When setting up appointments I like to plan... a few days in advance. Especially with new providers. For me it's a discretion thing... it's not to often I'm alone or can take phone calls. Additionally I like to correspond my sessions with my day to day business appointments. Playing phone tag just isn't for me.
Initiating contact mail is always preferred then moving to the phone to nail down the details works perfectly for me. One provider in my area has great reviews and seems to have regular incall sessions, however she insists that you book exclusively through her agent. The problem I have is that she never updates her availability or her calendar on her website or any of the review sites. She's prettty much a BP girl... which means if you catch her ad at 10 am and have availaibility in the next 4-5 hours, maybe you can get an appointment.
I've never called... and never tried to book an appointment with her. But considering she's over an hour away and my availability is early daytime only how do I go about asking for an appointment? Call her booker and ask if she's available next Wednesday at 1pm? Makes me a bit leery that she doesn't require screening (I prefer ladies who do). How far in advance do you book an appointment with an agency girl?
who is she some tims we have bookers because life is way to crazy to handle everything on our own .just give her a ring whats the worst that can happen .....
I wouldn't waste my time with a provider who doesn't update her availability. Is she reviewed on TER? There are plenty of lovely ladies out there who will happily conduct business in exactly the way you prefer. Why waste time with one who won't?
I've never booked more than a day out with an agency girl. Any sooner is a waste of time since often times schedules change from day to day.
I hate to say this but don't even bother with BP type ladies. Find someone who is independent and will make an appointment. I went thru the same thing with a young lady who had all 9 reviews, super hot, low rates. I just had to give it a try. I called her and asked about an apointment on the next day and she said call back when I was ready and she was a real witch on the phone. I'm done with the call me when you are ready ladies. If they won't book an appointment, either on their own or with an agent, they are not worth the effort.
BP posts free ads for women who post here on TER. CityVibe will also post free ads for the ladies, but not as often or for as long as BP will leave the ad up. On a few occasions I have received an email from BP with a link to the ad they just posted for me, for free, based on my TER ad and my web site link, unsolicited by me. Of course, I could say no I don't want you to give me a free ad and had them take that down, by why shake a stick at free advertising if they give it to you?
So don't be so hard on the girl just because of where you find her ad. If she doesn't have any reviews on a reputable site, then chances are it will be a TOFTT situation. But also keep in mind, many of the ladies who are reputable members of TER started out on sites like CL and BP.
CO-SIGN *coughs* lol. And given some of the gents i've met from TER well not some but a handful just because the guy is an established member on TER doesn't necessarily mean he's the nicest guy. I've talked to a few just a few d-bags who were from TER through email only. I don't like talking by email unless we've talked on the phone once or twice already and we use email A FEW TIMES here and there just to keep up but make no mistake I don't like email tag or phone tag either. I just don't like email being the first means of contact
i also like to call as opposed to e-mailing - i'll usually e-mail just to ask when a good time to call is - sometimes work gets busy for me so my available times are tight, especially for visiting ladies, so making arrangements early before someone is booked up is preferable
i usually say something like "hi - i saw so-and-so's ad and wanted to make arrangements to see her in the near future" - the scheduler will ask when you were thinking of and you should say "well, i work during the day and it's kind of hectic right now so my schedule is tight so what really would work well for me is (whenever)"
if she tells you to call back sooner, do that - if she tells you to call back that day then do that - if she tells you something that sounds like BS and your detector goes off, move on
if you get the appt, try to call back quickly the day prior to confirm
i am sure you're not the only one with this type of situation, so if she's good she should be used to handling it - if the provider is too scatterbrained to handle it then that probably means something else is awry
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