This makes me the captain of my own ship. And since we're mixing multiple metaphors, I can lead my own dance through the race, from start to finish.

In real life (just because I am naturally such a dominating bitch) I prefer for the guy to toss me around and use me like a plastic fkin doll. Just sayin.

I always know she's the one who's really in charge, even when she's playing Subbie.

are quite dominant in the bedroom, at least from my experience. They don't enjoy games, want they want, get it and that's what satisfies them. No bullshit. Then on the flipside, there are the power guys who have to be the submissive and relinquish all of their control to be satisfied. They love nothing more than a woman to take charge. I have met a few of those as well. It's an easy read to distinguish between each of these guys. While I won't share which I like more because it really depends on the individual in question and our connection...I will say if a dominant male actually knows 'what' he's doing, naturally......it can be a pretty intense time, at least for me. But it has to be naturally instilled in him as part of who he is. Can't be 'faked', you can read that it a mile away.

and I have to think that this is the case in well over 90% of the cases, so I call the shots, and I'm fine with that.

But occasionally, after I've known a gal for a while usually, she starts to feel like she knows me well enough to allow herself to take charge (often after a bit of imbibing) and then wowie, do things get interesting.

When a gal can truly be herself when she is sexed up, the rocket's red-glare comes out.

I just had what was one of the top experiences in my 11 years of hobbying. What's topical is I let the girl take charge in a roleplay situation, whereas I am usu the dominant one. Talking five prime nuts in two hours. One of the best ones was where I started to cum in a dt bbbj and she covered my mouth with her little hand. Wow.  

Curiously, I had a submissive amazing experience with my SO many years ago. I think I'm mostly dominant - only submissive with the right girl.

love to use my strap on. But i love to be told to suck daddys cock good like a good little whore. Its a tie race for me. I have even had an x of mine  do face sitting on fucking me, what a perv.

I enjoyed reading just about every reply, even got a chubby from a few of the ladies responses.

I personally like to take charge, in fact I'm planning a trip to see a goddess this year who states on her website that she is a sub and I would like her to guide me through allowing more of my dom side expression to bloom. I plan on using her like a good little toy. After reading about BDSM and seeing some video of it I am sure that the real and exciting part of it is the mental aspects of the dom/sub relationship. Of course there is some punishment but it's not the main focus as I had thought prior to researching it. This was a relief for me, because I'm not attracted to the pain aspect of it, but I do enjoy the physical excitement and anticipation of it.

Every once in a while we have an interesting, thought provoking post in here, I think this one fits that mold. And I've learned that a lady who I absolutely must see is a sub, bonus. I'd better hurry though because I am getting older and it won't be too long before I am too old to be a client of hers.

Once we get into K9 position I'm driving.  For some reason that position gives me the illusion that I am in control and powerful.  I don't like going to that position though until the very end of the session.  I like to be pleased by the gal for a decent amount of time and doggy always makes me cup extremely quick.