Posted By: darmody

In my admittedly limited experience, I have found an oddly consistent patter. One in seven of the providers I've seen chew my ears off. Not that I'm complaining, because I don't mean they cut into my time or manage the clock poorly. I mean they go overtime pouring out the chatter. Maybe because they're lonely, locked up in hotel rooms all day, because they have something on their minds, or just because they get on a roll. I don't know.  
   
 Most girls get me out on time. Many hustle me out ten or fifteen minutes early. I'm not a great conversationalist, and I don't ramble on. So I never overstay my welcome with chit-chat. It's always up to them if we start way late or I hang around off the clock to listen.  
   
 There's an odd mathematical consistency to when it happens, is my point. Every seventh girl, as I said. Weird.
Bring a ball gag, as in the picture:

vernjones 52 Reviews 189 reads
posted
5 / 13

There is nothing, IMHO, that is more annoying and major buzz kill than to be in a FMF and have the chicks begin talking to each other  and forget that the time I paid for is supposed to be about ME!!  

Posted By: AndrewDufresne
Re: Another solution - have doubles
That way if there has to be conversation, it doesn't have to be with you.

coeur-de-lion 400 Reviews 170 reads
posted
6 / 13

be smart, I would think you would understand tongue in cheek humor.  If you asked any of the Asian women I have dated, they would recount how well they are treated by me.  Hardly the style of someone who does not view a class of people as human.  

Too bad you have such a chip on your shoulder about being Asian.  Asian-ness wears well on most women who are comfortable in their own skin and know who they are.  Apparently, you're not one of them.  

coeur-de-lion 400 Reviews 198 reads
posted
7 / 13

two mouths to fill and only one dick in the room . . . . .

coeur-de-lion 400 Reviews 190 reads
posted
8 / 13

When they're talking to each other in a foreign language that you don't speak.  Lol

quadseasonal 27 Reviews 279 reads
posted
9 / 13

When I was in the sexual rental game I had little to say until she gave me my first after glow.
 I'm usually more than satisfied before my time is up, then and only then do I find  time to talk.
 If she wants to chit chat on her dime after I am full and she asks me to stay awhile, I usually oblige.

In my experiences  the traveling ladies tend to talk a lot after the session or hint they'd like to go out to dinner.
If her rap was appealing and I wouldn't mind being in public with her, I'd usually offer her some OTC  
non sexual recreation time, away from their room
 
I usually booked the travelers late at night when I knew they wouldn't be in a hurry in anticipation of her next customer.
 I don't recall ever being rushed out before my time was up.  

 
 I  figured if I immediately start kissing her along with roaming hands, as soon as I walk in the door, before I drop the donation, when she kisses back with intensity ,  I'm fairly certain  I'm not walking into a rip off.
My prime directive for being there is sex.
More than a few working Gals commented with a version of  "Wow you  don't waste any time talking, you sure go for your goals"    

 
I've never been ripped off when paying for play.  
I have walked out a couple times,  when she gave me cold, fish face lips, before I dropped my donation.  
   
Years ago I visited a  Gal with great  reviews that said no kissing.  
I knew reputable guys who reviewed her so I thought why not, I'd never had sex without kissing first, I wanted to see what it's like. Since I'd  visited Gals with profiles that said covered BJ and she did BBBJ when I was there I thought maybe this babe kisses sometimes.  
She was worth my time at the time even though she didn't kiss me on my lips but  I never went back.  
   
   When  I'm in the dating game with civilian Gals I have no problem talking  their heads off until they give me head.
 Sometimes I talk so much they fuck me just to shut me up. :-D
Posted By: darmody

In my admittedly limited experience, I have found an oddly consistent patter. One in seven of the providers I've seen chew my ears off. Not that I'm complaining, because I don't mean they cut into my time or manage the clock poorly. I mean they go overtime pouring out the chatter. Maybe because they're lonely, locked up in hotel rooms all day, because they have something on their minds, or just because they get on a roll. I don't know.  
   
