I am wondering on other's opinions on this.....I emailed a provider whom I have never seen and told her that I visited her website and read her reviews on TER and thought she was beautiful and intriguing. I wasn't rude or crude at all and then told her when I would be in her area and wanted to set up a date if she was available. I told her I could provide references and such. Her response was basically, thanks, now fill out my form. It seemed somewhat cold and aloof. Now, she has great references and I tend to give her the benefit of the doubt, but wonder what others think if they were to get such a cold response to a request?
You sent her the same email as 20 other guys today, and she doesn't have time to spend on maybes. Some guys want the illusion to begin with the first contact. You aren't on the clock yet. If it bothers you, find someone else.
Seriously... She gets like 50 emails a day telling her how beautiful she is. Fill out her form with whatever information you feel comfortable with, and she will probably get more receptive if it what you provide is adequate for her screening process.
I've always atleast got a, "thank you for the compliment" reply. I can see the guys point. It's good manners, wether you are a provider or not. To be fair to her, we don't know what kind of mind-set she was in, when she responded. ( havng a bad day, maybe? )
I will be in town on this date and would like to schedule a 8pm appointment. Here are my references for you . I visited your website and also filled out the form I saw . Please let me know ..............
You seem to have a hard time following instructions - it's really not that difficult !
Do buisness partners who seem somewhat cold and aloof hurt your feelings as well ?
By getting verification out of the way first, the trust issue is taken care of. Ladies always dig my ass once references check out so I don't take it personally if initlally they are aloof.
I too am cold and aloof to anyone who sends me email or calls me, unless I know they are a friend & cool to chat and catch up on things.
(Not that I enjoy talking on the phone. Most of my calls are no longer then 3 minutes. Must be a typical asian guy thing, especially far east drunk ones with a very short attention span.... Lol )
If her website says, FILL THE FORM, then go ahead and do so. Then follow up with an email saying you filled the form. When meeting a new lady, I always like to come across as decent, professional and with the attitude I AM NOT GOING TO WASTE YOUR TIME, AND I DARE NOT WASTE MINE EITHER....
out their little form on their website, others are not so particular about it. I've had that happen to me. If it's someone you really want to see, then you are going to have to fill out her little form. If you don't want to fill out her little form or if you really don't care to see her that much one way or the other, find someone else that isn't so particular about their website form and move on.
I am wondering on other's opinions on this.....I emailed a provider whom I have never seen and told her that I visited her website and read her reviews on TER and thought she was beautiful and intriguing. I wasn't rude or crude at all and then told her when I would be in her area and wanted to set up a date if she was available. I told her I could provide references and such. Her response was basically, thanks, now fill out my form. It seemed somewhat cold and aloof. Now, she has great references and I tend to give her the benefit of the doubt, but wonder what others think if they were to get such a cold response to a request?
Are you a fucking guy or not for fucks sake? why so fucking sensitive? your paying to fuck her not be her besties. just fill out the fucking form an see what happens when you get together. if she treats you like shit then fucking leave. this is still a fuck board right?
When I email a provider I usually put in the subject : TER Date Request. I give a specific day and time. I don't fill out her contact form, but I put in the email everything she requested on the form, including rreferences and usually a little about myself. Most, not all the times, this does the trick. And if I don't hear back, I usually just move on. Way to many choices out there.
Hey, I was just wondering....wow, some of you are just dicks. It has nothing to do with my feelings being hurt or being sensitive, just wondering how you would compare someone like that with someone more outgoing. FYI, I did give exact date and time I wanted to meet. Thank you to those not being dicks.
She may have woken up to see 20 new emails. When looking at emails from new clients, we don't really read them on the first go. We scan them. We are looking for your screening info. Since it wasn't included in your first email, she let you know what she'd like to see from you.
Had she recieved your screening form, I'm sure she would've put a lot more time into her response.
But I agree with what others have said. Be specific. Mention a day, time, and duration and I'm sure she'll perk up.
she knows you, she may just be that way. Also, the "cold" aspect is your feeling, your response to what she did, ie she was not "cold," she was brief and to the point. You interpreted it as cold.
Personally, I think you may be too emotionally fragile or needy to be hobbying. I could be wrong - I don't you. Maybe you are just nieve.
Here's a tip worth following. If there is ANYTHING you don't like, just move on. But when you do, REALLY move on and FORGET about it. Or talk to your therapist about it.
