Dearest Felicia, it is so unfortunate that a wonderful treasure like yourself has to through such ugliness.  If you would welcome a little brightness in your day, please let me know.

Hmm, what to do.  I've seen a few providers who can combat such nastiness by keeping a menacing-looking pet around.  The fear of being mauled on by a rotweiler or a bull mastif can weigh alot in a man's mind, Nietsche include.  Now, if you could only feed Jpeg some hormones and put him on a strignant program of weights and chewy toys...alright, may be jpeg isn't the solution.

You could try what Susie on the SanDiego board did when she was almost raped by a "client."  She described his profile without going into anything personal.  However, that can lead to stereotypes.  A reasonable method is to suggest that TER add on a section where providers rate the reviewers.  It's only fair. Likewise, the person being review has the opportunity to say otherwise.  And don't worry about a negative review.  We believe in your character and talent, and your track record is outstanding, bordering on perfection.

Falicia,

There is a new site out that has a place for girls to post about men hurting them.  you will need to contact them and go through a registration to be able to post in the room.

www.SweetInterlude.com

Hope this helps.

Steami

Oh Dear!

I hope you are doing fine, dear FF. I can't believe anyone would think of hurting you in any way, shape or form. Maybe I'm being inordinately dense, but I didn't get a sense from your post of what kind of threat you faced be it mental, physical or emotional (not that the type matters at all...) but take heart that fr every one of him, there seems to be 5+ that adore you...

wishing you the best,

Shortstuff

I've only hadda coupla bad experiences in my short career (3 years), but those experiences had me gaggin' for awhile!  Sorry you've experienced any mental, pshchological, physical or psychic miseries in any way.  We all love ya!  That doesn't take away the unpleasant encounter... but at least you know you have our vote of confidence and love!  XO Faye Desiree

Dear Ladies and Gents.

Thank you so much!  I was touched by your kind thoughts, and helpful info (G2 and Steami).  Yes I am fine...I needed yesterday to calm down,  "clear" and get perspective.

And for the ladies who emailed me I will be posting on the two sites that these fine people mentioned within the next day or so.  I am also putting everything into a word document so I can answer the private emails quickly.

I dont believe this scamming "client" is at the point where he will damage anyone, but then again, I can't say what path he is on, or how long it will be if he should revert to a stronger agenda.  It's enough that he spreads a negativity and is abusive in his manners. He should and can be avoided.

What struck me,  He couldnt figure out why i didnt let him run into the hallway half naked after  I caught his scam...i told him sternly and quietly to put on his clothes and leave with dignity...something I believe he rarely experiences. The lok in his eye when he turned the wrong way going down the hall and I softly called out "other way"...told me that he wasn't sure if the machine guns were waiting for him.

Again, as someone said to me once, felicia why don't you post a good experience, I would love to. But I dont want to seem like I am starting some kind of bragging contest.  I also know that other ladies go through the good bad and ugly.   And yes, shortstuff,U r right, and, more than not I experience the better, not the worse.


In fact Basque happens to be one of those gents who is a verrrry lovely experience.  And a womdrful human being, Hi!

Bondbroker, you didn't leave your email addy, but you know mine...

Thank you!

xoxo

FF

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