I've noticed each year the hobby scene grows more and more on twitter. I'm not a twitter person but I am curious and would like to know if you find it helpful when it comes to seeking a date (finding out more about her or maybe even seeing another side of her) and I also know providers who like to use it to get a feel on the guy.

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I have a Twitter page which has only porn stars, providers, and athletes. None of my friends are on it. I enjoy the quotes and off beat photos which I have shared with you think frog legs spread and guy reading a book looking like a women blowing him that was taken off someone's Twitter page If your a provider ends up on my Twitter page I have intentions of seeing her eventually.  I think it's the best way to learn about somebody in the hobby before having a conversation with them.  

Surely they've seen as much in the frat/sororiety houses.

You definitely get a feel for the other person and it's quick in terms of material.

Sure. Twitter can show a more fun, open, maybe personal side to a lady and a gent. It can also backfire. I would watch exactly how much you put out there on social media sites. Some ladies like to place just a tad bit too much out there in my honest opinion. Gents too. That's is if you indeed care about what is seen or read lol. I am quite quite sure that many ladies and gents do not, which is their right. I have in the past declined to reach out to a lady based on what I read on Twitter but who am I lol. As mentioned by the above poster, keeping it locked is a good practice I think. Not for the reason given but just for your personal privacy.

Hope it works out well for you if you do decide to venture out there. It's just another way to represent yourself! Many many people use it for representation and viewing.

I'm not a social media type of person although I do see how it can be entertaining  I just never been into it but I see that it grows more and more especially in the hobby. Personally I prefer to just keep my "dating"  lifestyle on verified  boards but I see no harm in twitter, I just prefer not to have it.. I've heard the good and bad but I feel like if someone wants to know more about me my online presence and website is always available, I also think communication says alot so if my potential friend would like to chat, I welcome it with open arms,  

I do agree it's another form of representation for sure
Different strokes for Different folks

 

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there was a gent who posted in local Boston board, talking about how he cancelled out his booking with a very high end visiting provider when he found out through her twitter that her political views are way too liberal for him ...lol

I keep mine locked for privacy and control; however there are settings on the Twitter accounts for exposure to sensitive media. In addition theres a trillion porn stars on there- I personally prefer to keep my vajay for private meetings but if I decide to do PRO video work I will happily expose it anywhere that pays me properly

But I agree to your point, its safer for all of us to keep it all under lock and key!

I agree with you Zak!

I have created a Twitter to allow gentlemen to get a little more perspective about who I am and what my personality is like.  I think men enjoy the idea of following providers they may be interested in and it gives them a closer look into who they are and they feel closer to that person.  I do my best to be playful and interact with everyone it give us something to joke or talk about when we finally meet.

I don't do the political or religious posts as that can definitely create some drama. If used properly everyone benefits from it.

I do keep my Twitter private but accept requests.  Plus I get to meet other wonderful ladies as well!

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...beyond what you might find in her ads, reviews, website, etc. The content of her posts can give you a feel for her personality, tastes, etc. If she posts candid photos of herself (instead of professional glamour shots), it can give you a clearer sense of what she looks like in person.

Off the top of my head, I can think of two providers whose Twitter accounts convinced me to book sessions with them, and both of them were great (9s and 10s in both appearance and performance).

I think Twitter has been totally awesome for my marketing strategy.  

I'm also a very open person, so I don't worry about sharing "too" much. While I don't explicitly say what [small] school I go to, for example, someone could easily figure it out if they cared to. But I don't care if people know, though I won't openly say where, if that makes sense.  

I don't air dirty laundry, though I am honest when I'm having the [occasional] bad day. Just recently during finals week, I posted about how super duper stressed I was, freaking out about cramming for my exams. When I came out to my parents last year, I posted about how our relationship was tarnished from that. So it's not all "la dee daa" fake stuff, but it's also not "drama queen" stuff. Yes, I do post some "controversial" stuff. It's a form of screening. I don't WANT to see super conservative clients who are anti-abortion, gun-slinging homophobes. So I make it clear that I'm pro-choice and "radical." If my differing views put them off (aka they can't handle other opinions), then I HOPE they're scared off. That leaves the clients that I WILL connect really well with, and have great chemistry with. I keep it real.  

I also know providers who are very private people. who successfully manage Twitter accounts. They just don't share a lot of personal details like I do. They use it mostly for last minute availability notices, sharing sexual shenanigans they're getting up to, etc. So it can be done. You don't need to become an "open book" to have a Twitter account.  

Most of my business comes from Backpage and Twitter. Really. And I have AMAZING clients. Most people who book with me comment that either my Twitter or blog helped "seal the deal" for them, in that they got to know my personality a bit more and then really wanted to book with me.  

Social media is indispensable to my business.  

Twitter: @chelseaxlane