 Most girls get me out on time. Many hustle me out ten or fifteen minutes early. I'm not a great conversationalist, and I don't ramble on. So I never overstay my welcome with chit-chat. It's always up to them if we start way late or I hang around off the clock to listen.  
   
 There's an odd mathematical consistency to when it happens, is my point. Every seventh girl, as I said. Weird.

justsauce16 4 Reviews 164 reads
posted
10 / 13

Smartie seems really out of hand lately. One minute she's singing your praises for your wealth of experience, the next she's throwing around obscenities and calling you some kind of derogatory name.  

 
I could see the point if she wasn't hiding behind an alias. She says that she's an indie asian american provider, so I can see the need to market against the K-girls to an extent, but, noone knows who she is, so she's really just complaining with no real gain.

 
I'm beginning to see this weird pattern here though. It seems like smartie is really threatened by k-girls, and likely is right to be. K-girls are cheaper, better trained, less inhibited by western ideas, generally happy to be doing what they're doing etc. Maybe the truth is, smartie can't compete, so she has to attack anyone who is supporting the K-girl market.

 
The age old, if you can't beat them, attack their supporters. It worked well for old Hillary right?

coeur-de-lion 400 Reviews 186 reads
posted
11 / 13

If she's in a major Kgirl market, she could be struggling to compete.  Maybe that's why she had Greek on her menu until I mentioned turds flying out her ass if she doesn't butt-douche first.  

justsauce16 4 Reviews 179 reads
posted
12 / 13

I don't know how you got a relative size reference between me and CDL, so "little friend" might be a bit presumptuous.  

 
So, right, you keep using this term, "asian fetishists", and saying how terrible they are etc, but you haven't really linked anything concrete between CDL and said "asian fetishists" save for calling  him one.

 
So your argument is kinda the classic 2nd grade "CDL has cooties" kind of name calling. That's all fine and dandy, but you can do better than that. Give your argument some teeth, give it some concrete details. This passive aggressive name calling is uninteresting, it's lame.

The whole ignore-threat stuff is pretty weak as well. Just a couple days ago you were all about talking to CDL about his experiences.

 
Also the whole idea of an "asian fetishist" is kinda dubious. Sure there are people that are really properly attracted to asian women. Some of those people might really think that women are subhuman. Some of them might really value said asian women. I find it really weak to connect the asian thing to the subhuman women thing.  

I'm betting that *all* women in their minds are under men, and they just so happen to be attracted to asian women, but the might also be attracted to white women, or latina women. Does that make them a white fetishist? or a Latina fetishist? No, it makes them an asshole.

On the other hand, what if someone is really attracted to asian women? is that somehow not ok in your book? because I would hazard to say that's some pretty nazi-germany keep your bloodline clean racist bullshit.  

 
Honestly, because you hide behind an alias, it kinda makes me think that it's the latter.

coeur-de-lion 400 Reviews 179 reads
posted
13 / 13

of being BSC, a term we throw around here a lot but may not be understood by all.  She can go from an intelligent, reasoned discussion one minute, and then into total meltdown the next.  She is the kind of provider that you NEVER give your phone number to.  Whether she likes you or hates you, she's likely to stalk you, like she is me on this board.  Thankfully, she doesn't know who I really am.  

The fact that she thinks Kgirls are "submissive" shows that she lacks any credibility to talk about that segment of the market.  They are about as submissive as a pit bull.  You just show up, take off your clothes, and they will rock your world, all at a very good price.  In short, they are among the most aggressive providers I have seen, so Smartie (and I now use that term cautiously) saying they're submissive is just plain ignorant.  NOBODY sees a Kgirl because they want someone submissive.  

She can't answer your question about various ethnicities being fetishes, because she is looking at it from a negative racist perspective and not as a compliment that many men find Asian women just as attractive as white, latina or AA women.  Another example of her self-loathing and shame at being Asian when she should be proud and own it.  Very sad.  

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