Thanks. I don't take it personal and as others have so "dickishly" stated, I didn't get my feelings hurt. I was simply wondering what others thought of first responses like this as to how they may choose a different provider than one has seen in the past. I know they deal with a ton of ASSCLOWNS and that is unfortunate, which is why, FYI, I did give an exact date and time requested to meet. Happy Fucking too!
How bad you wanna fuck her? I mean, WTF is so special about her that fucking makes you wanna write this fucking shit?
Are you hoping she fucking sees this and she'll think you're a nice fucking guy? You sent her the fucking link? Didn't you! Fucking pussy.
You know, with all the fucking ladies out there, you gotta get your fucking Underoos all in a bunch over this one. If she hurt your fucking feelers now, just imagine what she'll do if you DO end up fucking her!
Why don't you just fucking sign over the title to your fucking sled? Or better yet, have mom sign over the house of which basement you fucking reside? THAT'LL make her wanna see your fucking ass!
Dude. Fucking grow a pair. There's literally THOUSANDS of fucking ladies that'll fuck you for money. You know the drill. Be clean, respectable, have the proper donation, all that fucking shit, and for fuck sakes don't ever admit or acknowledge you had contact with my twisted, fucking ass!...
Had to get that out, lol! Give her another shot. Like the rest said previously, she probably has dozens of requests for her time every day. If she gives you the same feeling with your next inquiry, just move on to the next. The ladies understand this, and so should you.
Dude. Fucking grow a pair. There's literally THOUSANDS of fucking ladies that'll fuck you for money. You know the drill. Be clean, respectable, have the proper donation, all that fucking shit, and for fuck sakes don't ever admit or acknowledge you had contact with my twisted, fucking ass!...
You have been sorely mistreated, and on behalf of all providers here on TER, I would like to offer you "gentleman's choice" -- any one of us for an entire day! With extra special ass kissing to compensate for your mental anguish.
running a biz. It would of been nice, to atleast get a thank you for the compliment reply. If and when, you deliver the envelope, you should see a much warmer person, i sure hope so.
If I had a nickle for every post I read about guys sending emails and making calls and never getting a jingle back, I'd have enough to buy a sandwich.
I've been chasing one gal now for almost two weeks with nary a response.
If her manner puts you off then keep looking, but don't be too harsh on her. She might have been dealing with some ass-wipes that day.
Also, it is always good to read a gal's site and see what her rules are. If it says fill out my form, and you want to see her, then fill out the form.
Another thing that will get you better treatment is to name a day and time and duration. That makes the whole thing a lot more real to her. You can also put down that the day and time can be varied depending on her schedule, and maybe give some alternate dates.
Good luck with this and thanks for posting as this seems to be a topic with a lot of interest.
So what was her response more elaborately? It appears to me that the devil may be in the details. Perhaps her words sounded cold to you, but would not sound cold to someone else. If I got a basic thanks, I would probably find that appropriate. What sort of response were you expecting?
I always take the time to say thank you so much for your interest in me and again for the kind words.In order to prevent your email from getting misplaced , lost or overlooked please contact me using my contact page listed in the upper left corner of my site. Please put all of your verification information in the page it truly helps me find you when I confirm , and stays where I can locate it if I should need your number, at last moment.
Some are too lazy to do this but that is ok they probably got buried anyway.So if you don't wan't to be buried in a pile of other emails send her page to her she isnt being cold shes probably answering alot of other emails too that used the contact page .
....are visual, and think with the other head when writing. While I always appreciate an introductory e-mail, it is usually accompanied by my appointment form. While ladies do appreciate that you have been screened through "XYZ", and have references, for most of us, it is not enough.
If you were to send me the e-mail that you sent to the lady in question, I would have said, " while I truly do appreciate your interest, and your compliments, I do need to have the completed appointment form from my website. I do hope we will have the opportunity to meet when you are in (?)". I acknowledge his compliments, and effort, but he knows I need more, without being rude.
....are visual, and think with the other head when writing. While I always appreciate an introductory e-mail, it is usually accompanied by my appointment form. While ladies do appreciate that you have been screened through "XYZ", and have references, for most of us, it is not enough.
If you were to send me the e-mail that you sent to the lady in question, I would have said, " while I truly do appreciate your interest, and your compliments, I do need to have the completed appointment form from my website. I do hope we will have the opportunity to meet when you are in (?)". I acknowledge his compliments, and effort, but he knows I need more, without being rude.
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